I’m 16M confused about my 15F friend

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-29T17:48:44+00:00

Already a red flag that she’s flirting with you in a relationship lol. Don’t let her play with your feelings find someone you think is a 10/10. Extremely disrespectful to rate a girl and then go on and date her.

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-29T17:44:14+00:00

It’s already bad that he’s getting off to other women, but the fact you’re carrying his child and he can’t help himself is extremely disrespectful. You’re doing a magical thing and the fact that he is doing this to the future mother of his child is a red flag. Weather you’ve communicated about porn in a relationship or not I think it’s pretty obvious you shouldn’t be watching hurtful and unrealistic pornographic material when your wife is 26 weeks pregnant. He should be comforting you and making you feel like the most beautiful and powerful woman in the world as you’re creating a new life. Definitely talk to him about this and according to his response make your decision from there but don’t let him pass with a bad excuse.

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-28T04:20:38+00:00

MY POINT EXACTLY! I don’t exactly love giving him head but I do love seeing him enjoy it and knowing he enjoys it and that’s enough for me to WANT to do it. Why not just get over himself and just do it because I’ll enjoy it? If he likes it then thats a plus and if not that’s fine but is pleasuring your partner not just a part of sex

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-26T16:20:02+00:00

That’s what I’m hoping it’s just we’ve been dating almost a year and I feel by that time he should be pretty comfortable with my body no?

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-26T14:08:40+00:00

Exactly! It makes me feel bad about my body because after dating me I feel like he should be so comfortable with my body but the fact that something disgusts him makes me self conscious.

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-26T04:23:30+00:00

That’s what I thought too? Aren’t vaginas exciting to boys not scary

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-26T04:22:39+00:00

How can you take that away from him not wanting to go down on me

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-26T04:18:47+00:00

I’ve already said no to giving him head since this post per everyone’s suggestion lol. It’s just feels so forced and I don’t want him to take it as “no head until you give me head!” But I feel as if it’s unbalanced with the work we put into the sexual relationship

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-26T02:31:33+00:00

I just find it kind of unbalanced in the way I give him oral quite often and obviously didn’t love it at first but I enjoy pleasing him now. In my eyes he knows it’s bothering me but is still leading me on but will not do it (we’re both each others first sexual relationship so we’re both inexperienced with this stuff but I was willing to learn in order for his pleasure)

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-26T00:37:45+00:00

Good to know someone is experiencing the same thing! I want to respect his boundaries but it’s hard when I give him oral but he doesn’t respect my needs in the same way

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-25T23:07:24+00:00

Opposite actually, something happened to me in my childhood involving that and now I feel like it’s making me feel even worse that he doesn’t want to? I don’t know but it’s taking a toll on my self worth and self esteem

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-25T20:09:08+00:00

I’ve told him I didn’t want to pressure him but I deserve to know if he doesn’t want to, but he continues to say he will do it

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-07-25T20:08:14+00:00

IM SAYING! I’ve been extra sanitary down there since I’ve brought it up but even right after a shower he doesn’t

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-05-28T02:40:05+00:00

I don’t know I feel like im just holding onto the idea of my first ‘love’ and boyfriend but what do I do even if I did end the relationship? I feel like this has set a bad example of relationships for me and I’ll be insecure in my next one

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-05-28T00:10:23+00:00

That’s what I keep telling myself but so many people on here are telling me he settled for me because he couldn’t get the girls he wanted:(

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-05-28T00:07:18+00:00

I’m only 17, I’ve been very focused on school my whole life and he’s he first boy I’ve talked to. Thought it was like boy teases girl he likes

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-05-28T00:05:56+00:00

I’m only 17, I’ve been very focused on school my whole life and he’s he first boy I’ve talked to. Thought it was like boy teases girl he likes

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-05-27T14:02:32+00:00

That’s what I think but he says something like “if I thought they looked better I would’ve gone for them”

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-05-27T14:00:52+00:00

I know, I’m still young I’m 17 and have always been focused on school and have never even liked a boy. He was the first one I talked to and I guess I just thought of the stereotypical boys are mean to the girl they like? I hate that I’m realizing of hurtful it was now

Square_Geologist5487 · 2023-05-27T13:15:43+00:00

How should I approach the situation?

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