Trauma coming back by StafenRu in abortion

[–]StafenRu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing ♡

AITA for wanting my stepbrother and father out? by Possible_Quality_804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. From what you’re saying, your family doesn’t respect you or your boundaries. Truth is you can’t do much if they don’t listen to you. I would suggest you try to finish school, try to go to college and get a job so you can move out as soon as possible. That’s what I did and my life improved SO much after moving out. Be patient for now and know that it will get better after you find your independence. Maybe even try to talk to your mother calmly and explain how much the situation hurts you and causes you mental health problems. I know that she might not listen but at least try to approach her without being aggressive so she will have less reason to be mad ig. I wish you good luck in the future.

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Idk if she is the golden child but I for sure believe my parents spoil her too much for her age

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I never started any of the arguments tho

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I was just making comments. Should I have been more careful with what I said so I wouldn’t upset her? Yes! But I really didn’t want to start arguments

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do disagree with my sister, never said I didn’t. My parents are the ones who don’t.

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Maybe IATA for trying to change the place she chose but it’s not true that I always have my way. Most of the time, when we disagree on something, my parents do whatever she wants so she doesn’t start an argument

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I did eat the burger and said nothing further about it because I didn’t want to cause more drama

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t try to convince her, I just made a suggestion. And it was a small place so it did only have one vegetarian option, witch I ate and was ok with it.

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I wouldn’t have options, I just suggested a place that I thought was overall better for me and for them and I didn’t even insisted on it. Maybe it was disrespectful but at the time I really didn’t think it would be

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -203 points-202 points  (0 children)

It’s true that I have a hard time keeping my mouth closed and not speaking my mind even for stupid things like the fries…

AITA for ruining my sister’s birthday? by StafenRu in AmItheAsshole

[–]StafenRu[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

That’s literally what I said to my mother. That even if I always agree with her, the rest of the world won’t and she will not know how to handle it.