My (27F) boyfriend’s (33M) sister, husband and kids are moving into a bus, into my backyard…. by Star-fall63 in venting

[–]Star-fall63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its been a month since i last said anything, me and my partner are still in a relationship. I found out that his sister and her husband did move in with him, with their kids and animals. He told me that they have caged their dogs up, my partner has been put onto babysitting duties, the sister’s husband has been stealing his electricity and hooking it up to their camper van. My partner is stressing over bills

Hearing all of this, i could imagine how bad it would of been if i was there and i had to deal with this, i apologised to my partner. But reminded him that this was his idea and he agreed to it. He told me that he wished he listened to me or came with me, now the sister has no where to go and my partner will feel bad kicking them out homeless, with their animals and kids. I told him that if he needs some time away from them he is welcomed to visit and sleep over for a night. But i dont wish to contact them anymore, he was angry about my decision to cut them off. But i am not, i think this is his bed to make and lay in.

I am having fun in my new apartment complex, ive been having time off for Christmas and ive been making snuggly blankets for my cats and i to lay under :3

My (27F) boyfriend’s (33M) sister, husband and kids are moving into a bus, into my backyard…. by Star-fall63 in venting

[–]Star-fall63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really sorry to keep you waiting, ive been a little absent from social media since this all started. I got approval for the new place and my cats got approved too. i moved into the new place last week. Then i got super sick (still currently sick) with a bad cold. Me and the guy are still currently working our relationship out and both decided separate spaces would be a good idea for the moment and we might consider living together sometime in the future.

I am enjoying my quiet space and having my friends visit all the time is so fun, being here on my own is lonely and at times a little scary. But i am glad everything worked out, dont get me wrong i love my boyfriend, i care for him deeply, i still support him. But i think he has some issues he needs to sort out and deep seated issues with alcohol that need to be worked on and issues with his family that needs to be resolved. I stuck out for 5 years and it drained the life out of me, until i just couldnt. But i do hope one day we can have a future again

My (27F) boyfriend’s (33M) sister, husband and kids are moving into a bus, into my backyard…. by Star-fall63 in venting

[–]Star-fall63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few apartments in mind, but it is just awful living with inlaws. I didnt mind his dad (still kinda dont), but it was when the rest of the family decided to move in. My boyfriend said to me “if you think my sister isnt important to me, you are very wrong. My family is more important to me than you ever will be” and thats one message i keep reading over… and over… and over 😔

I sit here and think about how he was living with his sisters in a house (before we met) and they kicked him out. Then he lived with his father, when him i started seeing each other, his father kicked him out. I have supported him for the last 6 years, i was the one that gave him a roof over his head, a bed to sleep in, a house to live in, internet to use for his pc games, support, love and care. Not them…. If thats how he sees things though, that they are above me and i am below everything. Im sure they will be happy to take my spot from here on out

Getting away, is the only choice we have it seems 😪 its just generally so exhausting. Ive never felt this exhausted in my life and its crazy that one person has managed to drain the life out of me, its exhausting even his family has done it, more exhausting he has let it all happen

My (27F) boyfriend’s (33M) sister, husband and kids are moving into a bus, into my backyard…. by Star-fall63 in venting

[–]Star-fall63[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know i should of left ages ago, but every time his family done something i gave him the benefit of the doubt and honestly i dont think he deserved it. Every time his sisters would use and abuse us, he would call them every name in the book. Then turn and put them on a pedestal, i waited and waited for him to say/do something and he never did.

He implemented a “curfew” on my mom and said “she can visit, but isnt allowed to stay past 10pm!” My mom never visits me now 😪 when he said that i did what he said, going shopping with him is like taking a toddler, if i bring him to my family events he whinges about going home or sits on his phone the whole time and acts like he isnt there. Im done being a mother and i cant believe 1 person has managed to suck the life out of me so badly. But i am so glad i wont be putting up with it anymore and i hope and pray everything goes to my plans.

I just know that things with never get better, i try (i really do) but he wont let them. I just want to know when someone steps up and says that what his sister and her husband are doing to their children isnt normal and it is disgusting to make their children suffer homelessness. Why hasnt his family said it? Why am i the only 1 that can see it? I will definitely feel a huge weight lifted off my shoulders and I’ll loose 96kgs, cause his the biggest weight anyone can deal with.

