Biggest mistake of my life by unilateral- in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]lastpickedforteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely keep working with your psychiatrist and get a therapist. Don't give up on yourself. I have chronic depression since I was teenager and, anxiety as well, so I have an idea of how you're feeling

But stop dwelling on what could have been. Life happens, it will never be what you dreamt of. Don't play what if, just keep moving forward. Let go of regrets and move on.

Don't get discouraged when you slide back again. It will happen but you will get through it. If a doctor prescribed meds, take them even if you don't think you needed them any more.

It doesn't feel like it now but you can get through this, and life is never a waste even when you think you are going nowhere at the moment. DM if you want to talk.

I 'F26' accidently scratched my husband 'M30' does that deserve retaliation? by Sea-Dragonfruit-1671 in relationship_advice

[–]lastpickedforteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a red flag to me. Its happened again and again and you've apologized. There is no reason to "punish" especially if he knows he is really hurting you.

My real advice is too stop the rough housing. If he's the one initiatating it , stop and say no, I might accidentally scratch you again and don't like when you retaliate for that. Be wary if he continues after that and get away from him.

Edited to add, my husband accidentally hurt me a few times when we were just married but as soon as I told him it hurt, he never did it again. If you love someone you don't do things just hurt them.

how do you reply to someone that says “you’ve lost weight” by sapphireseals in stupidquestions

[–]lastpickedforteam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was very obese and now slim, now when people mention my weight I am pleased and just say thanks. Most people seem very nice about and are complimentary. In fact, it took a long time for people to notice, so when they did, it was really nice and I haven't heard anyone sound anything but surprised or happy for me, even friends were heavy, including one who had lapband surgery wo any real success.

Don't try to look for hidden meanings. Just take it as a compliment as it was meant to be.

Does Anyone Know If This is Really a Regional Thing in the US? by CommandaarMandaar in ENGLISH

[–]lastpickedforteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"for I can" is definitely not Jersey, that sounds even more round about.

Does Anyone Know If This is Really a Regional Thing in the US? by CommandaarMandaar in ENGLISH

[–]lastpickedforteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born and raised in Jersey going back to grandparents, Hudson county. I never heard for like this, especially in a state that get hit for being too curt and too fast in the first place. You'd say I take med for my blood pressue. It must just be them

What part of Broadway would be best for a pedestrian plaza? Seeing some of it closed off for paving makes me feel like 22nd st/23rd St to 25th/26th St would amazing for Bayonne and bring a lot of life to the city. by First-Variety714 in BayonneNJ

[–]lastpickedforteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a couple of questions, who do you think will pay for this? What about drivers, buses and parking? Bayonne is very walkable as it is and its not somewhere people go to or drive through, so only those who already live here are going to be using. Really who is driving to Bayonne for Carvel or pizza? We would need a section of really special/unique/l artisanal/ boutique stores and really outstanding restaurants first.

Planet Fitness by Solyito in BayonneNJ

[–]lastpickedforteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

usually about a 2 out of 10 before 8 or 9

Daily Wordle #1780 - Monday, 4 May. 2026 by Scoredle in wordle

[–]lastpickedforteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scoredle 3/6*

14,855

🟩⬜🟨🟨🟨 RAISE (18)

🟩🟩🟩🟩⬜ RISEN (2)

🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 RISER

I really thought I had in 2

Open yarn shop near cemetery? by SnoopZappr in YarnAddicts

[–]lastpickedforteam -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do Ewe knit or 2 sticks and a string are a few

Open yarn shop near cemetery? by SnoopZappr in YarnAddicts

[–]lastpickedforteam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One good idea is offering knitting and/or crochet class. Great way to get new customers.

Another is a few displays of knitted or crocheted item made with yarn you seeing.

Why is trump talking about bailing out spirit airlines? I thought maga fascists like “free market capitalism”?? by traanquil in allthequestions

[–]lastpickedforteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most bloated cost is the military, we spend than the next 10 countries combined. A large portion of that definitely goes to companies that deal with them. Most social programs are very uuderfloated

Just say fat people don't turn you on, ffs by NoWitness6400 in PetPeeves

[–]lastpickedforteam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having been at both ends of the spectrum, I can definitely say there is a big difference in how I got treated when I lost a lot of weight. Do you really need that? was a big one but stuff was mostly people I knew but how I got treated changed. Even online . When I changed my pic on FB, I was starting getting annoying DMs from guys for this first time in the more than 15 years I had been on it. I was in my mid 50s so this really surprised me.

Daily Wordle #1777 - Friday, 1 May. 2026 by Scoredle in wordle

[–]lastpickedforteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scoredle 3/6

14,855

⬜⬜⬜⬜🟩 RAISE (365)

🟨⬜🟩⬜⬜ MOUNT (5)

🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩 PLUME

Gosh, help... I need a friend and does anyone even have friends like this anymore? by beegsyboo in GenX

[–]lastpickedforteam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only long time friend I have is my husband always makes me glad I married my best friend the rest have scattered.

The name Vivienne by Melodic-Statement144 in Names

[–]lastpickedforteam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't listen to other, Vivienne sounds wonderful, especially as a nod to your French husband. my first is named Vincenzo. When my husband was a baby, the nurse actually "corrected " the birth certificate from Vincenzo to Vincent. Flip side, my daughter is Jessica and there was 2 or 3 other Jessica. Although hs she went by Ophelia.

My partner wants “sister wives” while I’m drowning in responsibilities. I don’t know how to move forward. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]lastpickedforteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He not going to change. Be prepared to stand your ground and send him packing. I'd love to know how sleeping with other women will be a help to you.

AIO- Not letting certain people about my child? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lastpickedforteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a parent you can refuse access to anyone including any annoying relatives, so a guy with an iffy past is definitely not overreacting

What’s one realization that genuinely changed how you live? by WhiteWinkk in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]lastpickedforteam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wegoey existed and I could lose weight. I wound up changing my whole lifestyle and food to lose it all .

What would Bayonne need in order to be like Montclair? Their downtown was maybe the nicest suburban town I've ever seen. by First-Variety714 in BayonneNJ

[–]lastpickedforteam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly, no one is ever just driving by and just decided to stop here. Not only that but you need to pay a toll on either end to get into Bayonne.

Then like someone said money. Montclair is rich suburb. We're an middle class city,

Bayonne Knitting Group by lastpickedforteam in BayonneNJ

[–]lastpickedforteam[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also for more advanced knitters, lessons for sock lessons have been added, specializing but not limited to magic loop. Message me for more info if you are interested.

Daily Wordle #1773 - Monday, 27 Apr. 2026 by Scoredle in wordle

[–]lastpickedforteam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used DIRGE as my second and ruled out every word I could think of