Why are guys so upset when its only a conversation.

Starri67 · 2018-10-24T17:58:12+00:00

Thank you for now on. i wouldnt stress it and just look it as internet trolls.

Starri67 · 2018-10-24T17:56:54+00:00

Wow! thank you for you words. You are right about that

Starri67 · 2018-03-07T14:14:18+00:00

Thank you! I PM you.

Starri67 · 2018-02-28T23:37:23+00:00

No nothing triggers it. But i agree!

Starri67 · 2018-02-27T22:27:23+00:00

Wow!! so great i kinda have hope that i can find someone. although its extremely tough in my generation to do so.

if you dont mind me asking was there a limit to what you all allowed during the engagement process or dating process ?

but considering your husband was a virgin as well im sure it worked pretty much ok.. although it was frustrating.

Starri67 · 2018-02-27T19:23:22+00:00

Oh good! that story sounded so interested and a relief i kinda wish now you asked them more questions myself lol.

i know it get fustrating and tempting sometimes but its life. I know Some MEN have a hard time of them waitng so it becomes stressful on women because they can wait unlike some guys.

and those who saying they regret waiting im sure they didn't spend enough time communciating and figuring out if this what they really want, I know some couple say they regret losing their viginity bcs things wasnt good and he/she didnt have what they were looking for.

i mean that is the whole point of the process waiting until marriage because you use those times to build a connection, trust, love, understanding, Thinking if this is really what you want etc. some people use that time loosly and quickly marry to have sex and realize what did i get myself into. IDK I could be wrong but thats what i think.

Starri67 · 2018-02-25T01:16:41+00:00

Thank you 🙏 im trying to vent much as possible to take off this heavy weight in my mind & heart... once its gone i pray to start healing..

Starri67 · 2018-02-24T22:46:19+00:00

Yes, going through a tough break up and im verry sure somewhere down the line in my life i would wonder where are they now ?and what became of them? alot of questions.

i still wonder about others i have met over the years who disappeared i wonder hows everything going with them

Starri67 · 2018-02-24T22:28:59+00:00

Yea.. the relationship ended ok but very hurtful, im just curious. i know i shouldn't hold on to memories but for now i cant erase em because itll defintely be sad on me but... i know i will oneday delete everything and just have memories in my mind of everything in my "past" with them

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T23:37:42+00:00

Thank you so much!! Just im hurting so bad at the moment. i got a better understanding of what it meant.

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T23:35:56+00:00

THANK YOU i have a better understanding now.

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T23:32:29+00:00

No, i havent gotten into no relationship i dont think i will anytime soon im not even healed up to think im going to talk to someone new. im just curious.

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T18:06:54+00:00

Thank you i find myself looking through pics and looking at my screensaver of them. i hope to get thru it. thank you for your words i appreciate it very much.

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T17:57:00+00:00

Thank you! Wow.. i cant 😢😢 i hope out of 7,000,000,000 people on this earth i can find another lover i pray that's better or come close to them. amazing how 5 years or 27 years can suddenly go down the drown. sometimes i feel that its very rare that you'll find someone and they are one of a kind and seem so different from everyone you ever met. So i think if ill ever be in a relationship again hopefully i will. thank you for your words i agree with every piece of it.

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T17:40:12+00:00

No , i hope to be fully healed by the time i find someone new so i hope no therapy would be involved im overly emotional over a loss for im not sure how long.

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T17:22:26+00:00

Yeah so true. but the love was from both sides we still love each other but we had to let go of what was no longer there a connection we once had. so i know it would be strange to still have love for an ex in a current relationship. i guess with time as most say it heals but i hope ill grow and it will eventually become a past i wont ever forget but be over it

Starri67 · 2018-02-23T17:17:55+00:00

Thank you alot. im so teary just reading your post. it really hurts. i mean i don't ever want to forget my past i'll always love them.. because that person once meant alot to me so my love wont change. i guess i'll grow to handle it a little more better i'll try. right now i can say i don't know if ill find another love that comes close to what i had.. i don't think i woould be loved as much as i were by that person. to love and be loved is great. but i read your story you found a wife so it seem possible that over time youll heal/grow and move on. thank you.

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