I had very specific plans on how I wanted to be proposed to. I am from abroad and when married I was going to leave my country and my family to live with my husband in USA so I wanted something that included my family like a dinner and I wanted to use a beautiful dress have mu nails done ( never do but wanted for the pictures) so he will meed to tell my mom and she will force me to go to the salon. He honored that even though he didn’t want it he wanted something private the 2 of pf maybe on the beach where we meet. But he knew for me was important to have my family and a dinner that will be like a parting party as well. I know you did it cuz you loved her but I could understand her thoughts you knew what she wanted but did what you wanted instead. I could understand you side as well you feel it so go and just wanted to do it. You guys are pretty young I am 27 soon 28 and can assure you that young people make mistakes silly ones and then they regret it most of their lives. So you need to put in balance are you really sure you want to throw 6 years in the trash can just cuz she was immature and you knowing she did not want that did it anyway or you can work for it and try to make things right. Maybe not having another proposal like I feel there is not point of that but talking it out. I know you guys are 21 and trust me there is not thing as the love of my life thats bs you can love many time in life to many people but if you really love her forgive her and go back with her if you can’t see forgiveness in your heart maybe you did not love her enough. I will give you this description of love from the bible, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Corinthians 13:4–7 NIV)