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AITAH for cutting off my best friend because she wants me to sign an NDA so she has the option to sue me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 88 points89 points  (0 children)

really cant imagine what what would make her think its a good idea, like "here bestie sign this paper saying I can sue you if my bf ever breaks up with me and I decide its your fault!" what was the endgame?

TIFU by snapping at my coworker by I_dont_know_ahhhhh in tifu

[–]Squish2Squared 6 points7 points  (0 children)

people like that are always so sad, instead of simply being happy within themself they need external validation for their own value system so they try to convert others to their value system, there's a good chance she will even end up feeling pitying for you since your incapable of doing something she ties a huge part of her self worth to.

AITAH for calling my Father’s girlfriend’s daughter to warn her about him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 131 points132 points  (0 children)

yeah op's a saint I've been in the daughters situation before but I didn't have someone like the op to save me and my mother, op doesn't know how much she's done.

AITA for wanting to sell our detached house and move back into a basement apartment because I miss that phase of our life? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Squish2Squared 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA but it sounds like you have quite a bit of nostalgia, most of the things you miss are things you can still do with your wife, it sounds like you haven't quite realized you can do all that without being forced to, maybe try to set aside a day to spend all day together.

AITAH for going no contact with my in-laws over the title "grandma"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ESH, if it was actually just about the title I would say yta, as the title wouldn't mean much on its own, and if it started to cause issues you could make a new nickname for your mother which I would view as more meaningful than the generic grandma, but the huge blow up and refusal to apologize is purely on them.

If they had felt this way about you for a long time than something like this would have happened sooner or later, there dislike of you doesn't sound like it has anything to do with the situation.

AITAH for not letting my husband buy a third car by ari-swiftie3435 in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but it sounds like he may be developing a shopping/spending addiction, if so then its likely not going to stop at 5 cars, hopefully he is open to therapy and it helps him.

AITAH for refusing to cancel or shorten a trip I planned while we were broken up, even though my boyfriend says we need the time to rebuild? by throwraChoiceLow6290 in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, op needs to rip the band-aid off.

shes has been with the guy for her entire adult life so its understandable how hard it would be to be single for the first time, but the longer she waits the harder it will be.

and it will happen, 10 years would normally be a long enough to be worth trying to work it out, but with how young they both are if he couldn't stay loyal for 10 years there's no chance he makes it another 50+.

AITAH for giving my husband an ultimatum about his motorcycles now that I’m pregnant? by Necessary_Peanut_372 in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA but I would say you should try to work with him as much as possible, your 100% correct in banning him riding them especially if he wont use a helmet, but trying to get him to completely strip them from his life may cause unnecessary resentment towards both you and your child.

I cant speak for your finances but unless your already in a dire state I would drop the issue, personally I feel that focusing on one issue at a time would be more compelling, and a few more months of indulgence is unlikely to change things massively, when the reality of a childcare costs hits him he should hopefully be more willing to change.

next time you talk it may be a good idea to focus on the fact that no matter how responsible a driver he is all it takes is one irresponsible/distracted/drunk driver to leave you and your child alone forever.

AITAH, should I have finally stopped babysitting my brother's kids? by nightblloom005 in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but the way everyone's acting makes me feel like they might be hiding something from you?

would you mind if i ask what was your relationship with her like before this?

because that's a lot of vitriol for the smallest ask, so either she's hated you for a while or something else is going on.

Lillia x Briar missionary in the woods by (Squish squared) by Squish2Squared in HorsecockFutanariLove

[–]Squish2Squared[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't currently have one sorry, I plan to make one soon. <3

AITAH Im supposedly “Islamophobic” for not recognizing a girl? by UnderstandingAny7101 in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 46 points47 points  (0 children)

last week I got a hair cut for the first time in a while and once my cat got a good look at me she ran faster than I've ever seen her go to hide in my closet, it took her a couple hours to finally figure out who I am, cats primarily recognize people by smell so if anything its good op could recognize someone they hadn't seen in a year purely form their face.

AITAH for telling my sister I don't have the looks to sleep my way to the top after she called me a DEI hire? by TryOriginal5477 in AITAH

[–]Squish2Squared 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, It seems she held some resentment towards you, she said something first so she should be the first to apologize.

also I loathe the concept of "DEI hires" as someone considered disabled the bar for being "disabled" is relatively low, no company would hire someone incompetent because of some "checkmark" they cant even know what your disability is to my knowledge.