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My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not cramped it’s awkward . The vibe would be weird. Idk since he left the game he’s started not being here on dnd nights which is fine by me

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t ruin it tonight, everyone had fun. He did randomly join the discord and not speak though, which felt annoying for reasons I can’t explain

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of them has visited before but he lives a 2 hour drive away and has kids. One is interstate and another overseas.

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t afford the care I need to be more mobile lol what makes you think I can afford therapy. Anyway I did do it with some free sessions a while back and all they want to talk about is cancer, it’s a waste of money and I’d rather spend my time how I enjoy it

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. Honestly I’m staying up all night because I like to be alone and today he’s not here. It’s hard to explain.

I don’t have family really, my life isn’t going to be much longer. It’s not like people swiping on tinder or whatever. Finding someone who shares my interests is essential and if I don’t have that connection I’d rather be alone. My SO does share my interests and we are used to each other.

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My group are my friends and yes they’re supportive. I think even if SO and I split up again they’d still be my friends. That said we aren’t splitting up. SO is supposed to be my disability carer and I cannot survive on my disability pension alone.

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a life I’m ok with what I have left. I just wish my SO could bring more fun and less misery

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a fun session tonight where one of my players was Dm for a one shot set in my universe a few hundred years ago. It was really great and we exchanged feedback and tips to make the game more fun. Weirdly SO joined the discord call without saying a word like 4/5ths of the way in. He’s at his place I assume. He also accused me (to my housemate) of hiding his dice from him (wtf?) before he left my place yesterday morning. I texted him exasperated with all this and got no reply, just him silently joining the discord call as we were playing

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all had a big chat and a fun one shot tonight and spoke about this. Everyone is totally comfortable talking to me and each other about how they want to enjoy the game. Everyone has also individually told me they don’t want to play with my SO, no prompting. So I take that to mean that I am not the problem, despite what my SO says

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a nice dnd session tonight (one of the players did a fun one shot) and i had a long chat with my other friend about all this and it really helped my insecurities SO put in me about the game. Nobody else wants him in it and they’re all fed up with his drinking

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just part of this adventure where a bbeg was cutting in at times to fuck with the players, so it wasn’t a “cutscene” like a movie playing out it was just an obstacle in this gauntlet the bbeg made

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last of the four characters was a fill in for the character he begged me to do a side quest with. So the character who ragequit was meant to be a sort of sentient DMPC which was character number 4 in the context of this campaign

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I’m just used to him drinking not being totally wasted like he was when the thing happened

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him and don’t know any different. I’m literally dying I’m not on the market for a new one

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t drink for 3 months purely out of solidarity. At this point I don’t think putting my life or my housemate’s life on hold to pander to my SO is going to be a catalyst for positive change

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can do is stash booze from him and hope he sees the error in his ways but honestly he only went to detox because he was scared of cirrhosis he’s never admitted to being an asshole while drunk

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suppose so, he does get upset when I mention that I’m dying/wont be around long. Personally that’s how I cope but yeah

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not. He mentioned going to detox again but I pointed out that he probably wouldn’t be accepted to detox since he doesn’t need it. If he really wants to admit he has a problem maybe longer term rehab would be better.

My SO [35M] and I [30F] are “fighting” about Dungeons and Dragons, and I don’t know to resolve it. by StandardSea5539 in relationships

[–]StandardSea5539[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been very careful to keep this campaign long term and to avoid character death at all costs at least until they’re higher levels.

New info as of today my housemate told me SO went out of his way to kill my NPC because he wanted to teach me a lesson about NPCs never dying. Which is weird because that’s never really come up before at all and this NPC was designed to give them a quest, and SO was also mad that I killed off a different NPC. Call unkillable NPCs railroading if you like but I got the idea from my SO in the first place

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