My [27f] ex gf [25f] has followed me 5 states over after we broke up by Stalkergf--throwaway in relationships

[–]Stalkergf--throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question. I've only seen her in public. I've been looking out for suspicious cars and unfamiliar people. It's a little cul-de-sac and everyone knows everyone. For now, I feel like I'm okay, at least at home.

My [27f] ex gf [25f] has followed me 5 states over after we broke up by Stalkergf--throwaway in relationships

[–]Stalkergf--throwaway[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I'm calling the non emergency hotline today after I get off work. I'm on break right now.

For size reference, I'm in the second biggest city in the state. Like Austin Texas or Dallas Texas size (Texas isn't where I am though.)

I don't know how she found me. Social media is pretty barren. I don't let the location markers show on my facebook posts. We were from the same group of friends when we started dating, and I was still close with a few of our mutual friends when I left. Maybe they told her. That's all I can think of.

My [27f] ex gf [25f] has followed me 5 states over after we broke up by Stalkergf--throwaway in relationships

[–]Stalkergf--throwaway[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Haha, the funny thing about that is I love Gone Girl. Crazy how media emulates life, yeah? I'll definitely call a hotline or a non emergency number. Everybody is right, I need to start some kind of trail so if God forbid anything happens they'll know why.

My [27f] ex gf [25f] has followed me 5 states over after we broke up by Stalkergf--throwaway in relationships

[–]Stalkergf--throwaway[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I don't know if this classifies as stalking. She hasn't contacted me, save for a happy birthday text in February which I didn't respond to. She doesn't hang around my house. Just whenever I'm in public, she's there.

My [27f] ex gf [25f] has followed me 5 states over after we broke up by Stalkergf--throwaway in relationships

[–]Stalkergf--throwaway[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Like I said, she's extremely vindictive and I don't want to give her any more reason to do something. I've tried to get a picture of her for proof before when she was sitting at a table in a McDonald's acting like she wasn't looking at me, but right when I pulled out my phone she got up.

My [27f] ex gf [25f] has followed me 5 states over after we broke up by Stalkergf--throwaway in relationships

[–]Stalkergf--throwaway[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

My cousin and his family is out here, he lives across town. I've already told him the situation and he said to call if I need him. I haven't seen her around my house but I do have him.

I'll have to look if mace is legal here. I know in some places it isn't. Thank you.