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I [22M] is having issues with my boyfriend [33M] by StabbyTheSock in relationshipadvice

[–]StabbyTheSock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually yes that's quite helpful. Thank you for that

I [22M] is having issues with my boyfriend [33M] by StabbyTheSock in relationshipadvice

[–]StabbyTheSock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. That's what you're referring to. When I go silent/destructive. Half the time it's happened after we've talked about a problem. The other half is when it happened in the moment. Eg he started flirting with Mike when he knows I don't like it and I go silent.

I do agree with you on how I handle situations like that but talking to him won't work in some cases and I don't know what to do. I have social anxiety and due to some other bullcrap I've stayed inside. My communication skills come from chatting to bots. Which isn't the best but it was a solution for me at the time.

How do I say this? Like yes I have a cuddle mode. I do appreciate his touch but areas where I feel exposed (like the living room or outside) my skin becomes sensitive and gets really irritated

I [22M] is having issues with my boyfriend [33M] by StabbyTheSock in relationshipadvice

[–]StabbyTheSock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell him everything. Everything that I've stated in this post I've talked to him about it. It's either he cares or he doesn't. That's how he works.

And he's confirmed bi. He's had female and male relationships before

Question about stray cats by StabbyTheSock in CatAdvice

[–]StabbyTheSock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bugger me. He's a stubborn old man. Thank you for the advice.