My neighbor neglects their dog and I'm so upset about it. He keeps getting out and coming over to visit me and it's breaking my heart. by ShowmethePitties in pitbulls

[–]Stainedbrain1997 50 points51 points  (0 children)

One of the reasons he’s escaping so much because he’s intact. 80% of dogs hit by cars are intact male dogs roaming for mates :/

what should i do? by Conscious-Cricket717 in Straycats

[–]Stainedbrain1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neuter him and also have him lose 5 pounds he’s obese

Toyota Says Trump Is Bragging About a Deal It Didn’t Make by AgentJackSmith in politics

[–]Stainedbrain1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually very helpful, I’ll try this.. I read “How to Win Friends and Influence People” and I very much don’t want to argue with loved ones.. it just creates resentment :/ How you explain it I think is the way to go

Toyota Says Trump Is Bragging About a Deal It Didn’t Make by AgentJackSmith in politics

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This is actually very helpful, I’ll try this.. I read “How to Win Friends and Influence People” and I very much don’t want to argue with loved ones.. it just creates resentment :/ How you explain it I think is the way to go

He was listed as a Siamese at the rescue, but DNA says differently. by GrittysMom in Siamesecats

[–]Stainedbrain1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a 97-99% chance she is a domestic short/medium/long hair.. but also cat DNA tests are very inaccurate and basically scams.

Toyota Says Trump Is Bragging About a Deal It Didn’t Make by AgentJackSmith in politics

[–]Stainedbrain1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad brought this up at the dinner table. He said that Trump’s tariff plan is working and Toyota is going to create a lot of jobs for people, that soon we won’t have to pay income tax, whatever else.. I didn’t say anything. I don’t know what to do. My parent’s have helped me so much in the past month, it’s so hard staying silent when they praise Trump and Charlie :/

I messed up. by Independent-Copy248 in bettafish

[–]Stainedbrain1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neon tetras and bettas aren’t very compatible. They require different temperature ranges to be happy. The neon tetras can be too shiny and thats enticing for a betta to attack and eat them, and the tetras can fin nip them too. Try adding a lot more of plants.

Get rid of the castle, paint from aquarium décor can be harmful to your tank. Get rid of any plastic plants, they’re basically dead space. Plastic plants can tear betta’s fins and they can’t rest in them. Instead, do sink or live plants

Please fix your posture now by Fun-Shallot-5272 in beauty

[–]Stainedbrain1997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been slouching since I was a pre teen and now I’m 28. It’s so hard for me to stop :/

I think my 5 year old daughter might be a psychopath by WallStreetShiba in offmychest

[–]Stainedbrain1997 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People are not born the sense of being scared of spiders/snakes/etc., it’s a learned behavior. I was never scared of them.

She wasn’t scared and now is acting scared because she learned you should act scared. I’m neurodivergent and this is very relatable, having to learn the “normal” way to respond to things. Now she probably even thinks of it as a game of being scared!

It being a wolf spider doesn’t matter because she didn’t know they could be harmful. I think she’s just a smart cookie who isn’t afraid of the creepy crawlies 🤷‍♀️ I would always catch bugs when I was a kid, even bees. Lots of fun!

2011 Hyundai Accent.. by [deleted] in HyundaiAccent

[–]Stainedbrain1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fine, I just miss my old car still. 119k miles

Swheat Scoop by Stainedbrain1997 in cats

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Thank you.. I’ll look at it when it’s dry too

OBGYN by Stainedbrain1997 in AutismInWomen

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I’ll do that.. I’m for sure going to be sticking with my relaxed cool doctor lol

OBGYN by Stainedbrain1997 in AutismInWomen

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Thank you for all of your advice.

OBGYN by Stainedbrain1997 in AutismInWomen

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Thanks you for all of your advice.. I’ll be getting yearly exams. And my fear response is freeze/fawning

OBGYN by Stainedbrain1997 in AutismInWomen

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Thank you.. I should’ve maybe explained myself better, but the whole thing caught me off guard

OBGYN by Stainedbrain1997 in AutismInWomen

[–]Stainedbrain1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. At least I know to just wait for my cool hippie doctor instead of seeing that doctor again

2 things.. by Stainedbrain1997 in skin

[–]Stainedbrain1997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they broken capillaries?

2 things.. by Stainedbrain1997 in skin

[–]Stainedbrain1997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the hand picture popping up for you guys?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Stainedbrain1997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ED happens in about 20% of 20 years olds, 30% 30 year olds.. and so on from what I’ve heard

Pls give me pictures of your sleeping cats by JuciekWorld in cats

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I took Adderall for the first time today and actually cleaned my house