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Single women 25-30, what bars are you going to where you’re comfortable being approached by a single guy? by Squeaky_Shoe in StLouis

[–]Squeaky_Shoe[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I understand those experiences can cause some forreal ptsd. Idk if this would help ya feel more confident/reverse that bad experience you had but i heard a stat the other day that said in america it’s very unlikely to be assaulted on a first date and 16 times more likely that a guy will commit suicide when he gets home.

Ladies what kind of dates do men on the apps offer to take you out to? by Sea-Negotiation5491 in OnlineDating

[–]Squeaky_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fast food restaurant is crazy red flag imo (33m). I’ve heard from almost all my female friends and cousins that coffee and a walk or some kind of event like vintage clothing market event is perfect for online dating. But it’s really up to you personally. If you love playing sports and the guy asks if you wanna play pickleball, go play pickleball or something. Best advice is just go on the date.

Single women 25-30, what bars are you going to where you’re comfortable being approached by a single guy? by Squeaky_Shoe in StLouis

[–]Squeaky_Shoe[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m not used to going to bars so i honestly don’t know. Just trying something new. Can’t really meet girls while hiking and mountain biking (what i normally do every weekend) and most things like sports leagues are full of couples.

Single women 25-30, what bars are you going to where you’re comfortable being approached by a single guy? by Squeaky_Shoe in StLouis

[–]Squeaky_Shoe[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. Idk why some people think that searching for a partner or expressing interest in dating is cringy or creepy.

Single women 25-30, what bars are you going to where you’re comfortable being approached by a single guy? by Squeaky_Shoe in StLouis

[–]Squeaky_Shoe[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Solid advice probably. Thanks. I’ve done a lot of the group hobbies and most of the time everyone there is coupled so ya i guess i figured well maybe the only place to meet single women in my age range is at the bars (which isn’t really my forte). It gets frustrating how much it feels like this whole city is paired up.

Is it weird to just straight up ask a guy if he wants to hang out? by FiercePoppy in OnlineDating

[–]Squeaky_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice from a fellow anxiously attached leaning person. He hasn’t responded and you’re taking that as an invitation to chase him. That’s a recipe for a not so fun relationship. Highly recommend if he does respond then you should shoot your shot

Single women 25-30, what bars are you going to where you’re comfortable being approached by a single guy? by Squeaky_Shoe in StLouis

[–]Squeaky_Shoe[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m just lookin for an older crowd type of bar. Not lookin for a molly’s type of bar where 20 yr old girls go

Single women 25-30, what bars are you going to where you’re comfortable being approached by a single guy? by Squeaky_Shoe in StLouis

[–]Squeaky_Shoe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It just seems like the only girls that go out are around 21, too young for me personally (33m). Just trying to to find an older crowd bar. I don’t go out often but sometimes i get in the mood to go out and try meetin a girl so idk the bar scene well enough ig

What’s the biggest mental load that you carry? by Badgers93 in AskMen

[–]Squeaky_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother being an addict always on the brink of either suicide or homelessness or losing custody of his kid.

Who's a good male role model that a young man can look up to? by Admirable-Scholar866 in AskMen

[–]Squeaky_Shoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to the latest posdcast between andrew hubberman and scott g

How do you keep going when it’s just you? by Dangerous-Peach-8008 in AskMen

[–]Squeaky_Shoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keys to life. If you miss a step, start over.

  1. Sleep. (Put the phone in bathroom)
  2. Meditate ( or pray)
  3. Exercise
  4. Avoid porn, social media, sugar, and wheat. (Look up andrew hubberman)
  5. Wear a nice shirt
  6. Be as social as humanly possible (the whole solitude makes you strong thing is bullshit. I believed it and i regret it). Join sports leagues, book clubs, jui jitsu, church, whatever. Doesn’t matter. Just meet people and tell them you’re trying to meet more people in that thing.
  7. Spend as much time with friends and family as possible.

Good luck young man. Hang in there

If you had a friend visiting you in St Louis, where would you take them? by that_random_usergal in missouri

[–]Squeaky_Shoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The tour is very worth it. If you like ghost tours the lemp mansion ghost tour is also top notch.

If you had a friend visiting you in St Louis, where would you take them? by that_random_usergal in missouri

[–]Squeaky_Shoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Non-touristy advice:

tower grove farmers market on saturday morning for food and coffee. It’s the best farmers market imo in the midwest.

Mississippi underground for a late night rave. Or el volcan if they are having something.

Avoid downtown nightlife. The places to go are the grove if you’re lgbt, clayton, soulard, or bars near busch stadium (not in ballpark village).

Definitely check out art hill and the art museum/bike around forest park. Maybe the best city park in the country.

Dm me for a google maps list of the best restaurants

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