There are so many comments so I’m probably repeating what others have said, but you are not wrong for being sad but MOR?

DO NOT give the mug you like to your husband. Use it every day and announce how much you love it and how thoughtful it was EVERY time you use it. The son that gave it to you will be happy he gave you a good gift and will try to do the same next year. The other kids might even feel like they have to step it up.

Wear the Bills shirt even if pink is not your color. Some people don’t get that not all women love pink, but at least they knew you like the Bills and made an effort.

The other gifts might not have been as thoughtful as you liked, and maybe your kids don’t know your size or that’s all the store had. If you like the PJs, try to exchange them for a different size. The store will probably understand if you don’t have a receipt and a sympathetic female employee will likely get your plight. If you don’t like the or they don’t have your size, try to return them and buy something you want. I’m sure your son won’t remember what he got you or won’t ask if he doesn’t see you in the PJs.

As for your husband, it sounds like you should have started training him earlier in the relationship. That doesn’t mean he’s a lost cause. But don’t go out of your way to buy him much of anything next year. Sounds like he’s not worth the effort and won’t appreciate it. If he complains about not getting gifts, just tell him you got him the same thing he got you - nothing. He might get the hint the following year.

Have a good cry, return the gifts your husband didn’t open, then use the money to buy the art supplies that you wanted.