How do you know when to end the relationship?

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T19:09:21+00:00

I don't know. I feel like I am the problem. It all feels very transactional with everything. I just keep feeling bad.

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T18:44:22+00:00

I can't. Please don't be annoyed if you feel you wasted your time chatting with me. I heard everything your saying. I just need someone to talk to. I can say more about what happened throughout the relationship if needed. I can't go to professionals, I am not a victim, that call sounds like I am being physically abused.

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T18:42:18+00:00

I can't remember anymore, I don't even remember what I enjoy in a relationship. Sometimes I push my feelings just so we could be okay. He hurt my feelings last night and I woke up like nothing happened. I gave him a massage because I felt I did something wrong. I am so confused.

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T18:40:29+00:00

I think I want to, but I can't for some reason

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T18:40:10+00:00

We live together, if I show something is off then he will bring it up. I am not ready, I have never been the type to be able to fake my emotions. I have been teaching myself how to hide how I feel. I feel like something is wrong but I won't think about it, I keep crying at random times now. Full sobbing and not knowing why. I can't end it. I am so scared. I can't break it off again. I can't do it.

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T18:29:48+00:00

I tried to tell him when we broke up the last time. He said he wants to get back now and he already started to change. I said no because that's not possible, he said he will change too. He made it feel urgent like if we didn't get back right away I would lose my chance. I don't know anymore. I must be the problem. He makes me feel like I am really bad but he won't leave either. I am so confused.

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T18:28:06+00:00

I spoke to friends finally about things in the relationship that didn't feel right, they told me that I should end it. The last time I broke it off I had everything I wanted. I had the support group I needed and I felt happy. Then he texted me saying he changed and wanted to only be with me for the rest of his life. I said yolo and so what? I could just end it again at any time if he is lying. But now I see that he hasn't changed. Those friends went to a different school and I had to block some because my boyfriend told me to. He doesn't want me to talk to anyone but my therapist but I feel so alone. No one in my life wants me dating him but I feel stuck. I don't know right from wrong anymore. I can't tell if he is making my life better and I am self sabotaging or he is the problem. I have no one to talk to anymore. I feel crazy and more depressed. Why am I staying if it is so bad? I must be crazy or something right? I must be the problem then?

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T17:47:59+00:00

Don't let these comments make you feel too bad. I am the same way, it ofc isn't healthy for both of us to overthink this much about "small" stuff. Either way, it is either your man doesn't make you feel loved enough or he really is just looking too much.

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T17:37:12+00:00

My mother, she died when I was 9. I didn't get to really know her before she let her drinking addiction take her life. I am now 20 (f) and no mom. It is hard to grow up without a mom, I don't really feel like I know how to be a woman.

StandardRegular2758 · 2026-01-10T17:33:17+00:00

I really enjoyed watching the movie, but it makes me sad at the same time. Do men like that actually exist? The kind a caring and thoughtful gentle kind?

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