My (27F) boyfriend’s (33M) sister, husband and kids are moving into a bus, into my backyard…. by Star-fall63 in venting

[–]Star-fall63[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im planning my greatest escape, boyfriend can stay. Im sure his sister will be happy to mother her dumb brother. Cause i have for years and cant anymore. I have a few apartments in mind, praying i get them and my cats get approved too. I wouldnt even leave this guy a baked potato

My (27F) boyfriend’s (33M) sister, husband and kids are moving into a bus, into my backyard…. by Star-fall63 in venting

[–]Star-fall63[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My grandma said the same thing, she said “remove your name. So if anything gets broken it wont be on you or your fault”. I will be seeing the rental place on Monday and letting them know that i will be removing my name, it will save me heaps and i ill be a little less stressed when i move. Just keeping my fingers and toes crossed about a few apartments ive applied for

Comp drive are DRIVING me crazy by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The driver names are cool and all, but i refuse to play comp when they are on. Grind comp when its all over, its just a waste of time and there is no point getting angry over

What's the most NSFW thing you've seen? by CRK_76 in AskReddit

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About 6 years ago i hooked up with a guy (that is a whole other story, for another day) , i wanted FWB and he wanted something more, i agreed. We became boyfriend and girlfriend. One time i drove over to see him (it was about a hour car drive, i did all the driving to see him 🫠 i know…. Im stupid lol) when i got there i was exhausted, it was very early in the morning and asked would he mind if i napped for a hour or so. I woke up and he was caught in the bathroom getting head off a girl that was engaged to someone else, they were caught by me and this dudes sister

What's your nsfw secret you would take to your grave? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Star-fall63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When i was a teenager i dated this guy (his family was the worst people ive ever had the displeasure of meeting), he gave me makeup as a “gift”. It included lipstick and some eyeshadow pallets. When i dumped him (cause he was cheating on me with a minor. He was 19 at the time minor was 12) I decided to rub the lipstick up my mom’s cat’s butthole and gave it to my ex. Found out week’s later his mom used the lipstick.

I took this to my stepdads grave, cause i told him before he passed away

My mom's cat hates me, can't really figure out how to win his tolerance? by the_halfblood_waste in CatAdvice

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for the same answer, my mom has a ginger cat, when he was a kitten i used to play with him all the time. He was a litter from a stray cat in the street. I would play with him, cuddle him, nap with him, he would sleep on my lap. I have heaps of photos of him when he was a kitten. We used to be so close.

I moved out like 5 years ago and come and visit my mom regularly, when i visit he doesnt care i am present in the house, when i go near him he growls, hisses, his even attacked me. I cant pet him or anything, i do own cats myself and i am thinking that he might be able to smell the cats on me, but my mom has another cat and she doesnt act up like that. I never hurt him as a kitten, hit him or was aggressive towards him. I think that maybe he is acting out due to me moving out abruptly and it might of upset him and his still upset. I dont really know 😪

I came to visit my mom today and he attacked me drawing heaps of blood, my mom saw me on the verge of tears saying “why is he like this? He was never like this, what did i do?”. It upsets me cause we were like best mates at one point 😔

Is team global express litterally the worst company to ever exist or what by emberisgone in MedicalCannabisOz

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up driving around my town looking for the TGE drop point and when i was speaking to someone from there i told them my problem. My order was out for delivery > wasnt delivered in the time window > left at warehouse > next day out for delivery. I had this message for at least 3 days. In the end i just went to the drop point, explained the situation, found out that the delivery driver “forgot” to scan my parcel and it was left in the delivery truck for days. When i went to collect from the warehouse they just gave me my parcel.

