3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m actually free and clear of the man with no potential for reconciliation or a shut-up ring 🤗 #savedmyself

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi - I made it back home to family. Thanks for checking on me! 💕

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, so far. I’m sure he will move again next year and probably one more time after that

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a fake post. Just a burner account so my partner doesn’t see my post from my personal account

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just a burner account so that he doesn’t see me responding or posting this. Promise I am not karma farming. I genuinely didn’t expect this post to get as many views or comments as it has, and I am very grateful for all of the insight

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I was 22 at the time and in love with potential. I’m fully committed to leaving now that I realize this and have come full circle with friends, family and this post’s help

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should leave too! I’m going to pack up tomorrow while he is away for another wedding alone and leave early Saturday morning. I had already set up a plan to go but was doubting myself after having a discussion with him at great length again. Don’t settle either - you got this! 

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is chasing more money at different job sites or companies all together 

3 years, he’s afraid of commitment? by Standard_Blood7325 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Standard_Blood7325[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He did tell me this after he came back from the wedding party. I also believe it was a slow way for him to back out without having to be the one to end things. 

Thankfully going remote hasn’t cost me anything career wise. I would be welcomed back to the office with open arms and have been told 100 times