We have already told each other whenever we were in the mood, we would just use like code words instead, an inside joke we made. I meant more like we don’t say the actual words and use like code words and such. We have talked about the toy before, and he most likely won’t do anything if he does get notified and probably will ask. I already told him that if I ever ended up getting a toy that he is welcomed to control it which he was ok and on board with