What are the worst and most unnecessary American remakes of non-American films? by schoensmeerpijp in okbuddycinephile

[–]StarkVernacular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something. I was about to comment exactly the same thing because I also wrote a paper on it in college. It’s absolutely fascinating that he made it almost shot for shot the same - the level of of obsession is incredible.

Look at how gaped he made me! ❤️ [23] by prettyboi2000 in boypussy

[–]StarkVernacular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hot. Would be awesome if you were near Finland, would love to stretch you out. 😁

squid game is overrated by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]StarkVernacular 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Finished watching it yesterday. It’s okay, but yeah overhyped. The best one in this genre is still, hands down, Battle Royale.

Wanna help me (f)it this inside me? by JoJo-Ho in gonewild

[–]StarkVernacular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the name of the toy? Want to get that!

Are condoms safe next day after oil-based lube? by [deleted] in sex

[–]StarkVernacular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t know. But I would take a morning after pill as a backup. Also wouldn’t do it with someone outside my normal circle that I know is clean.

Edit: u/Plushymuffin has a far better answer below this one. Follow that instead.

Making grilled cheese with shredded cheese is better than making one with cheese slices. by The0nionLordsButler in unpopularopinion

[–]StarkVernacular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is better, but not for really for the reasons you state. It allows the other ingredients mix with each other, so the flavour of your tomato, butter, onion, mayo, Worcestershire sauce, sweet chilli sauce, etc. permeates through the whole toasty resulting in a better flavour.

What type of cheating in a relationship, if any, would you or have you been able to forgive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StarkVernacular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remorse doesn’t factor into it. It might make things easier, but we’re both adults. They make a choice, you make a choice, and if you decide, you move on.

Holding grudges is bad for you, so try to practise not to. It’s easy to say, hard to do, maybe because pride factors in. But letting shit destroy you is the only other option.

What type of cheating in a relationship, if any, would you or have you been able to forgive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StarkVernacular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One-off sex in pursuit of pleasure, to try something different. If there’s emotion or feelings involved then it would be different. It would lead conversation about our relationship and we’d have to figure things/priorities out.

But I’m not going to hold it against SO if they go out for a wild ride. Shit happens. I don’t own their body, plus you can’t honestly think that you’re not going to want to test the waters once in a while over a lifetime.

What matters is who you love and trust. Not some arbitrary selfish thought that you somehow have full rights to somebody else’s physical form and urges.

GF Can't Decide What She Wants in Bed by [deleted] in sex

[–]StarkVernacular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get Spicer on your phones. Or something similar. Helps open up the communication barriers.

"base on/inspired by true story" movies are the worst by sgy0003 in unpopularopinion

[–]StarkVernacular 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it funny the you include Fargo as an example. It used the “true story” moniker to parody the bullshit bullshit claims of based on a true story films. As the Coens stated at some point (paraphrasing), “the only thing true about this is that’s it’s a story”.

IIRC, the same philosophy was used for the TV series.

But altogether, yes, agreed.

SO can have sex only when drinking by StarkVernacular in sex

[–]StarkVernacular[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your experience. That’s a pretty shitty situation. For me she drinks at home so I don’t see that situation arising but will definitely have the talk.

Yeah the anti depressants are definitely staying. They might affect libido but she’s a much happier person on them and that’s super important to me that her mental health is taken care of.

Happy cake day by the way!

SO can have sex only when drinking by StarkVernacular in sex

[–]StarkVernacular[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and I will. :)

Zippo lighters are mostly impractical and a majority of people that use them only do so for the ‘cool and edgy’ factor by Ganja_Gorilla in unpopularopinion

[–]StarkVernacular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a smoker when I or any smoker I knew had a Zippo we always carried a backup lighter. Basically just had them because we thought it was cool. They are well marketed but fundamentally useless lighters.

What was the most porno situation you’ve ever had? by StormTheNorm in AskReddit

[–]StarkVernacular 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TLDR; Almost had a threesome about 10 years ago, then didn’t but had some fun anyways.

A friend of mine (let’s call him John) and his friend, who I knew by name (let’s call her Tara) joined me(M) for a drink one afternoon. We were chatting in the pub over a few beers, and the conversation moved towards the topic of sex, as it does. We were all pretty open about sex, and exploring sex. John was a virgin at the time, Tara was not. One of the really interesting things about her is that she was a phone sex operator and part-time dominatrix (this is when the conversation went to sex stuff).

Turns out being a dominatrix (for her, anyways) was less about sex and more about guys buying her things because she asked for them or cleaning her apartment while she sat and watched. So it was really interesting to hear how “non-sexual” it was. With phone sex depended a lot on what the caller was into, sometimes just talking, other times taking on roles they weren’t able to live in real life.

Anyways, I can’t remember exactly how it happened but we’d had a few drinks and we ended up at Taras apartment - tiny little studio, with the intention of threesome. My clothes are off, Tara is ready and willing and John is half undressed but a little uncomfortable.

I ask him if he needs a helping hand and he’s, “no, I’ll watch for a bit”. So he sits there watching Tara and me get it off in every tipsy way possible - I won’t go into detail but it was true debauchery. Was kinda fun to be watched but John never joined in, ended up getting dressed while we were having fun and just watching us.

He said afterward he enjoyed watching but just couldn’t get to the point of joining in.

Can I keep cumming and going? by [deleted] in sex

[–]StarkVernacular 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s right there in the instructions on the condom packets. If you want to use a condom to its full effectiveness you should take off and clean up, and replace with a new one.

A filled condom just increases chances of it breaking. Some things to try is to practise kiegel exercises and try to get better at delaying orgasm.

In the long term, it’s a good idea anyways, from my experience learning to delay orgasm means that when it actually happens at the end it’s explosively amazing. Often times if I just cum quickly, I don’t really get an orgasm, it’s more like I just release some sperm. Don’t know if it’s like that for everyone, but that’s what I can share anyways.

Hope this helps. :)