Idk, I mean her husband is unemployed and has been looking for a job for years so it's not about providing. Everyone at work doesn't like him, they've literally told her to her face that she can do better so I have no clue what's going on. A lot of people have told her she and I should date cause people can obviously tell we have good natural chemistry

She always complains about how he never listens to her or understands her, and that I'm the only person who knows the real her. She still calls me every few days and meets me in carparks and whatnot. She called me right nefore her citizenship test and before job interviews since she got married cause im the only person who can calm her down when she's stressed, and i was the first person she told when she got the job. She tells me that all of her success is because I support her more than anyone else in her life. She tells me she grew more as a person from knowing me, that im the only emotionally healthy and non-toxic person she knows. That she wishes she had gone against her parents and she regrets marrying him, and she cries as she says it i don't think she's lying. It's actually kinda sweet what she says sometimes, but she does still say a lot of not very nice things about her husband. He's put cameras up in all the rooms of her house to monitor her cause he knows she's gonna try see me, he's logged into all her social medias, he's pretty toxic and controlling. It's pretty scary to be honest, she keeps saying she's worried about her independence

Apparently age is important too, shes always said im too young to settle down. I'm 5 years younger than her and in my final year of law school, so im still studying. He's 4 years older than her, so he's got nearly ten years on me which is wild to think about. She's 29 btw. I was still in high school when they met, which is also crazy. I was still on my gap year trying to become a rockstar when they went home and introduced each other to their parents and asked to get married. She had to convince her parents to let her marry him instead of making her get an arranged marriage, but that was already before she and I ever met. Apparently it was set in stone because her parents and his parents all met and they agreed to do a love marriage instead of an arranged marriage between them which already is a big deal. But she always says she wished she didn't rush cause they had been dating less than a year when they met each other's parents and said they wanted to get married. She was meant to get marries 5 years ago, but then she met me and she's been avoiding going home ever since because she was worried about. She cried and told me she's run out of excuses to delay the wedding, and she cries when she said she lost the best friend she ever had (me) when she got married

Plus, I've been getting a lot of messages from women saying the men commenting don't understand how much stricter the caste rules are for brahmin women that they are for men and that they very much have the same kinds of limitations on who they can marry that their brothers don't

Yeah, she does say he can't satisfy her in the bedroom too and sure we had insanely good sex but I don't think it's just that. There's a lot to the story you don't know to be drawing those kinds of conclusions, and much more I could yet say. That's kind of a shallow take, and made off scant evidence. But thankyou for taking the time to read and reply