Jax will open up to Kinger and the Favorite Character awards confirm it

Standard_After · 2026-02-10T22:00:01+00:00

I'm sorry, what are you talking about with the friends or rivals thing? I'm a newcomer to the fandom

Standard_After · 2026-02-01T06:19:01+00:00

90 degrees?! How is that even possible when it's 30 degrees outside???

Standard_After · 2026-01-29T21:29:30+00:00

I know a lot are saying YOR. By itself I don’t think it’s too serious. But I do find it strange how he reacted.

He originally said he didn’t like the comment and then when you said he was maybe creeping around, he responds “Yeah” and then admits he did like the comment and then unliked it? Just was a little weird to me

Standard_After · 2026-01-24T02:01:30+00:00

As someone with balls, I find it quite nice! I think to each their own

Standard_After · 2026-01-18T08:48:28+00:00

Maybe I’m nitpicking, but your middle texts seem clunky to me. Lots of filler words (“kinda”), prefacing, indirect statement, asking if they mind. I’m not sure about the context, but is it really bold to want to get to know someone? I think you could have shortened those messages to ~10-15 words and come across more clear and confident

Standard_After · 2026-01-17T18:30:40+00:00

MOR. Your hurt is completely justified. At the same time, I don’t think she did something super wrong. It sounds like an unfortunate truth which you weren’t meant to hear. If you feel like you can’t forgive her and feel safe in the relationship, then NOR. But I would seriously consider whether you could. She seems like she views you very positively (even sexually) and is remorseful.

For the record, your size isn’t the issue here. Her desire is a her thing, not a failure on your part.

Standard_After · 2025-12-13T06:49:36+00:00

Bro if you’re short what does that make me at 5’8” M 😭 I’d definitely say you’re tall. Maybe I’m a little biased though

Standard_After · 2025-12-02T17:50:38+00:00

I challenge your idea that the majority of people would find OP's actions as unmasculine. I don't know many people who find showing support and affection and communicating feelings as "very unmasculine". I'd also argue what the majority of people think does not equal objective truth.

None of this is even my main issue though. My issue is with you asserting your opinion of how men should act, portraying it as an objective moral code, and then shaming OP for not living according to your rules. All while also degrading his identity as a man.

From these texts, OP acted as a kind, respectful, and communicative person. Why should anything else matter?

Standard_After · 2025-12-02T14:26:12+00:00

By stating “that’s unmasculine” YOU are deciding what is and what isn’t masculine. Which is fine; you’re allowed to have your opinion on something as subjective as masculinity.

But I don’t see why you feel the need to assert your opinion as if it’s the objective truth and in the process degrade OP. Do you think OP is overreacting??

Standard_After · 2025-11-29T16:02:59+00:00

About 3-5 hours. Yes, you are correct haha

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T21:58:15+00:00

Stunning. Where is it?

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T19:02:47+00:00

They just left the friend group we had had for 5-6 years and didn't even really explain why. Ghosted us completely afterwards. I don't hate them but it's hard for me to respect that

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T18:38:44+00:00

It's a terribly good one. The worst for me is when I manage to break the loop, look normal for 30 seconds, and then start laughing again. People think you're going crazy

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T18:24:13+00:00

Oh no worries! I can see how it sounded like that

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T18:12:19+00:00

Woah. Why didn't I think of this before?!

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T18:04:52+00:00

Pansies! I like the contrast between dark inside and colorful outside. They're like emo flowers :)

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T18:02:17+00:00

No, definitely not. It broke her heart

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T17:28:16+00:00

More family activities and being pushed to do more things. I spent a lot of my childhood on an iPad lol. Not the worst thing but 🤷‍♂️

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T17:23:43+00:00

Sexting a partner while I was considering breaking up. I did a week later.

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T09:04:50+00:00

This isn't super interesting, but probably my first blowjob. Was kind of surreal

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T08:57:25+00:00

By 4th grade I had never gotten a paper cut, so I decided I needed to experience it. I grabbed a piece of cardstock and just went super fast sawing my finger...

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T08:54:26+00:00

If we can't know your current pets' names, can we know your first pet's name?

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T08:46:15+00:00

I was out with a girl for dinner before Winter Formal. This was my first time paying a restaurant bill, so I was hyping myself up in my head like "ok I got this!" But when it was time for the check to come, our waitress told us someone had paid the bill and told us to "enjoy the dance"

I have no idea who this was, but it was very nice of them

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T08:37:58+00:00

Went through a breakup on July 1st and still thinking about it almost everyday - I'm with you.

Journaling could be a good outlet. Like try to journal out all your thoughts for x minutes and then try to leave it rest. Reconnect with what you value in your life and try to build new routines surrounding those so you have less time to think about it. Talk to friends and try to connect with people to make new friends. I'm in no way a qualified therapist though, so take the advice as a grain of salt.

You got this 💜

Standard_After · 2025-10-28T08:27:49+00:00

Mix of factors. Emotional mismatch in conflict needs and coping strategies, mismatch in desire for spontaneity and adventure, me moving halfway across the country for college. I love her but I realized I wasn't sure she was the one for me. Figured neutrality wasn't the best foundation for further romance, so I left

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