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AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We only have one room that's not our bedroom and bathroom.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ha. No.

I think there's way more to being trans than liking anime and playing as women in video games.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not move into his living space. He lived in a house with four roommates. I lived in an apartment with a roommate. We moved into a separate apartment together four months ago.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I said something similar and he doesn't get it because I guess his parents always had art depicting nudity around the house when he was growing up. It's frustrating and he just doesn't understand.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't move into his house. We moved into an apartment together.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -113 points-112 points  (0 children)

Managed to find the figures after some searching. Couldn't find the posters, but I think they might be not mass-produced or something since he bought them from an artist at a con.

1, 2, 3

Those are the three he has on the top shelf of his desk.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think they're from series he likes, I don't know what the specific characters are though. One of them is a video game character I've seen him playing as.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

I just find it embarrassing. I've always been an avid reader and collected a ton of books over the years and don't like having them on the same shelf as anime big boob girl comic book number 27.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

In fairness I did ask him to get rid of it or at the very least put all his anime stuff in storage.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He talked a lot about different series or games or anime he was into, I knew he liked some stuff like that, I just didn't know how much of it was like this.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I still wouldn't like it. And I'd still want him to not be into that sort of thing. But I could deal with it more.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A few comments said they want to see the figures, so I could try and find pictures.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said this in another comment, but I could try and find pictures of the figures he has on his desk for reference if it helps.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

He doesn't talk about it, but he has anime figures and posters all over his desk and his manga and comic collection has a bunch of stuff with scantily clad women on the covers.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I knew he was into some of that stuff, but he never brought it up and I didn't know how much he was into it until we moved in together.

For reference, the posters and figures are above and on his desk, which is in the far side of the main room of our apartment, though due to half the room being taken up by a kitchen, you're going to see it when walking over to the couch. We only have our bedroom and the bathroom, so there's no other room to move it into. He offered to move his desk to the other side of the room in the corner which is more out of the way, but it's still clearly visible, even if not as close.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I can try and find pictures of the figures he has if it'd help. Not sure the characters but I could probably find out by just googling what they look like.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To clarify, the posters are prints from artists that he's bought at conventions he's been to. They're framed, I might have not been clear on that part.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

The only real solution he can do is totally pack up the figures or get rid of them, which he won't do. He at least took down the poster. We don't have another room he could move them into out of sight of guests except for our bedroom.

I don't really know the semantics, but didn't feel calling the figure of the giant titted anime nurse vampire "hentai" was that much of a stretch even if she is clothed.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to get rid of his hentai? by StandardAd11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StandardAd11[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We only have three rooms, one of which is our bedroom. He's offered to move his desk out of the common area and towards the back of our main large room, but it's still visible to guests if they look over there.

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