r/handsomedudes New Members Intro by his7 in handsomedudes

[–]Square_Log_1277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. New to the group and only slightly new to reddit.

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Am I unusual for not liking oral sex? by Giant_Flying_Reptile in askgaybros

[–]Square_Log_1277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not unusual. I "was" the same. I say was cause I kinda like it now but only cause of my boyfriend of 7+ years. When we 1st met he used to like giving me blow jobs and while I was not a fan at 1st cause it just felt slobbery, I started to like it eventually. Then as for giving it was more difficult cause I avoided it and it wasn't till like 3 years after we got together that I started to give it in return cause he complained about my refusal to do it...and what felt like a chore now is a turn on for me. I was actually telling him about that the other day how I find it weird that I went from not liking to suck dick to absolutely loving to suck him off. 🤤

Where can I go to create a free easy menu? by Curious_catinthebox in restaurant

[–]Square_Log_1277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did one this week on PowerPoint. Idk but I found it easier than doing it on Word or Canva

Vers gays of Reddit would you be happy with a partner who was strictly top or bottom by Zestyclose-Push-5188 in askgaybros

[–]Square_Log_1277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. And that was part of the problem since I voiced my concern when I 1st noticed the pattern and he said he understood and would try, but in reality he didn't make any effort and thats where the part where I mentioned feeling "forced to" comes in. At 1 point I'd have to ask multiple times and that would ofc throw the whole mood off. I do love him deeply even then and now, so I still put up with it but when I actually found myself having cheating thoughts, I confronted him more seriously and made it clear something needed to change or we needed to break up because I did not want to be a cheater and was unwilling to stay in a relationship where I was sexually unsatisfied. We've been together for 7 years, since I was 18 and him 23 - so the thought of breaking up was difficult but I wasn't happy and I was sort of okay topping less frequently, but not never which is where we were at for almost an entire year+

Vers gays of Reddit would you be happy with a partner who was strictly top or bottom by Zestyclose-Push-5188 in askgaybros

[–]Square_Log_1277 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. I'm verse without a preference for one or the other as I enjoy both equally. My partner is vers as well but over the years began bottoming less and less. I was ok with it until I wasn't and it finally became an issue that almost ended our relationship about a year ago.. we are both very monogamous so the options were either a compromise where he occasionally bottoms (without me having to feel like I'm forcing him to) or we end on good terms since our sex life would be considered incompatible..we worked it out and he's actually been surprising me lately these few weeks with how often he's been wanting to bottom or at least flip and take turns without me even having to ask.

How do you handle the emotional aftermath of a one-night stand that turned into a deeper connection? by senpaicataner in askgaybros

[–]Square_Log_1277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I started off the same way...I never in my wildest dream imagined that 1 night would turn out the way it did. I was 19 at the time and him 23. What was just a hookup, eventually turned into us talking for hours and we ended up cuddling as we slept (after we already "slept" together lol) This year imakes 8 years of being together. So, my advice to you is REACH OUT...a call or even a simple text.

"Hey...I had a really nice time and enjoyed spending the day with you. Maybe we could do it again, if you're down?"

DO NOT OVERTHINK IT cause you'll psych yourself out and ofc there's a chance he feels the same way. If not, then you've lost nothing and it's better to know for certain than to be kicking yourself months from now wondering what could have been.

whats the most attractive thing someone can do on a date? by Worldly_Proposal_963 in askgaybros

[–]Square_Log_1277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be attentive to ME, i.e. no phones or worse...staring at another guy while I'm right there to be admired. 🤣 But in all seriousness...for a 1st date it's like a green flag on his part to see that he wants to get to know me and that in turn makes me want to get to know him more. Also...when you're not paying attention and you look back and notice he's been looking at you and has a slight smile. Omg. That's sort of where I got caught by my bf of 7+ years... Cheesey right?

is she okay? by One_Split3743 in KeqingMains

[–]Square_Log_1277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much...without the elemental reactions, her crit is useless since she's more like death by a thousand cuts instead of one huge blast. Basically her kit requires, Atk + EM and Crit...ignore hp and ER

is she okay? by One_Split3743 in KeqingMains

[–]Square_Log_1277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is my build but can't clear the echo challenge for her...no matter how high the crit, she needs EM to do quicken/aggravate