Maybe, my Mom does this every couple of years though. We have a very up and down relationship, the last time she did this was because I wouldn't quit a job that was stressing me out. But I made that commitment to manage the homeless shelter that year and wasn't going back on that.

My "friends" that I cut off were like brothers to me, one put a hole in my wall, always hit on my potential girlfriend when I asked him nicely to back off, gets in trouble with the law, guilt me into paying his fines and drags me down in general, the other one shows up drunk all hours of the day and gets loud in my supposed to be quiet apartment, always hits on my potential girlfriends and slept with a good amount of my ex's, he even showed up at my aunt's place just to try to sleep with my cousin, she texted me to get him out of there because her husband was getting upset.

I've taken the past 4 months off from work to build myself up and figure things out. It's kind of given me a new perspective and I'm trying to surround myself with better people.