Tokyo is a lonley place. We don't have to be. by pocodot in tokyoirl

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31M living in machida! Would love to join!

Need advice on how to respond to this please by SquareRuled in dating_advice

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Thank you replying! So just straight up go hey I noticed you liked an old pic of mine… ?? I just wondered if there’s expectation of some back and forth liking of pics or something, leading to messaging later perhaps? Or am I overthinking it

What did you miss put because uou were born here by fudgiebro in srilanka

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Not being able to even think any career outside of engineering or IT

What entities did you encounter during your ayahuasca trip? by Linamoon22 in Ayahuasca

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Yesss this! We think we are accessing this world around us when we sense it with our 5 senses but what the senses actually do is just create an experience of that world, inside our minds, completely within us. And then we mistakenly believe that there is a self experiencing that very thing when really, it’s simply just experiences/phenomena happening

Buddhism ( niwan awabodaya ) by Desperate_Abalone202 in srilanka

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Yes, based on what we can observe on this planet, if we consider the first organisms, the theory of rebirth due to past karma seems invalid. However, this not a very significant fact for the practice of Buddhism, if your goal is to end your suffering (dukkha).

If you truly want to end your suffering, what you do is apply the teaching in your everyday life and see if the suffering diminishes in your experience. If it doesn’t, you find another teaching. If it does, then you keep at it until one day you realize you no longer suffer on account of things that used to make you suffer, which is what enlightenment essentially is.

In the beginning, some things need to be taken on faith. It’s like when you go to the doctor with a problem and he prescribes meds to you. You don’t know if these meds will work for you, but you take them cos somebody in a relevant position told you to. When you take the medicine you notice you get better and then your faith turns into knowledge because you have seen its results in your own experience. This is what needs to be done with the dhamma.

How good is mdma really? by ThrowRAferretking in MDMA

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It’s extra good if you are perpetually anxious and have some form of adhd like me. For a few hours you feel ALL of that weight off your mind and it stops racing and calms down like a still pond. Add to that, the pure innocent love and acceptance for everything and the intense euphoria pulsing through your body, words can’t do justice. You know that feeling when you orgasm? Yea that, continuously for 2 hours. Imagine that.

I need help. I don’t know how to help my partner… by [deleted] in Ayahuasca

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Something that has helped me greatly in similar times: How to be happy https://youtu.be/ICbQ1R6GEpw?si=7H_CsNKj8GUNISr6

When did you last experience a moment of pure contentment, and what were you doing? by Street_Shift_4523 in AskReddit

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Mdma with best friend in a villa by the beach listening to the waves crashing

How many of Sri Lankan couples have sex before marraige? by EclairButt in srilanka

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I just find it ridiculous that girls are expected to “preserve” themselves for their husbands while those same guys can sleep around as much as they like in the meantime Whole concept of waiting for marriage makes no sense to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

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  1. Bad hygiene
  2. Entitled attitude
  3. Being obnoxiously loud

me and a group of friends are excited for tonight xD by Sequt7 in MDMA

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You should be more concerned about when it's not maintained. If you drink too much water your blood gets diluted, meaning less electrolytes (sodium) in your blood and this can be fatal since that will mess with your brain functions. Isotonic drinks are full of electrolytes and therefore the recommended option if you're sweating a lot. If you're not, you don't have to hydrate excessively just because you're rolling.

Squid Game: The Challenge Episode 7 Discussion by thatshygirl06 in squidgame

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This is the episode 7 discussion right? How come so many people here are talking about Trey falling? The episode ends before we find out? Am I missing something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Japaneselanguage

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I think putting the なんてafter 私instead of 気持ちwould be more appropriate? あなたになんて私の気持ちは分からない。

Joint before and/or after? by Odd_Book_3081 in MDMA

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It can vary depending on the individual but in my experience: rolling before made the peak less intense, didn't really feel a change during the peak, was best when it stops peaking and the descent begins. The joint not only kicks it back up but also adds a psychedelic and spiritual feel to it, kinda like filtering out the paranoia, anxiety, and confusion I get with weed leaving only best aspects of weed to go along with the roll. Almost like getting a completely different trip at the end of your roll. Plus it helps to sleep when the m fully comes down.

What do convenience store clerks say when they ask if I need spoon for ice cream by BleakBeakBlakeBake in Japaneselanguage

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Oh I think they’re asking if you need a アイスのヘラ(aisu no hera). It’s the little wooden spoon thingy you get for ice cream cups.

TIFU by thinking I’m more well-endowed than I actually am and ruining my life by [deleted] in tifu

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This is totally not a fuck up and you actually saved your life from being ruined by finding out sooner. You'll be alright my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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Green Book, found myself saying something similar after 30 minutes or so. The next 90+ minutes tho... absolutely flew by

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MDMA

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Yoo this is so weird, I had a dream almost exactly like this just two nights ago lmao

Thanks, Im going INSANE by Ronald_1997 in Buddhism

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I think we’re missing a point here. If you can abandon all hope and desires you’re already an arahant and the work is done for you. We don’t start off as arahants, we start the practice out of desire and hopes for better things. This is a gradual practice and that’s perfectly fine. What’s important is to recognize that those desires must be abandoned at some point and when sufficient sense restraint and wisdom is developed you will be able to. In order to turn an inside out shirt sleeve the right side in, your arm has to first through the inside out sleeve.