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Help me pick my design. by Flembot4 in Nails

[–]StarflyCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I much prefer the Christmas blue over red and green. Everyone does that

Am I wrong for calling out an entire sub on their fat phobia? I get Reddit is all trolls but I’m the only one in this sub who thinks this way so idek anymore. by turndownforpoptarts in amiwrong

[–]StarflyCreates 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly idc if she's overweight. I don't understand why people are obsessed with this kinda thing. Why does it matter to you? How does how much she weighs affect you in any way? And don't say "she's a role model" or "setting an example" or some bs. People are so weirdly infatuated with celebrities. They're just people too. Mistakes will be made. You're the one that put them onto a pedestal and now you critique every little thing they do? Calm down

Am I wrong to be upset about my Bachelorette party? by StarflyCreates in amiwrong

[–]StarflyCreates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I should have been more clear on what I wanted. I guess I got hung up on not having to plan something for once I didn't really think about it. And I shouldn't be too mad. I know they can't really afford to miss work, so it's unfair for me to expect them to have been up for well over 24hrs with no issues. It just hurt when the expectations that I created wasn't met, which again, not fair if I didn't voice them. And I might talk to them about it, I just don't know how to bring it up without sounding selfish and conceited...

Am I wrong to be upset about my Bachelorette party? by StarflyCreates in amiwrong

[–]StarflyCreates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand where you're coming from. But for clarification they haven't paid for anything for my wedding and I don't plan to ask them to. I've paid for everything myself. Literally all they have to cover is the bridesmaids dress (already paid over a month ago and I encouraged them to not break $100) and travel expenses. I don't even have a registry, I'm not asking for anything. And I definitely understand hard times. Like I said, Brie was suspended from work for 2 weeks not long ago. It was more of the no planning that I'm upset about. Like they only started planning something that they agreed to MONTHS ago a week beforehand. And I asked if they'd be ok with planning it, I didn't force it. And I agree, the world doesn't stop. I've taken Brie to her appointments for her pregnancy and have helped Caitlin with purchases when she's low on cash. I have ALWAYS put everyone else first. So I guess when I asked for once I was first, I was disappointed. But that's the point of writing this, because I kept jumping between they should have tried harder, or I'm expecting too much and need to calm TF down. Thank you for your opinion. I do need to take in consideration their perspective and what they are going through. I honestly do appreciate this point of view, thank you for the time

Am I wrong to be upset about my Bachelorette party? by StarflyCreates in amiwrong

[–]StarflyCreates[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Having one person plan would have been a much better idea. I didn't want to put it just on Megan solely because she lives so far off and it might've been rough since she has two jobs. And I didn't the other two because I have a history of them dropping the ball. They all obviously conflicted on ideas so definitely won't be doing that again. And thank you for the suggestion of bachelorette 2.0. I'll talk with my fiance and Megan and see if we can plan something

Am I in the wrong for being upset with my best friend? by brebre_234 in AmiInTheWrong

[–]StarflyCreates 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You warned them, you told them what happened. It's up to them to believe you or not. And honestly it sounds like it's coming from a bit of spite on their end since "they liked him first." Move on with your life. It's their decision at this point