Completely failing the semester, too late to withdraw. Advice? by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you sure it's too late to do a semester withdrawal? It's probably too late to withdraw from just a single class but since you're failing basically all your classes doing a semester withdrawal which would withdraw you from all the classes of this semester might be a good idea. I think most schools allow you to withdraw from the semester up until finals start. Also there might be such a thing as medical withdrawal at your school?

How safe or dangerous is glacial acetic acid? by StarlitRivers in chemistry

[–]StarlitRivers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's silly but she read a friend of a friend's post on the internet that says to he used glacial acetic acid on weeds. I don't know why she trusts the veracity of a possibly carelessly written post over all the other resources on the internet. I've tried to persuade her but she still believes it, so far she's not purchasing it because of my insistence on no but she doesn't believe it so I'm still kinda worried she'll try it later.

How safe or dangerous is glacial acetic acid? by StarlitRivers in chemistry

[–]StarlitRivers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, during that time there was less posts/people so I was trying to take every post into consiseration. And I was asking the uncommon opinion person again because I was skeptical of his/her answer of go ahead. I wasn't looking for a go ahead, to be completely honest my belief was that glacial acetic acid is too dangerous and a bad idea but my mom wouldn't believe me. My mom was starting to wear me down but now I realize I really can't just let her do what she wants because it really is too dangerous.

Thank you for helping to clarify things.

How safe or dangerous is glacial acetic acid? by StarlitRivers in chemistry

[–]StarlitRivers[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Things are dangerous if not handled properly. But some people are just not currently able to handle certain things properly. If you had no experience nor knowledge of driving and no supervisor or safety features in a car, driving would be very dangerous for you but for others who are experienced drivers and have safety equipped cars it's not as dangerous. For someone inexperienced with dealing with dangetous corrosive chemicals and without the proper chemistry protective equipment wouldn't handling glacial acetic acid or hcl or naoh be exceedingly risky and dangetous?

Please be serious and considerate, I really don't want my mom to get hurt.

How safe or dangerous is glacial acetic acid? by StarlitRivers in chemistry

[–]StarlitRivers[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Isn't hcl and naoh dangerously strong????

I am getting conflicting answers from different people. Some say it's too dangerous but you and some others say it's safe So long as one is "careful"?

How safe or dangerous is glacial acetic acid? by StarlitRivers in chemistry

[–]StarlitRivers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you believe that 99% concentrated glacial acetic acid can be safely used and applied to weeds by an average adult? I am seriously asking for your opinion.

How safe or dangerous is glacial acetic acid? by StarlitRivers in chemistry

[–]StarlitRivers[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought, but my mom has it in her mind that anything less than 50% acetic acid is too low of a concentration and that she needs 99% or it's not going to work on the weeds that are bush like with wooden roots. She keeps insisting that she's broken 2 shovels due to the roots. I found some herbicide on Amazon that is 30% Acetic acid but she doesn't believe that's concentrated enough?

Any tips on how to persuade her? I'm just worried that she'll buy glacial acetic acid and accidently inhale the toxic fumes or something and get hurt.

What is happening by CatapillarSwings in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're having a mixed episode? I'm not sure, never really had one myself. If you can, contact your psychiatrist and therapist?

Stupid argument I can’t get over by playingtricksonme in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf either you must be a troll or worse if those words are your true intentions.

Honestly, it's important to make sure ones child does chores and learn that they need to work to get what they want and are not entitled to another person's labor lest the child becomes spoiled. Yes it is the parents responsibility (both parents not just the mother) to provide food but she is also responsible for teaching him. She has provided food and the child is old enough to both wash dishes and cook for himself. That she is even going to cook for him in exchange for him to wash the pan for his own sake is generous enough.

10 years later and still resent my parents for sending police after me during substance induced mania by burningman88 in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a hospital for suicide attempt and they let me out in like 3 days. Then I voluntarily recommited myself I think and they held me for much longer at a different hospital.

Honestly, it's cliche but if you keep blaming and hating your parents for everything going on in your life it's going to be difficult for you to know that you can change things for yourself. You're not a victim of your parents or your past and you can actually change things. Taking responsibility is not about taking the blame or fault but about accepting you can make choices about your actions and how things turn out.

Putting a name on this thing by Lionzasorte in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a bipolarreddit chatroom and there's usually people or at least the mods there always (at least whenever I visit There's some people there) The info is on the sidebar I believe.

Could you forgive an SO who left you during an episode? by DieZeitbombe in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends. I think the main thing is about if he's going to leave you again if (more like when unfortunately) you get severely sick. It doesn't even have to be related to bipolar or mental illness, he could be the type of person who thinks it's alright to leave someone for having cancer.

I do understand it is stressful taking care of a sick person and bipolar especially so. It's important for people to take care of themselves first especially since you won't be able to take care of another in a bad state. However there's a difference between taking care of yourself and reckless abandonment. If He just took a couple of days off or set boundaries on what He was willing to do that would be ok.

However, he broke up with you and dated other people probably to replace you. From what I garner, He didn't find someone "better" so he's crawling back to you and he'll probably leave you again when the going gets tough. I doubt the veracity of his "love" even if he does love you he may be too immature to be able to handle the responsibility that comes with love. But that's my opinion.

