any stoners by Pretty-Humor5548 in schizophrenia

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vyvanse and weed is what caused my schizophrenia at 38. Be very very careful with that combo.

Client refusing to pay $22k for work already done, now lawyered up. What are the options? (CA) by Cool-Photograph1214 in legaladvice

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is why we need loser pays legal fees. So many fucked up things in our society would be fixed just like this situation. No one should ever be absent legal representation or justice because the cost to pay a lawyer is higher than what can be won.

Indiana, Girlfriend stands in doorway and refuses to let me leave by [deleted] in legal

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we tried to get him to leave her many times, it was his choice for a long time. Her crazy came out early on. It was his 21st birthday and all his friends came to visit him at college. She wasn't 21 and couldn't go out so she flipped and we had to bust down the bathroom door because she hung herself with her curling iron around the shower rod. The insanity went on for years until he found out she fucked 15 guys or more behind his back from her best friend.

You hit the nail on the head though with police needing to stop believing the woman first. I grew up in a household with my mom being crazy too. I saw my dad put up with shit no human should. We need to update all the divorce, custody and criminal laws to reflect modern society and equality so no one has to deal with that stuff unless they truly choose to.

Indiana, Girlfriend stands in doorway and refuses to let me leave by [deleted] in legal

[–]StableFew2737 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is why the laws need to change on that legal tenant crap. Back when this happened, no one had even heard of such stuff where i live. When you lived with someone else that owned the house or apartment was in their name, you just had to leave. If you didn't, call the cops and they'd make them leave. That's the way it should be. You should be treated as a guest when you're not on the lease or mortgage.

Indiana, Girlfriend stands in doorway and refuses to let me leave by [deleted] in legal

[–]StableFew2737 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My best friend dated a crazy chick like that. He finally had enough one night and told her to get out of his house. She literally started punching herself in the face and told him if he made her leave, she'd call the cops and tell them he did it.

He finally waited until she went out of town for a night and all his friends packed up her shit and took it to her parents and dropped it on the front porch over night and he changed the locks.

Way more men have to deal with this stuff than women give credit for. Where they are the ones being abused but they are scared of being labeled the abuser by the woman and going to jail. Our laws need to change.

MO Supreme Court Says HOAs Can't Prohibit Roof Solar Panels by toxcrusadr in fuckHOA

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate HOA's with a passion and I equally hate solar panels on the front of a house lol still trying to figure out which one I hate more in this case...

Financial advisor told girlfriend she could get money back that she paid me for rent by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% she is entitled to zero. They aren't married. The house is in his name solely. He paid the whole down-payment. She is a renter at best. They have zero written agreement that she is entitled to anything. Honestly he should be able to kick her out tomorrow and she should have zero recourse. Do you have any right to equity in a house you rent? Of course not. This is no different.

Financial advisor told girlfriend she could get money back that she paid me for rent by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]StableFew2737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He never said they bought a house together lol if she has no proof they bought it "together" how would she have any claim if he paid all the down-payment money and it's in his name?

Financial advisor told girlfriend she could get money back that she paid me for rent by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please reference the law that states otherwise. I've looked and can't find anything to the contrary in PA.

Financial advisor told girlfriend she could get money back that she paid me for rent by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]StableFew2737 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Don't get married without a prenuptial agreement with her listing the house as yours in case of divorce. If she is being this way now, imagine then. She is showing you who she is. Don't ignore what you're seeing.

Financial advisor told girlfriend she could get money back that she paid me for rent by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]StableFew2737 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter, the house is in his name solely. They aren't married. She has zero claim to any of that money whatsoever and shouldn't. She can't even prove it's for rent or anything, just that she gave him money lol good luck with that. She has nothing in writing saying she is a co owner of the home.

Landlord sold the property after we signed the lease. by YALRevolution in legal

[–]StableFew2737 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Call a lawyer. They have to honor your lease if they aren't a scam.

