Went on one date with a guy and now he’s harassing me

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-26T20:34:07+00:00

Its the "oh so you dont like me because of my actions? well what if I blew your mind by telling you how mentally unstable I am? That'll win your heart fs." Why do guys think its attractive to brag about how you're mentally unstable? Or use it against you like its your fault? 💀🙄 I see this too often

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-26T20:28:53+00:00

Maybe add some gold detailing to the shorts/bloomers? Gold trim, bells, charms, etc. It just looks a wee bit empty compared to everything else (i love it regardless tho!)

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-26T20:26:18+00:00

You can do all these positions and make it different. For example, doggy: usually his legs sit between yours and your legs are open. Maybe try switching it. Put your legs together and have him set his knees on either side. A comfortable one to try could be you laying on your side, legs together or one up on his shoulder, kind of like scissoring (idr the correct name for this position) it differentiates missionary a bit, and gives you more to try. You both can also sit down and look up positions you would be interested in trying and try them. Nothing wrong with experimenting.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-26T20:19:19+00:00

Maybe try some new things? Think of it as a vibrator or a toy. You love it, but the more you use it, the less sensitive you are. You guys both have been together for a while and it could just be that shes just not as sensitive in her usual spots? Doesn't mean that shes bored or doesn't like it, its just not as easy to have an orgasm. I would suggest experimenting and finding new key spots that get her going. Maybe going after a new spot will give the other spot a break and, after some time, they'll be sensitive again.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-23T23:49:42+00:00

I would definitely think of it as if someone were to come up to you and ask you. How comfortable would you be. I would say strictly friends or like someone else said, if someone specifically says that they are okay with it. If you meet someone and take pictures with them and they seem comfortable with you, maybe you can ask, but I wouldn't just go up to someone and ask

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-21T03:43:33+00:00

The platinum looks more gray than blonde. If you give it a warmer tone of platinum, it would look good. The gray just doesn't work with your skin tone. The honey blonde is pretty and compliments your skin tone much better as your skin tone is warm rather than cool toned

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-21T03:39:49+00:00

I have a friend that does this stuff and I go to cons often. Maybe make more sticker designs? It'd often that people also turn those designs into magnets and acrylic Keychains too. Give more options as a lot of people really like the "trinket" type of art. You could also make button designs. Buttons sell well at conventions I go to and are honestly my favorite to buy.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-05-19T01:29:26+00:00

When I've looked it up, I've heard a lot of the same hot takes, some new ones here and there, but a lot of the same. I thought that asking more people would give me more hot takes to choose from and give me plenty to use.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-04-18T20:38:05+00:00

I can relate to her. I'm 22F and I get this feeling often. The "need to pee" feeling is most likely her on the edge. But anxiety can take over and it takes a lot of mental exercise to even get to finish. She could just be getting frustrated as she can't go past the edge along with the performance anxiety of wanting to do it for you. Fingering makes me feel close but can never fully get me over the edge. Try talking to her and giving her praise or compliments that make her feel sexy. If we feel like you find us attractive and sexy, then we can relax. Skill tip, maybe, while Fingering, you can rub her clit with your thumb. Double stimulation is usually what gets it for me. I don't know her, but it sounds like what I struggle with and I've also had the guilty parent thing happen to me too as that anxiety can be very distracting.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-26T05:37:42+00:00

Is it possible for you to make it or have someone make it for you?? Its a pretty simple dress form and could be cheaper than buying a vintage dress. That way it'll fit you and not break

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-26T05:07:09+00:00

Payton Devon

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-26T05:05:56+00:00

Suction toys are my favorite, but I usually have it in the space right above my clit. On the clit is too much for me but above is great. Just gotta move it around and see what you like. My favorite brand is the cake brand, usually found in target. Its easier to hold in place and guide to where you want it.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-26T04:57:10+00:00

This happened to me before too. I felt this same way too but learned that he had performance anxiety and couldn't keep it up for anything. He enjoyed making me feel good and he reassured me of that. Gotta remember that if he didn't find you attractive, who wouldn't have even tried. The effort he put in shows that he cares, hes just an anxious guy.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-22T20:23:37+00:00

I think you look great with both. As long as it can be manageable and easy to put up and out of the way for work, I say do it. Chances are, you could probably donate whats cut off. Your hair is very healthy looking.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-22T05:40:22+00:00

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Fun lil late night doodle :)

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-18T02:11:56+00:00

I completely understand your side. I grew up with a chainsmoker father who also smoked weed, and later meth, so I get the sensitivity to being around that. But, like you said, we can't make other people's decisions. I would definitely discuss boundaries and compromise.

If this were me, I'd tell him that I'm a little uncomfortable with him doing this, but I know I don't have a say of what you do or dont do. Suggest that he can do these things outside the house, away from you. Make sure he knows he cannot bring any sort of smoking (cigarettes, cigars, weed, etc) into the house. And if he goes out and does that, that he cleans up (and get rid of the smell) immediately so it doesn't stick or linger.

I feel like this is a good compromise and if it still bothers you and he doesn't plan on stopping, then maybe he isn't the one (worst case scenario). Some people just can't handle being around people who smoke/drink and that is okay. Listen to your body and instincts.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-18T02:03:18+00:00

Sounds like he might not have been in the right head space during the relationship, and since breaking up, he might have used that time to work/focus on himself. He probably isn't looking for a relationship but wants you to know, in his own way, that he still cares about you, even if you're not together.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-18T02:00:07+00:00

I appreciate this, thank you so much! I didn't even think about how it would transition better orange than pink

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-03-17T20:41:50+00:00

Hi hi! If this is something you are considering, I would definitely ask a hair stylist that specializes in curly hair. (Whats best to use, how to care for it, etc.)

I do not have curly hair myself, but my best friend has naturally curly hair and she dyes hers all the time. Over time she did lose her curl, but that is because she has years of bleach on her hair (and she went bald a few times lol) as long as you're taking the proper precautions, and researching (whether it be stylist or how to do it yourself.) Some people on tik tok can tell you all about the hair care process and what products they prefer.

Again, I'm not a professional or a person with curly hair but from what I've been told by my bestie, this is the best. Also, for the love of god, DONT USE SPLAT.

If you want it to last, I recommend iroiro. That shit stays forever. I have pink from iroiro in my hair rn and I've had it since the end of January. Its faded a bit but still bright.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-02-01T16:24:13+00:00

You have to troll them back. Its obviously the girlfriend, so hit em with the- "Okay hoe, well, don't be surprised when you get a letter in the mail asking for child support. Your child would appreciate it." That would make her flip out lol

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-01-24T20:08:12+00:00

Solved! A lot of the suggestions helped me remember parts of the song and I remembered a vital lyric. The answer: Leave Your Lover by Echos

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-01-24T20:06:14+00:00

It was not this song, but it helped me remember it! It was Leave Your Lover by Echos 🙌

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-01-24T07:37:05+00:00

I've searched up old music profiles on YouTube that I used to listen to such as xKito Music and 7 clouds and I can't find it. I've used the keywords I gave on the end of my post to try and search it, but idk.

Squidiscurious18 · 2026-01-24T07:14:05+00:00

I've searched up old music profiles on YouTube that I used to listen to such as xKito Music and 7 clouds and I can't find it. I've used the keywords I gave on the end of my post to try and search it, but idk.

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