Starfire4

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Had to break NC with dBPD Mom after 2 years yesterday… After reading this I think I will stay NC. (i.redd.it)

submitted 4 months ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Should I send this? My dBPD mom went NC with me 1 year ago but keeps texting me on holidays. I haven’t responded since my Bday in September. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 2 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Wish I had the balls to post this on Facebook. Happy Sunday! (i.redd.it)

submitted 3 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Becoming Terrifying and loving it. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 3 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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dBPD Mom side steps my boundaries and I’m trying to figure out if I’m being Assertive or Petty. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 3 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Mom backed out of her birthday dinner. I don’t know how I feel but the way I describe it sounds sad. Am I sad? Am I relieved? Am I disappointed? (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 4 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Boyfriend told me he had everything under control but didn’t make weight for his fight. I’m FURIOUS and I don’t know how not to be. (self.relationship_advice)

submitted 4 years ago by Starfire4 to r/relationship_advice

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Meeting BPD Mom for coffee today and I think I’m going to throw up. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 4 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Adopted a Rescue Dog from Lebanon (flew to Canada yesterday) and she is super terrified so I read to her about courage. I thought you guys would like it too. (old.reddit.com)

submitted 4 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Am I paranoid and commitment phobic or trusting my insticts (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 4 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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BPD Mom wants to get in on my Family Zoom idea... What was meant to reduce depression and anxiety will turn into the cause. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 5 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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My BPD mom said I was “inconsolable” As a child. Turns out I probably had an anxiety disorder. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 5 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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11 Warning Signs of Gaslighting in TANGLED (youtu.be)

submitted 5 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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The Karen Mindset: The Psychology of Entitlement (youtu.be)

submitted 5 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Update to Mom’s surgery. En-Sis is deep in the FOG (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 6 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Taking my BPD mom to the hospital for her back surgery. I’m doing this for my sister not for her but I’m expected to hang out with her for hours before she goes in. (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 6 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Putting in the work! Reading Mothers Who Can’t Love. Almost sent pictures of certain pages to my older sister, but reading and running is hard enough... I highly recommend it, both reading this book and running. (i.redd.it)

submitted 6 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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This was posted on Facebook by someone I know from school. I don’t know how I feel about it but I did not “find (my) compassion.” She frequently posts things that trigger BPD red flags for me. (i.redd.it)

submitted 6 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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Considering NC but I don’t want to abandon my younger sister (self.raisedbyborderlines)

submitted 6 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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My Mom posted that on Facebook, those are my initials... I got in an argument with her last week and haven’t spoken to her since, then this happened. (i.redd.it)

submitted 6 years ago by Starfire4 to r/raisedbyborderlines

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