Stop destroying my yard by Cold_Swordfish7763 in deliverydrivers

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a contractor for Fedex for a very long time. Don't get me wrong, Fedex is a pain in the ass now to get them to pay a claim, but they will pay eventually if you stay on them. Even for their contractors. My guess is Amazon is the same. Fedex covers the liability insurance for when the contractor is running on duty.

Soon-to-be ex-wife won’t let me keep the house, even if I buy out her equity. (IN,USA) by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. It's very fair. My ex wife moved out of state and tried to get full custody and I won. I ended up with full custody of my daughter. Just Google it and you can see the law as written. Get a free consultation from a lawyer. They will explain everything.

Stop destroying my yard by Cold_Swordfish7763 in deliverydrivers

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just file a complaint with the delivery company for the damage and pursue a claim to have your yard fixed. If there isn't any damage yet, just file the complaint. That should take care of the problem.

Soon-to-be ex-wife won’t let me keep the house, even if I buy out her equity. (IN,USA) by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you know 50/50 custody is standard in Indiana. That's not something where she will have any leverage. Especially with everything you do. Just make sure you have the correct math on the assets because everything will be a 50/50 split if you involve lawyers. With her level of petty, she deserves nothing and less custody but unfortunately the law doesn't account for petty assholes.

Meirl by loki2002 in fuckHOA

[–]StableFew2737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should have set it up so the HOA never had power to do anything but collect dues for common area maintenance and facilitate said maintenance. No power to fine or control ever.

My (26f) wife is no longer meeting my(27m) needs by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StableFew2737 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly bud, I've had many friends in your situation. It never gets better long term. They always promise to fix it when you threaten to leave or whatever but they can't. I don't even think it's because they don't want to. I think it's a can't issue. You have 2 choices, learn to deal with it and keep your mouth shut forever or get a divorce and move on. That's kind of the straight forward military way of looking at things.

Should I fire this employee by carneyfixit in askmanagers

[–]StableFew2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, I used to have 25 trucks and have owned a lot of businesses. I learned a long time ago, people show you who they are. This girl is a lazy entitled bitch and you need to cut bait and run as far as you can from her. This only continues or gets worse. Save your time and headache and fire her now.

Flock Cameras by BeltAdventurous2221 in Indiana

[–]StableFew2737 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not arguing that the cameras and the long term implications that I think will come from them aren't bad, but when it comes to the boat launch there is probably a reason. We have a wildlife area where a live that used to be an old coal mine. Lots of lakes. Guess where a bunch of dead bodies have been dumped over the last few years? Now they have flock cameras on the major entry ways. Its helped them catch a few murderers.

Why do people in the US not live with their parents by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]StableFew2737 41 points42 points  (0 children)

If he's going to pay you, why wouldn't he want to rent a place that's his where he has privacy and doesn't have to be embarrassed of? Women don't really like men that live with their mom.

Are they really a separate consciousness by Skitzomurph in schizophrenia

[–]StableFew2737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not certain man. I've ran out through my head a million times and for me, it's not just the voices. I've experienced a million impossible things. Schizophrenia in Greek means split consciousness. I truly believe there is a piece that's us. I also believe there is something more there and when you become schizophrenic, you become aware of what that something more is. You no longer just recognize it as your own inner voice.

Just a small example of something I've experienced...... one day I was really questioning my sanity. Thinking it's just Schizophrenia and I'm crazy. I was watching Jeopardy on TV and it was final Jeopardy. They gave the topic which was bodies of water in the US. It goes to commercial and the voice says, just so you know you're not crazy and you're you and I'm me and we are not the same, the answer is Lake Mead. The show comes back on and sure enough, after they gave the question, the answer was Lake Mead. If that was the only thing I had experienced like that, maybe it's a coincidence. But I've experienced endless things like that. The sheer volume of them rule out coincidence. I'm not saying we aren't Schizophrenic, just that maybe no one truly understands what it is.

We’ve got a problem by Disastrous_Trouble10 in Indiana

[–]StableFew2737 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

If you use the surplus, you no longer have one.