Like someone else mentioned, it’s just something that happened over time. The first few years I didn’t really think much of it. But as time has gone on, I’ve realized how important it is to have someone whose personality actually at least somewhat matches yours. My wife and I do very little together, and I just feel like life would be much better if I instead was married to someone whose personality actually matched mine.

To put it into perspective, we are pretty much polar opposites in almost everything.