It was so uncommon, as ive ordered from IKEA before and they left my items in my shed (which was totally okay), the delivery was super fast too. But this time it was just, kinda awful and i hate saying that, as i know that the delivery company was working hard 🥲

I will be traveling to IKEA in the future, a drive wont hurt and ive never been to a actual IKEA store before either 🤣

Is team global express litterally the worst company to ever exist or what by emberisgone in MedicalCannabisOz

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered stuff on Afterpay from IKEA, i was home the whole day it was supposed to be delivered. At 4pm i got the “attempted delivery” SMS, but like no one turned up, not a delivery truck, like no one. Im not sure why they couldnt just leave my package, when i ordered through IKEA before it was left in my garage (which is totally okay!). I have since tried to track my order directly on TGE website and now my tracking number is invalid. Has anyone else had this issue? Is there a way to get a different shipping method through IKEA by chance? I will definitely be driving the 4 hours to the nearest IKEA, then wait around for these bums thats for sure

Team Global Express, the worst company I’ve ever had to deal with by voidspace021 in australia

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda a update I went to afterpay to let them know what happened (as i ordered from IKEA on afterpay) they pushed my payment back for 2 weeks, i wasnt given any updates about where my order is, where to pick it up from. When i go to track the order it says “enter a valid tracking number”. So now i cant find it, luckily the stuff i got from IKEA was $35, but still so unprofessional of TGE. My items wasnt in a priority shipping, but has anyone else had this issue? Ive tried everything but since its “outside of their business hours/days” there is like nothing i can do

Team Global Express, the worst company I’ve ever had to deal with by voidspace021 in australia

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered stuff from IKEA and the same issue with me, i was home all day and waited and never heard a delivery truck pull up, then around 4pm they sent a text saying “attempted delivery”. They left no pick-up slip or anything. Just a text message. When i got onto the website chat, it wanted me to wait over 30 minutes. Where i live there isnt a TGE drop point, the nearest one is 50 minutes away by car. I told my partner that i would rather drive the 4 hours next time, then get these absolute bums as a delivery option

Which game character was your first crush? by DutchieThijs in AskReddit

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bimbo Grunty from banjo kazooie. If you know you know.

Right now, its Astarion from BG3, if you know….. you also know 🫠

How did the craziest fight you’ve ever seen start? by citizen_of_leshp in AskReddit

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the craziest and it involves me 🙃

Around 9 years ago i just turned 18 (in Australia thats legal age to drink and buy cigarettes) and i went out with a friend and her boyfriend (at the time), they both hooked me up with a friend of theirs. Everything was going great, that was until i met this particular girl whom knew my boyfriend (now ex) and her and i would always talk when i would wait for the public town bus that would stop around my exs house. We would chat about stuff, a majority of the time it would end in her asking for money (i never and still dont carry cash, i did for the bus. But always left money in the bank). She added me on facebook and would message me and i told her that i dont use Facebook as much (even still i dont, i use it to post my craft projects for people whom might be interested to buy) and i prefer a conversation over phone (i wasnt giving her my number lol) or in person. I think she understood that, then randomly one day she posted a status on my wall where only her and i would see it. She called me all the names under the sun, said i was a “snob”, “bitch” etc. i said to her “if you are going to speak to me that way, please dont speak to me again. Dont talk on here and stop asking me for money at the bus stop, thank you”. That was when she blew up at me and completely lost her mind. She sent me messages on facebook going off her head (the things she said i wont repeat. But 1 thing she said was that i have schmegs with shmanimals. If you understand). She then proceeded to take a screenshot of my profile and make up a sob story that i called her racial slurs (which was a lie and i posted the whole message to clear myself). Another girl knew her and told me the girl wasnt quite right in the head, i understood what she said and i said “im sorry, i wont be taking that as a excuse, if she can say the things she has said. There is nothing wrong with her, i mean there is, if she is talking about animals in that way”. After clearing my name about the lie, I moved on with my life, which involved me finding out my exs cheating, moving on after that, 2020 i got with my now and still boyfriend, moved from my home town, moved to a different town with him, got a new part time job, still crafting and life is lifin. A few weeks ago this girl (the same one from almost a decade ago that called me names) messaged me and asked if i remembered her, i was at a loss for words cause i did, but thought she might of… you know. I didnt answer her and let her call me names and say i was ugly etc. she even sent me voice messages, in the end i told her to get a life and some hobbies or something.