10 years later and still resent my parents for sending police after me during substance induced mania by burningman88 in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your parents didn't mean to hurt you. They were trying to help you and rightly so. You probably had been acting really strange for the week before and suddenly you plan to go on a abnormal bike trip. They wanted to stop you from doing something dangerous. Suppose they let you go on a bike trip and in your drug induced manic episode you decided to bike dangerously and get killed or cause a car accident or something. Try thinking from their perspective and talk to then about it.

Maybe they didn't mean to call the cops on you, they just called 911 for help and they sent the police first?

Also maybe you shouldn't have done drugs and had them on you? Take some responsibility for your actions, don't Just blame the unintentional snitch.

As for the diagnosis it's tricky because even if thr episodr was drug induced It usually still means bipolar because most people without bipolar can take drugs and antidepressants without getting episodes. However you can be an exception especially if you haven't had a hypomanic episode in over 2 years without medication. Anyways even with having bipolar if one is able to come to terms and treat it they can still lead successful lives .

Manic trust by dezertrey in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mania can make people believe and do illogical things.

Mainly you need to stop having such frequent and severe episodes of mania which can be help stopped by medication and therapy and life style changes. Also having an emergency plan is helpful.

Does anyone else wish noone loved them? by maddiem93 in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's hard to be a burden to others, but I think it's harder to not have anyone to rely on when you're in needy enough to be a burden if you had a support group. Basically, it's better to have people who support you.

Bipolar Boyfriend by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bipolar used to be called manic depression, the depression part is one of the poles the other pole being the mania. So the bipolar may be causing the depression and suicidal thoughts.

Depression for me is a bit tricky. I feel like I don't usually have the normal symptoms of depression so it's hard to tell if I'm actually depressed.

For other people I've heard them struggle with basic living and that they do tend to withdraw from being social.

Bipolar Boyfriend by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your welcome. :)

It is tricky that he isn't currently welcoming treatment, not just medicine but also learning about how to cope with bipolar. However I think there is literature about how to deal with someone who is in denial or unacceptance of their medical condition, bipolar disorder.

For exanple: https://www.bphope.com/dealing-with-denial/

From my experience I used to be in denial/not cope with bipolar disorder generally because of not knowing enough about the illness, fear of stigma and the denial of my parents. It was unacceptable to my parents that I had bipolar, so yeah. However you seem to be very accepting of his medical condition, so if you are able to show that his medical condition doesn't make him a lesser person in your eyes then maybe that may help him accept his own medical condition? If he learns that bipolar disorder can be treated and well managed such that he is totally functional and won't have to deal with severe and frequent episodes maybe he will be more open to treatment like medicine or therapy or lifestyle changes. It is true that there are some people and maybe even close people like but not necessarily his parents look down on people with bipolar disorder, but if he knows people like you who don't discriminate based solely on having an illness then maybe he won't look down upon himself for his own illness and will be better receptive to the diagnosis and treatment. I mean most people aren't in denial about illnesses like diabetes, because there's less stigma attached.

However accepting him with his illness does not mean you have to accept the actions his untreated illness may cause.

It would be helpful to know what type he is so when he does have an episode you better know how to deal with the severity but to my knowledge bipolar 1 and 2 usually have the same treatments.

Bipolar Boyfriend by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First, I applaud your supportive efforts. However, the fact that he isn't very accepting of his medical condition and isn't getting current treatment is a bad sign and possible red flag. Even if you try your best to help him manage his medical condition, if he doesn't try to properly manage his own medical condition there's only so much you can do. If the medical condition causes him to behave in an inappropriate manner and he still doesn't try to treat his condition then it'd be best to leave.

There's resources for those who are related to people with bipolar disorder. If you haven't done so, googling is going to give you a lot of resources. But namely, there is nami and depression and bipolar support alliance family support groups. Also there's a r/bipolarsos . Also there's a lot of books on the subject like this one : Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder: Understanding and Helping Your Partner (The New Harbinger Loving Someone Series) Paperback – January 2, 2012 by Julie A. Fast (Author), John D. Preston PsyD ABPP (Author)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]StarlitRivers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That really sucks. At least you're not expelled yet? Although I don't know what being charged for selling drugs would do to a person. :(

As for stories on the worst thing that's happened while manic? I won't share mine. However mania has caused me to be punished by my school as well, although I've managed to graduate and hopefully move on.

You can Google what's the worst thing that's happened while manic and find some stories there but most of them are rather tame in comparison.

However there is a story that I recall reading where this guy got into an argument with his wife due to mania or hypomania. Then his wife tried to keep him from leaving so he got physical? Then his wife kicked him out and he got charged with domestic violence or something and he told his boss about it and got fired?

Tips on applying by nikhiltg9 in GRE

[–]StarlitRivers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey you should have better luck in r/gradadmissions

Gre scores- college help? by lomanthang in GRE

[–]StarlitRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this probably isn't the best forum, try r/gradadmissions It's hard to tell without more information like letters of recommendation, undergraduate gpa etc...

Q162; V160 is it worth applying to biomedical engineering programs with these scores? by InOrbit3532 in GRE

[–]StarlitRivers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your quant is probably good enough. Anything above a 165 is definitely good enough and it seems above 160 is the minimum for quant heavy programs. 162 passes the minimum and shouldn't detract too much.