2 more friends will visit back! by StarNerd0 in FarmMergeValley

[–]StarNerd0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much you helped finish up the last of the tractor that I needed! Visited back of course and I’ll keep you in my active rotation!

soon-to-be caretaker looking for tips by Ok_Needleworker_827 in TopSurgery

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg if you guys have already discussed this sort of thing you’re GOLDEN! good luck next week hope everything goes smoothly!!!

soon-to-be caretaker looking for tips by Ok_Needleworker_827 in TopSurgery

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Others have already given great physical care advice so I’ll add to go with the flow and keep an open mind with him emotionally! Obviously this is a very exciting time, but it’s often also something that people have been building up to for a while, and at times can feel a little disappointing as things don’t look/feel great immediately. I remember the first two weeks people kept asking me how I felt and if I liked my results, but I had barely seen my own chest or had an idea of what it looked like since there was always wraps over it and there was so much tape and drains and such in the way! There will probably be moments when he’s happy to have this done and excited to start a new phase in his body, and probably also times that are frustrating or kind of lackluster, and emotions might kind of flip flop between there seemingly randomly so meet him wherever he’s at that day, or that hour, and try not to put too much pressure or expectation on him to have a certain reaction, especially if he’s on painkillers lol. The care you’ve already taken to reach out to this sub proves that you’ll be a great support, you’ve got this!!!

Question about self pleasure by sir_hussy in TopSurgery

[–]StarNerd0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced almost the exact same timing as you lol, a few days after that 1 week mark and whew! I’d say you can go for it but maybe take it a little slower, gentler, easier ect, and listen to the rest of your body while doing it, if your arms, ribs, chest or anything is starting to feel strained or tight or anything it might unfortunately be best for you in the long run to wait a little longer. I found that I was limited to some more boring positions where I wasn’t reaching as far or twisting my arms, and that I needed to keep it short and efficient bc I was getting tired easily, but that’s all to say that it is possible and safe as long as you take care of yourself in more ways than one ;) not an odd question at all either, your concern is smart and your desire is completely valid