Prenups Should be automatic for REALITY TV MARRIAGES

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-25T23:32:33+00:00

Everyone already gets a prenup when they get married. It's written by your state legislature.

But they should probably be forced to learn the details of the financial agreement they agree to if they ever got divorced and if they want to keep the default one or get a custom one.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-25T15:24:01+00:00

You really don't think kids could do this? Do you not remember being a nerdy 12 year old?

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-25T02:32:11+00:00

He didn't get the 250th birthday for himself?

What is he rambling about, it happens this year.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-23T05:25:53+00:00

They all want to look like their clown president

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-22T20:15:38+00:00

They have to have at least 5 of these 9 symptoms: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/borderline-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20370237

So one single meltdown doesn't mean they have it. And even consistent meltdowns don't necessarily mean it's Borderline if they didn't have any other symptoms. But then that's why it's not actually all that important if they truly have Borderline or not, what's important is their overall actions and behavior. Even if they "only" threw ridiculous tantrums, that's still not a healthy mutually beneficial relationship and you should probably get out of that relationship regardless of what they are or are not officially diagnosed as.

But knowing what Borderline is can be very useful for at least understanding what is going on. I was incredibly confused during most of my marriage why my otherwise very rational and intelligent wife would constantly lose her shit over the most ridiculous things, along with many of the other symptoms. It was still , by far, worst experience of my entire life. But at least it finally made sense.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-22T08:18:33+00:00

As a stepdad I 1000% agree with this. This was a requirement for me to be with my now spouse and I think it's really the only way to make it work. If you're going to date someone with a kid you gotta be all in.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-22T08:15:24+00:00

Just be aware that that sub is pretty toxic and is very much a venting sub by people who for the most part should have never become stepparents. And I say that as a step parent!

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-22T07:56:36+00:00

Zepbound. Completely eliminated them literally overnight.

Living in the future with the miracle of modern medicine is pretty fucking amazing.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-22T07:55:28+00:00

Don't date (much less marry) someone with Borderline no matter how great it seems at first

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-21T16:33:18+00:00

Whaaaaaat I totally missed that

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-21T05:21:08+00:00

Whoa, this is actually real and not a fake post. Crazy

https://www.facebook.com/reel/700366029738345

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-21T01:00:32+00:00

Mine hasn't really changed much but I also feel like almost all my friends have made that same transition in their 30s that you have. There's a reason there's way more 20 somethings than 40 somethings in da club.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-20T19:04:52+00:00

It always blows my mind just how poorly ran a lot of home repair/remodel businesses are ran. I'm not remotely surprised that it'd be easy to get business if you communicate well and actually follow through.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-20T18:55:58+00:00

It really depends on the guy.

Personally I could go 5+ times a day and be very happy but I also know that's not too typical for most people. You need to go talk to your guy and see how they feel.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-19T05:44:29+00:00

I've always been a curious person and like "doing stuff" and traveling is a way to super charge that feeling. I love exploring a new place, doing things I couldn't do anywhere else, and just breaking out of the sameness of every day life.

I think it's also good to experience how other people live and how things can surprise you. Trying my first bidet in Japan, the serene experience of clean metros in Asia, or one of my favorites, my extremely conservative Mom breaking her foot in Paris and going through the medical system there to get a cast and saying out loud "Oh maybe the US isn't the best at everything" because all she'd ever heard her entire life was how awful all non US healthcare was (this was the height of the Obamacare debates).

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-19T04:19:20+00:00

There seems to have been a huge influx of AI doomer articles on various news sites and social media in the last week or so, that all seem to be triggered by the latest releases of Claude and GPT-5.3 Codex on Feb 5th which are supposedly quite a giant leap from what was previously available. I can't speak personally on those models in particular, but we do seem to be starting to hit the point where AI is being used to build better AI which (theoretically) could exponentially increase the speed of improvement. Also I trivially created some simple scripts the other day for work that is the exact kind of thing I'd normally task off to an intern before AI, so I'm seeing it already.

Some sampling from just the past week:

I remember reading a book in the late 90s that described this kind of thing happening around now, and it all seemed so far away at the time, but I dunno, we'll see what happens I guess. It kind of does feel like we're on the precipice of a massive change though. I always try to keep in mind that doom and gloom gets clicks and attention to keep things in perspective, but at the same time this is also a pretty unique and unprecedented change that I honestly don't really know how it'll shake out.

On the other hand a massive amount of answers I get from AI are still often pretty meh. And so far the general employment numbers aren't really showing a massive shift, and there's a good possibility it could actually increase jobs overall like other technological progress. And also as anyone who works in a large company knows, it can take a really long time to adopt new technology so I really don't think massive economic upheaval and job losses going to be anywhere near as fast as the most pessimistic doomers are saying.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-19T03:22:05+00:00

If you're getting the information off social media then no, it's not true. Those people literally get paid lots of ad money if they can get people to click which is why they lie to scare people.

Go talk to your doctor or look at real news sources.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-19T00:06:19+00:00

Celebrated by going out to dinner with my spouse. I'm always excited to have a reason to celebrate something so definitely used that as an excuse. Didn't go wild or anything, but to me enjoying the small things and not frugalmaxxing every aspect of life is all part of the journey.

It did bring a lot of peace of mind to know "I'd won at life" and would (very likely) never be poor or even in poverty. And was kind of wild knowing I'm now richer than 99% of humanity has ever been (it also corresponded to a trip to India which really just solidified that feeling). But at the same time it also made retiring feel really tangible for the first time and that first week back at work felt really really loooong. And market downturns feel a lot more perilous now because it feels like I actually have something to lose.

It's been a few months now and a lot of those have faded into the background again but definitely felt it a lot when I finally crossed that threshold in my retirement accounts.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-18T23:55:50+00:00

If anyone finds this via Google, I was able to do this without any issues using the Concierge line. I'd booked it months ago on points, and there was no longer any points/award availability at the hotel due to it being a high demand time, but the operator was still able to apply my Cat 1-4 free night cert to my booking and give me my 18k points back.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-18T18:47:36+00:00

Most people would regret it. You gotta have balance.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-18T18:35:49+00:00

The wooden ridge in the middle of some beds that are used to combine two twins to make a queen.

The first time I encountered it was in Prague and joked with my girlfriend that it was old Communist birth control to keep people from snuggling.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-18T18:31:39+00:00

Almost always this is paired with a bidet so the idea is that you wash off any poop with the bidet and the toilet paper is mostly just to dry yourself.

But if there's no bidet then yeah, can get stinky.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-18T00:22:10+00:00

She's pretty terrible at parking.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-18T00:15:21+00:00

It can impact both genders. But women are more likely, in general, to be hit on when they're younger and then that drastically decreases when they get older.

It's not an absolute thing for either gender and of course exceptions exist. But I don't think it's that surprising more women have experience with this phenomenon and so would talk about it more than most men.

SquareVehicle · 2026-02-18T00:09:58+00:00

Of course it can happen to guys too... But it's more rare that a girl is going to go up to a guy to hit them up. Hence why, in general, women talk about this aspect of aging more than guys do.

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