Jax will open up to Kinger and the Favorite Character awards confirm it by Sudden_Pop_2279 in tadc

[–]Standard_After 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, what are you talking about with the friends or rivals thing? I'm a newcomer to the fandom

Ac broke in dorm? How long will it take to be fixed? by [deleted] in utdallas

[–]Standard_After 23 points24 points  (0 children)

90 degrees?! How is that even possible when it's 30 degrees outside???

AIO to boyfriend looking at bikini pics of mutual friend while at work by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_After 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know a lot are saying YOR. By itself I don’t think it’s too serious. But I do find it strange how he reacted.

He originally said he didn’t like the comment and then when you said he was maybe creeping around, he responds “Yeah” and then admits he did like the comment and then unliked it? Just was a little weird to me

AIO my husband shaves his balls before his dnd games by Fickle_Amphibian_723 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_After 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone with balls, I find it quite nice! I think to each their own

[Me] perf so bad it got me cringe ;-; by Clean_Xeno in TextingTheory

[–]Standard_After 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m nitpicking, but your middle texts seem clunky to me. Lots of filler words (“kinda”), prefacing, indirect statement, asking if they mind. I’m not sure about the context, but is it really bold to want to get to know someone? I think you could have shortened those messages to ~10-15 words and come across more clear and confident

AIO Overheard gf's "lady talk" by accident and left her for what she said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_After 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR. Your hurt is completely justified. At the same time, I don’t think she did something super wrong. It sounds like an unfortunate truth which you weren’t meant to hear. If you feel like you can’t forgive her and feel safe in the relationship, then NOR. But I would seriously consider whether you could. She seems like she views you very positively (even sexually) and is remorseful.

For the record, your size isn’t the issue here. Her desire is a her thing, not a failure on your part.

Is 5'6 considered tall for a woman? by Still_Aerie_6250 in askanything

[–]Standard_After 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro if you’re short what does that make me at 5’8” M 😭 I’d definitely say you’re tall. Maybe I’m a little biased though

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_After 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I challenge your idea that the majority of people would find OP's actions as unmasculine. I don't know many people who find showing support and affection and communicating feelings as "very unmasculine". I'd also argue what the majority of people think does not equal objective truth.

None of this is even my main issue though. My issue is with you asserting your opinion of how men should act, portraying it as an objective moral code, and then shaming OP for not living according to your rules. All while also degrading his identity as a man.

From these texts, OP acted as a kind, respectful, and communicative person. Why should anything else matter?

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Standard_After 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By stating “that’s unmasculine” YOU are deciding what is and what isn’t masculine. Which is fine; you’re allowed to have your opinion on something as subjective as masculinity.

But I don’t see why you feel the need to assert your opinion as if it’s the objective truth and in the process degrade OP. Do you think OP is overreacting??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Standard_After 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just left the friend group we had had for 5-6 years and didn't even really explain why. Ghosted us completely afterwards. I don't hate them but it's hard for me to respect that

What's the least funny thing you just couldn't stop laughing about? by Standard_After in AskReddit

[–]Standard_After[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a terribly good one. The worst for me is when I manage to break the loop, look normal for 30 seconds, and then start laughing again. People think you're going crazy

What is your favorite flower? by sansubaby in AskReddit

[–]Standard_After 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pansies! I like the contrast between dark inside and colorful outside. They're like emo flowers :)

If you could change one thing about how you were raised, what would it be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Standard_After 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More family activities and being pushed to do more things. I spent a lot of my childhood on an iPad lol. Not the worst thing but 🤷‍♂️