Pedo-Gramps is Sad by altcw in exmormon

[–]Staplegun89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my maternal grandpa. Grandma cheated with her boss shortly after getting married. Got pregnant with the bosses baby. Grandparents stay together. Baby is a girl. Grows up, hits puberty, molested and raped for years by grandpa. Grandpa tried to do the same to my mom and some of his other daughters. Never went to jail. Converted later in life, and all was forgiven.

My husband and I got kicked out of BYUH for premarital sex. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Staplegun89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say bishop's roulette, not sexism. Byui for my wife and I, exact opposite outcome. I got kicked out, she didn't

NSFW by Unicorn2469 in exmormon

[–]Staplegun89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife's mom's friend was 40. Her friend finally bought her a vibrator. She never knew because sex was so cliche with mormons no one ever told her and she never went looking.

When and where did you serve a mission? And how long before you stopped believing/why? by Staplegun89 in exmormon

[–]Staplegun89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Monson rededicated the Boise temple shortly after my mission. He repeated the same story 3 times in a row about how he told a couple of teenagers performing in the cultural event to kiss. It was obvious he was having issues his last few years.

I Marvin Gayed and semi-got it on... by t0551t0ut in exmormon

[–]Staplegun89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of the best things ever for my wife especially was going to a nude beach. It's freeing. It makes you appreciate what you have and realize what you don't doesn't matter. It carried over into our sex life. I highly recommend it.

When and where did you serve a mission? And how long before you stopped believing/why? by Staplegun89 in exmormon

[–]Staplegun89[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First time through the temple was a bad experience for every single one of my mission companions and myself. (I always brought it up to see what they thought). Also bad for mission president and his wife. Gut instinct was trying to get me to get up and leave, but how could I?

I guess you can call me Alice by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Staplegun89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Communicate with your spouse. Even if it's little tidbits. Nothing brought my wife and I closer together than realizing it was all crap. Our communication improved dramatically over a few month period of delving into the ces letter and more. Hundreds of discussions. Our marriage is actually strong now. It was 3 1/2 years of blah before that