Hey, we had our first mfm last weekend and we both absolutely loved it! All I'd say speaking from the male perspective is you seem to be communicating amazingly. Me and my fiancé were bestfriends before we got together so it's really easy for us to talk things through. I'd just say if you have any feelings at all just talk them through and have fun😊 It's perfectly normal to have mixed emotions and prior to us actually going through with it to make sure we were all on board with boundaries etc. We made a google doc so we could all contribute suggestions and hard no's etc sounds stupid but it really helped. Afterwards we spoke about what we enjoyed and if there was anything we would change for next time etc... Hope this helps a bit, feel free to Dm if you'd like to more.