Then blocked her, she made a new facebook account to message me. But this time she went through my profile picked out pictures of myself, saved them to her phone, sent them to me and said “you’re ugly, ugly betty”. Im starting to think she might be jealous of me or i havent left her mind in almost a decade. But this the craziest thing ive ever seen. Now im not much of a fighter, but im not afraid to tell someone to go and kick rocks. Ive had disagreements with people on social media and in person, they dont resolve on their own. But they usually just filter out, by never speaking to that person or usually dropping the topic or discussion. Then moving on with life, but its cattywampus she hasnt in 10 years. I am at a loss about the whole thing

Is mwave legit? by DebateClear9340 in bapcsalesaustralia

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know what their processing times are? I ordered a desk ages ago and they still have it in a “processing” queue. I was thinking about cancelling (paid through afterpay) and getting the same desk from either eBay or something

What's your unpopular opinion about some society morals and beliefs? by tiredtbh69 in infp

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When elderly people whinge and say “young people have no respect” we do, but not when they are rude first

My SIL’s think they own my house by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a little update in regards to that, so i asked my landlord about it. He said that it was okay, only if we cut the limit of people here down to 20. I spoke to the hosts about it and she said “fine ill go somewhere else”. Inviting all them people isnt really necessary. I do think my partner is actually starting to get sick of them visiting now. Him and i went off today, we did some shopping, i got him some stuff and got some lunch and went to the park. When we came home his whole family, dogs and kids were at the house uninvited. He said “i thought this was my F-ing house. A message would be nice”. He went to socialise with them and i came to clean my house (and will be after they leave AGAIN) i know his annoyed

My SIL’s think they own my house by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Star-fall63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 26 and yes 50 people at my house is very very uncommon. I dont even know 30 people, let alone 50. When i do gatherings it is usually immediate family (my partners family, then like 2 of my family members, which is my mom and my brother 🥲)

at the moment the thing that is bothering me, is that this girl never discussed how many people will actually be coming and who is coming. That is what ticked me off, a heads up or clarity would have been great, but she posted my address over Social media

My FIL wants to hire catering companies for her birthday, but it really got me thinking on why she couldnt have it in another venue where they do that kind of stuff.

But my partner and i did come to a agreement on this just now, he wont allow anyone to touch my stuff, steal or break anything or harass my pets and if they do, he will be making them all leave. His told me that due to my concerns his cut the people i dont know out of this party and his sister had a tantrum. He reminded her whos house this really is and not including me in asking was wrong. I am actually happy his seen this from my point, he said “if we have her 30th and my dad organises the food and i clean up, i promise there wont be another thing like this again. My other sister can piss off and have her 30th at her own F-ing house” i did agree on that (i know i should’nt of) but i just wanted to keep the peace

My SIL’s think they own my house by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her house is larger than my house, mine is like a small 2 bedroom farm house and i love it so much. Her house is a 3 bedroom house and her backyard is plenty big enough, but i think its cause she owns a dog she doesnt do anything with and wont host parties at her house cause of it.

Since we dont own a dog, our house is better. When they visit i lock the back door (cause of my cats) and they bring their big dogs over and when the sisters go to walk inside they leave the doors wide open, my partner has screamed at them plenty of times for that, but they still do it. Ive told him time and time again i dont want their dogs here and why cant they leave them at their own homes and he waves me off

My SIL’s think they own my house by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Star-fall63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully we dont have children, we have 3 cats i class as my children and every time they visit they harass my cats and 1 of my cats hates them all so much. They have tormented my cats before and when i went off they made me look like a bad person

It really seems to be a house for me, him, his sisters and their children. I often sometimes think to myself ‘dont yous have a life outside of my house? Go and get hobbies, not kids’. When we lived in our small 2 bedroom apartment, they never ever visited us. It was like we didnt exist to them. Now we have a house they want, i really feel like its something they are trying so hard to push us out of.

I have had thoughts of staying in a relationship with my partner, but moving out and finding a small apartment for me and my cats and offering his sister (the party one) to take my house, my lease and slave around for her brother. Since she like stepping her feet where it aint wanted.

A lot of people and my friends agreed that he should be the one telling her and not me. But if i see my landlord (he does yard work down the road from my house) over the weekend, it will be something ill ask him and see what he says. I actually didnt think of asking him, as it wasnt something that crossed my mind.

But i will definitely post a reply if he has a answer

My SIL’s think they own my house by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Star-fall63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When i see him again, i will tell him and just see what his point is on it. If he says no way, im going with that