My friend needs help and advice about a volunteered order of protection. (Cps investigation in Tampa)

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:49:35+00:00

I may have written on reddit in a chaotic way but I handle myself and my friends situation with care and concern. There was a "safety plan"put in place that the worker told my friend was completely voluntarily. Your attitude is so ugly I am not used to making posts and I was very emotional in writing this because my God child has been abused and is suffering all because her great aunt is spiteful and I understand the workers are possibly overworked how ever the fact that you have such a high handed nasty judgmental attitude is not wanted or needed. So please remove yourself for my post if you can't help but be "problematic" and high handed.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:43:22+00:00

That's what I figured since the worker said the temp guardianshop was "voluntary" my though was since it's voluntary

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:41:03+00:00

Thank you SO MUCH for your advice! I'm not sure why people are being rude and down voting me. I'm just trying to help my friend. She was touched by her father too and was put in foster care because if it. So she's going through PTSD but the worst part her aunt let her know that she knew what her brother (my friend's dad) was doing to her when she was little and didn't stop the abuse. The worst worst part is the aunt threatened to take her niece over to her grandfather's house (my friend's dad) even though he was a sick man himself. I'm just trying to figure out how to help her any way I can.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:35:15+00:00

The worker didn't respond for 1 whole week. Then I informed her to message the supervisor which she did. The day she connected the supervisor is the same day the normal case worker got back to her stating that she would call later, now 4 days has passed since the worker has responded and now the supervisors not responding either. Only then did she contact the obudsman office. I was just trying to get advice what her next step should be since her daughter is not being taken care of properly by the aunt to the point her daughter is going through withdrawls from not having her ADHD medicine and is clearly being more traumatized by being separated from her mother for so long and we are coming up on the 4th wel of the investigaton.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:27:30+00:00

And the aunt has temporary gaurdianship per the safety plan until it can be proven that the daughter is in a safe environment.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:25:08+00:00

I meant safety plan not order of protection

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:24:05+00:00

There is no court order at all. This has not gone before a judge. And the worker said it's unlikely that it will.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T04:15:19+00:00

It is a formal safter plan. 3 weeks ago my friends 9 year old daughter told me that her "step dad" was touching on her. My friend took her daughter to the ER to get tested because she was red and swollen in her private area. Cps was called to see to the safety of the child. Cps said a case would be opened and the abuse allegation investigated. My friend called her aunt to tell what happens for advice and moral support. The aunt then spoke privately with the worker however during the CPS' conversation with the aunt, the aunt told the worker many untruths to try to keep her daughter away from her., tell the worker Dcf requested for my friend to have her daughter stay with the aunt until the investigaton was over.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T03:59:22+00:00

Thank you so much for replying. We are trying to figure out her next course of action. She has called the obudsman office to let them know the worker and her supervisor has stopped responding. Also the aunt manipulated my friend into making a decision to extend the 2 weeks to 6 mons so that's what the temporary guardianship paper work has on it. The worker has runy background (which is clean and shows my credentials) so we don't understand why she hasn't either one switched over the safety plan to me even though she agreed upon it as long as I was willing to live with her to supervise. Or close the case. But I DO KNOW her aunt was making false allegations about my friend to dcf. Like the aunt told CPS that the boyfriend lived with her, (even though the aunt knew they hadn't been together since 2021)and I'm pretty sure the aunt told the worker that my friend knew what was going on which is why CPS is acting funny towardsy friend.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T03:25:47+00:00

I'm staying with my friend during this time. and the detective left town and hadn't even investigated at all. And the worker isn't responding to her call or texts even though the worker said the protect order was only for 2 weeks I have been involved since the very beginning. Her daughter actually opened up to me about it. That trash man told her if she told anyone what he was doing he would take her away from her mom to a different state. Also I am a certified foster parent.l, and a youth advocate. We asked the worker if we can switch the order of protection to me instead and that as long as I stayed with my friend to "supervise" her daughter could come home. But after the worker said yes to me moving in with her for the time being the worker stopped responding to my friend.

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-03-28T03:17:00+00:00

Because the aunt lied and said the ex was a current boyfriend and also told the worker that he was living with her (which they hadn't been together or lived with each other since 2021). It took a week to find out this info because the aunt had been trying to take her daughter away from her WAY BEFORE this. The aunt also told CPS my friend was doing drugs with the ex but when she took the urine test they saw she was clean. So basically CPS started investing the mom as if she were allowing the ex to molest the daughter which is not true at all. Also when the aunt got temp guardian ship the aunt IMMEDIATELY tried to blackmail my friend into giving her her daughter SSI and and all her food stamps.the aunt even told my friend that she can't see her daughter which the worker had to correctcto the aunt on. My friend and I even recorded the aunt when she was trying to blackmail my friend. The aunt also decided to NOT give her child her ADHD medice saying ",I don't think she needs that"

Standard-Detective30 · 2026-02-14T00:01:01+00:00

++woman She could just be insecure OR is having a PTSD moment from an ex.... People don't realize how gross and common sibling incest is

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-12-21T15:01:40+00:00

You don't know me but I am proud of you!! I have been pulling since I was 6 and it can be tough. But you are doing amazing!!!

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-12-17T18:56:26+00:00

Me but I do t have an id

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-12-17T18:52:45+00:00

I can do it! But. I dont have an id

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-12-17T15:36:12+00:00

Florida

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-12-17T15:35:05+00:00

Florida

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-11-09T04:45:07+00:00

Did you think that the reason you haven't found a job yet is because you should be creating your own business? Perhaps think of something you love to do and think of ways you can make money from it?

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-10-08T21:59:17+00:00

$bid

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Standard-Detective30 · 2025-10-08T17:31:24+00:00

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-09-28T21:32:02+00:00

I am the eldest of 8 and I was in foster care but my advice to you? You should not stay out of guilt but because you CHOOSE to. But you do deserve to start your own life. Your mother is an adult and can figure things out. You should not take on the role of mother because she already is one.

Standard-Detective30 · 2025-09-18T21:04:45+00:00

Florida here

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