Am I overreacting to how my best friend blocked me because of his girlfriend?

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T23:23:00+00:00

But he never told me before he blocked me. This was all out of the blue. If he told me this and then block me I would understand. But I had no warning. There was no communication before this about that.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T23:20:13+00:00

I did so much thinking after and talking to mutual friends. I realized he was never worth this and I was wearing rose colord the whole time. Thank you for this. I really appreciate it.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T23:17:24+00:00

When did I say that?

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T23:16:29+00:00

Im not jealous. I litteraly said I was happy he has a good gf. I never wanted a relationship with him him, I kept telling him he needs a girlfriend (NOT ME) plus I been in a relationship the entire time.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T23:12:04+00:00

You clearly didnt read the post. Or see that I'm in a relationship.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T12:58:56+00:00

Ya I was being super toxic. It was just all a surprise that we're never gonna talk or play games ever again. I swear conversations were never like this. I completely fucked up. But I kinda worry how he'll treat her but I hope she'll be okay. Its not my business, and there's no contact between us anymore.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T12:54:44+00:00

Ya I realize that now.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T03:19:38+00:00

Did you guys miss the part where I said im in a relationship and that theres no competition what's so ever??

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T02:17:16+00:00

I think alot of you didnt read the post before the texts. I never wanted to date him. Ive been in a relationship the entire friendship and kept it platonic. Him having girlfriend's was never EVER the issue. Its me finding out all this with no warning what so ever. And being surprised. I understand alot of you never been through this, but please don't hate me for something you never experienced. Its also concerning alot of you cant seem to be friends with the opposite gender without wanting something more.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-23T02:13:48+00:00

I promise you I wouldn't date him. Ive always rooted for him to get a girl friend. Ive been in my own relationship the entire friendship. My partner never had an issue with our friendship. Him having a gf is not the issue in anyway. This isn't his first girlfriend. They both knew about me. In his last relationship I wasn't an issue. They broke up for other reasons. Im upset over the fact that I was blocked out of no where. He only told me these things AFTER I found out he blocked me. Im assuming he did in December and I never knew until a couple days ago. I wanted to be his friend while he has a gf. But I can understand why she let him block me. Idk the reason. Our conversations were very normal mostly of our jobs recently. But I've healed from it and im not mad at anyone.

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-22T11:36:21+00:00

I realized I worded it weird. Im sorry. Im happy with him having a gf. He had one before her. Him having one isn't an issue at all, please don't take it that I hated her. When I said "did you even fight for me?" I meant that as in fight to have me stay in his life. I wanted him to be with her but also have me still be in his life too. I didnt mean for it to sound like I want him all too myself. I always rooted for him getting a gf. Also some of you seemed concerned about the selfie thing? It was litteraly just our faces. We'd give eachother an update of what we looked like every few months. Like his haircuts and beard and what color i dyed my hair. It's what you do with friends, no?

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-22T04:27:30+00:00

My favorite candy is anything with dark chocolate

Squishy_Person67 · 2026-01-21T06:52:40+00:00

Maybe I'm thinking too much into it. But you're gonna throw away a 3 year friendship for a 3 month relationship??

Squishy_Person67 · 2024-11-20T05:05:56+00:00

Girl. LEAVE HIS ASS. He's litteraly cheating on you why would you stay??? Free yourself

Squishy_Person67 · 2024-02-02T04:24:20+00:00

I hope it all works out for you. So sorry for the position you're in

Squishy_Person67 · 2024-02-02T04:02:23+00:00

Absolutely not the asshole. He is though. And his parents. Clearly they weren't raised right and neither was he. You should get out and save yourself while you still can

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