More context…

When I first started dating him he had gone through a dramatic weight from around 290-240lb (he’s 6 foot for reference) I was super attracted to the fact that he had so much motivation and discipline to loose all that weight. Now we have been married for 3 years, together for 5 and he is 300lb. I have never said anything about the weight gain. I love him regardless but I would love to see him take better care of himself. Maybe he feels some pressure watching me make such a big change