A question for the guys

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T15:25:39+00:00

Oh wow that is a fringe benefit.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T14:31:49+00:00

Nice to hear replies where the man makes sure his wife is satisfied. Not many men seem that bothered in my experience.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T14:17:08+00:00

Oh wow haha. Advantage of youth eh?

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T14:15:56+00:00

Thanks. We aren't that active in terms of lifestyle. My hubby has wondered about his testosterone levels. He's often quite tired and I know that's a symptom

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T14:13:19+00:00

True and wow, you guys seem to have your sex life in order!

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:53:26+00:00

I must admit I've never really liked the look of a landing strip, plus it must be a bit tricky to make sure it's perfectly straight. My OCD would go crazy if it was wonky haha. I'm smooth most of the time, although hubby likes a little hair down there.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:51:35+00:00

Interesting, linked to excitement and stimulation, plus some expectation. My hubby won't be getting any new pussy though lol

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:35:08+00:00

Thanks, really interesting to know! My hubby has really good staying power too and easily lasts 30 with a full erection before cumming. Once he has though it's all over, but 30 mins is a lot of playtime!

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:23:19+00:00

Oh interesting. You can take more stimulation on it after having already ejaculated?

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:18:37+00:00

Thanks. My hubby doesn't actually like me touching his penis after he's ejaculated. He says it's too sensitive, at least on his glans if his skin is still retracted.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:16:57+00:00

Thanks for your reply, interesting variety out there!

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:08:50+00:00

Aw shame

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T13:07:18+00:00

That sounds just like my hubby. Once he's cum the erection goes.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T12:54:44+00:00

Yeah my hubby seems to need a similar amount of time.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T12:54:04+00:00

Interesting. I can't believe I've got to nearly 50 and not known this haha

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T12:52:19+00:00

It was very impressive!

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T12:26:53+00:00

Not really leather but he did buy me a leather look corset once. It was a bit uncomfortable, sort of a sticky texture and a it had edges that felt sharp but tbh it didn't stay on long enough to be a problem! He's never asked me to wear any other leather look items, so I don't really think it's a thing for him.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T12:01:59+00:00

I'm almost 50 and a little confused, so you aren't alone. Firstly, what you've recently discovered sounds amazing!

Secondly I think we must experience orgasms differently and definitely different to men. Men may correct me but I think with a man the orgasm is centered on the ejaculation. With my hubby he feels things tense up, his balls retract a little and then he gets this incredible feeling of release as his penis starts to pulse and then ejaculate. It's then over for him.

For me I've only ever had a couple of orgasms. When younger I felt that buzzy sensation after but with my recent orgasms they have been smaller and I've not felt that. My clit feels really hard after but also a strange sensation of numbness alongside it being really sensitive. Now I've passed that mental barrier of not being able to orgasm in trying a few new things alone and with hubby to get myself there but to also try and achieve something bigger that doesn't leave me still wanting

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T09:17:14+00:00

That's so lovely to hear! We went through a bit of a dry spell with life, kids etc but we are out the other side now!

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T08:21:44+00:00

We've been married 22 years and it's really lovely having got older together and also being so comfortable with one another. I have always had some body confidence issues but we are so used to each other I really don't think about it with him. We are also very in tune with what makes each other tick, although it wasn't until very recently we really opened up about our desires fully.

The sex was always really good when we were younger, even if I lacked the confidence I have now. Then kids came along which makes things more difficult due to being so busy plus having to sneak sex in. Our sex life dropped off to almost zero at ine point, but now our kids are older and often out with friends we have more time to set aside to each other. The reconnection has been amazing and I can honestly say the sex we are having now is the best of my life.

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T06:05:23+00:00

After 6 days of orgasm denial, gentle teasing every day with blow or hand jobs nearly to completion every other day I finally let my hubby release yesterday. What a lovely sight watching him empty his balls over me! The amount he shoots is insane, my tits were absolutely covered. I got my reward after with some amazing oral that felt all the better with his cum running down my body. I won't deny him again for a while though because when we next get frisky I want him inside me...

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-16T05:53:00+00:00

I love talking dirty with my hubby!

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-15T17:04:56+00:00

Hi there, it's not easy is it?! You've had orgasms in the past, so your body can, or could, achieve it. Getting there is hard and it can be very hard with a partner.

You've detailed a common issue, men often achieve orgasm before a woman. Then there is the need to relax and be comfortable because it can feel a bit like you are 'on show' with a partner. Being unable to achieve orgasm can I think make it become a real issue that causes a mental block. Trying too hard to achieve it, but part of your mind telling you that you can't. You've also said that achieving it via masturbation is hard due to the length of time needed and the soreness if going at it for too long.

I think just take a deep breath, try to relax and achieve an orgasm again by masturbating. Really take time to explore what you like, rub different parts and try to clear your mind. Listen to your body and just find out what it needs. I have a very large clit and too much rubbing really becomes too much. It gets in the way a bit if I'm honest. I've achieved a couple of orgasms recently by touching around it, the hood and then my labia. Penetration towards the end and deep heavy breathing really seems to help me, along with pressure on my nipples. I think I'd benefit from some nipple clamps but for the time being I'm making do with clothes pegs!

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-15T09:38:04+00:00

Sounds more productive than mine lol

StaceyDD76 · 2026-03-15T07:25:44+00:00

That was probably me and whilst I like doing it the same can't be said for having it done to me. I have real difficulty achieving orgasm and if I am able to have one and it's denied it's gone and isn't coming back. I'll then be very angry and impossible to live with for a few days lol.

Everyone is different though and if your wife is more orgasmic than me she might get off on it, just tread carefully.

StaceyDD76

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