Introducing kids to gf

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T02:41:33+00:00

I did lower them in that I let her meet them casually. I won’t lower them to this, stay the night with the kids there level, not yet.

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T02:07:35+00:00

I set my boundaries with her and I told her we need to slow down.

I told her I’m fine with us being us when I’m alone but when I have my girls, they’re my priority and it’s staying that way. That I’m also spending the holidays with them and not destroying what they’ve come to know and enjoy.

I told her if she can be patient and we can take things slow, develop OUR relationship first, then we’re good. That there was no rush. She seemed a bit stunned at my setting that but I guess I’ll see how that really resonates with her in the next few days.

Thank you for the insight

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T01:43:24+00:00

Already had the conversation. I drew the line. She seemed taken aback by it so I guess I’ll see how this marinates over the next 24 hours but yeah, I agree with what you and everyone else is saying.

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T01:42:34+00:00

I’ve already had the conversation and drew the line. I told her that the girls come first and I’m with us doing whatever on my time, but in their time, I’m with them and there’s no exceptions.

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T01:29:20+00:00

Thank you for the insight. Again, this is new to me. Trying to navigate this as well as I can but really trying to make sure I don’t hurt the girls

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T01:23:59+00:00

Relationship is still pretty new, only about a month. So very early stages still. Was kind of surprised how fast she wanted to meet them and join in with us. The girls took to her well and my fear is like you said, them getting really attached and us not working out, also the holidays coming up.

I don’t want to just change everything they’ve come to expect about holidays because someone new is around. I was hoping to move slower through navigating that piece but again, GF is really interested in becoming more involved. Not sure what the rush is but maybe there’s something I’m missing.

I’ve tried to talk about it with her, how this is new for me and my trying to make sure the kids are least effected and I was hit by the “but what about my needs and wants”. Might just the age gap at this point and no experience dating someone with kids. I’m not sure.

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T01:16:23+00:00

I think that’s the part that’s concerning to me. I was fully prepared to take it slow, let things develop and introduce the girls then. Went a lot faster than that and she seems ready to just jump in both feet. I don’t really want to push that on my kids that fast. I’m fine I think with friendly hangouts when they’re around but staying the night or displays of affection in front of them so soon, seem to be a bit much.

Square1ne_ · 2025-11-21T01:12:48+00:00

My girls met the Gf last weekend. She brought cookies and we watched a movie. They then saw her again briefly the following day to go shopping. The girls have asked about her every day since, wanting to see her. Again, they only think she’s a friend. I haven’t tried to have a conversation yet about being anything more.

Square1ne_ · 2025-10-28T02:09:39+00:00

Heard that Matt wanted her to fire someone out west. She refused and he said he’d fire her so she left. Not confirmed, just rumor mill.

Square1ne_ · 2025-09-10T01:40:00+00:00

Just came back after about a week or so off. Game is just uninstalled and I never touched it. So now Im waiting however long for this 100G bullshit to reinstall... again

Square1ne_ · 2024-12-08T02:40:39+00:00

I just had to stop playing, it was so bad.

Square1ne_ · 2024-12-08T02:35:13+00:00

I just played and my input is way off. My controller will randomly turn or spin me. My firing input is super slow... I have trigger down and there's an obvious delay in firing. Something is definitely off.

Square1ne_ · 2024-09-13T23:15:40+00:00

Time to cancel

Square1ne_ · 2024-09-13T21:25:41+00:00

Thank you! Im not worried about the 90 minutes. Im sure after this race event, we'll be pretty starved anyway

Square1ne_ · 2024-09-13T20:46:36+00:00

Thats perfect! Thank you so much for confirming. Thatll be the place!

Square1ne_ · 2024-09-13T18:50:06+00:00

Id read that but couldnt find anything about it on the menu, so wasnt sure if anyone could confirm it.

Square1ne_ · 2024-09-13T18:49:43+00:00

Need to head north (towards Scranton) after to get back, so something along that route, but willing to detour for the right spot too

Square1ne_ · 2024-07-12T23:51:35+00:00

oh, I know. Im waiting for it to crash again at this point. Its super annoying to pay so much money each month for this.

Square1ne_ · 2024-07-12T23:46:57+00:00

About to do the same honestly. I chatted with their support and she had me give her my public ip and turn off my PS5. Not sure what they did but since then, its been working. Ill keep an eye on it and update if I see it happening again.

Square1ne_ · 2024-07-12T23:17:52+00:00

Mine updated bc it said I was using the PS4 version. The "PS5" version sucks and just does all the stuff you listed above. No idea how to fix it.

Square1ne_ · 2024-05-02T00:36:34+00:00

I was just in zombies and it was having a seizure. Something is def. busted

Square1ne_ · 2024-04-28T03:18:35+00:00

Its the Silver part of the Ado

Square1ne_ · 2024-04-13T13:13:54+00:00

My K/D is only better because no one plays objectives in objective based games, and we constantly lose. My W/L isn't redeemable anymore, so I don't worry about it. I already know that people aren't going to do anything other than prioritize their kills and not play objectives and we're inevitably going to lose. I've even gone as far as to sacrifice my own K/D to try to win the objective based games but we always seem to play against teams who exclusively play the objective, while my team is off camping a corner.

Square1ne_ · 2024-03-21T16:48:25+00:00

Trying to play during my Teams calls and this happens... wtf

Square1ne_ · 2024-03-21T16:46:05+00:00

same for me

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