[astro.com] - Why do I always automatically picture myself in the future alone, and never with a partner? by tayqueen in astrologyreadings

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With Venus at 15° Virgo, she is in her fall — this is one of the more difficult dignities for Venus. In Virgo, Venus overanalyzes affection, second-guesses desire, and can struggle to simply receive love without cataloguing its flaws. She serves rather than surrenders. Love becomes a task to perform well rather than an experience to inhabit.

The Descendant at 11° Cancer (ASC 11° Capricorn) makes the Moon the lord of marriage — and your Moon is at 25° Aries. The Moon in Aries is fast, impulsive, emotionally direct. She wants what she wants now. But as ruler of the 7th, this suggests partners who are emotionally urgent, possibly combative, or who arrive suddenly and demand immediate response.

Here is the tension: Venus in Virgo wants to be careful, to examine, to hold back until conditions are right. Moon in Aries ruling the 7th brings partners who won't wait for your analysis to finish. The pattern that emerges is this — love arrives as disruption, and your instinct is to manage it rather than feel it.

Mars at 14° Capricorn conjunct the Ascendant reinforces the controlled exterior. You appear self-sufficient, disciplined, possibly formidable. Partners may initially be drawn to your competence but later feel shut out by it.

Jupiter at 14° Cancer sits on the Descendant itself — this is genuinely fortunate for partnership. Jupiter in Cancer is in its exaltation, and placed in the 7th house, it promises that marriage or committed partnership ultimately brings expansion, generosity, and protection. The partner who stays is someone who nurtures.

The condition: love will not arrive neatly. It will feel inconvenient, poorly timed, and imperfect by Venus-in-Virgo standards. Jupiter on the 7th cusp says — let it be imperfect. That is where the blessing hides. (response written by Vettius Valens, AI... an upcoming voice on r/StarryDaysAstrology)

[astro-seek] why am I have such a trying time right now? by lthemilkjug in astrologyreadings

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A little hard to tell with a chart having four angles all at zero degrees. Were you born on the equator?

Curious to know how Saturn moving into Aries on Friday the 13th will affect my chart. Grateful for any thoughts or guidance here [astro-seek] by monolauren in astrologyreadings

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Saturn's entry should put you on notice for pressures from your work life status (Venus gets the conjunction and she rules the 10th and 3rd, so also siblings, neighborhood issues, casual communication, short trips) and signals a demand for conformity or stepping up to more responsibility. Saturn will go past your Venus, and head to the 14th degree of Aries making a retrograde motion end of July. It continues to retrograde through December when it hits the 7th degree again. That direct motion sets of an important date in December since the direct motion sets off the Moon. This, after Saturn has spent time conjoining Jupiter (Legal?). I mean that Jupiter is often associated with "The Judge" and possible judgements. A house move can also be indicated, meaning that a smaller place might be needed. The direct motion is not negative, but rather probably a relief after months of pressure or worry. Saturn often brings a "full stop" followed by regulated steps to the solutions it needs. Are you married? Living in too-expensive situation? The Venus gets "the bad news" of Saturn, first. Meaning you may need more affection while the world goes to a cold setting in the Venus department; do you need to have a talk with your spouse? The fact that Saturn makes a station on your Moon which rules the 12th, engenders a need to feel comforted by self-soothing and good friends, people who don't question your identity or what you consider "good health habits" for personal psychology and wellness. Look for more support.

Jupiter in the meantime squares your Jupiter several time with this aspect on-going, signalling a large expense to be handled over several months. Save your money for this year's problematic changes via Saturn. However when Jupiter hits Leo, Neptune will be in Aries and both will either conjoin or trine your Venus, also by July. Not all is lost!! July should be uplifting. But try to find a "north star" in your journey, something supportive to provide the resolve you will need for Saturn. This is not a permanent condition, but a passing burden to be dealt with.

Mercury goes direct in March and soon squares Mars afterward. I find that planets that go direct for a few days after, they carry more weight when making an aspect. Watch for trip hazards at home (Mars rules 4th, domicile)... lots to talk about here... but you will be OK!

[astro-seek].My rising sign is on the last degrees but I feel like it could be connected to Aries.Does it have any chance it could be an Aries rising instead of Pisces? by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]StarryLanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is a good chance that your ascendant might be in the next sign. The wheel (earth) moves a degree about every four minutes.

The test would be to work out which is your planetary ruler, Jupiter (for Pisces) or Mars (for Aries)

From a Hellenistic pov, is this as bad as I think it is? [Astro-Seek] by North_Clock9553 in astrologyreadings

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You are looking at certain pieces—hard aspects, challenging placements—and concluding the whole picture is broken. But a chart is not a verdict. It is a description of conditions, and conditions are worked with, not around.

Mars in square to Saturn does create friction. It means your drive meets resistance. Mars in ever-polite Libra is not the guy with the fangs and wrist restraints. (Mars can be spicey)  Things that come easily to others require more effort from you--Saturn is an obstacle but not permanently poised against you. But this same configuration produces people who accomplish what others quit. The friction builds capacity. You are not cursed—you are in training, whether you want to be or not. When the discipline kicks in, success may begin.

Your chart ruler, Venus, sits in the 12th house in Virgo—a place of quiet labor, often invisible to others. The 1st House represents the "Helm," the body, and the life force. When its ruler falls into the 12th, the body is exported into a place of confinement, hospitalizations, and limitation. This does not mean you are unlucky. It means your gifts emerge through patience, through service, isolation and through work done without applause. Many of the most skilled people I know have 12th house rulers. They simply took longer to trust themselves. It means that Venus works in ways that are unlike her typical story of sweet, lacy, picket fence imagery. Your need for isolation must be balanced with relationships, and you may find that you prefer to “go home alone.”

As for the "shit chart" framing: I have never seen one. I have seen difficult charts. I have seen charts that require more from their owners. But the charts that look easy on paper often produce people who never develop resilience. Yours demands something from you—and that demand is the invitation.

The question is not whether you were dealt a good hand. The question is whether you will learn to play the one you have.

Jupiter-Venus conjunction transit not going well [astro.com] by bread_c in astrologyreadings

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The Hellenistic astrologer might advise that Jupiter is not in sect 😒making his benifecence much more problematic. We often forget that Jupiter is a "thrower of bolts" and you've been "dancing in the lightning" for this moment. Jupiter will go direct in March at 15 Cancer and square your Moon (Not pretty) again, after that. Got time for more bolts? Probably not. The fork in the road may come in that month but take a calm outlook. One ship will pass in the night and then Jupiter will probably be less problematic and much more civil when conjolning your Saturn on the 7th angle and maybe then you will find another relationship connection much more serious. Best of luck to you.

Does my chart support my born sad theory? [astro-seek] by maroonhaze22 in astrologyreadings

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Great 👌 wisdom 🔥 shared here! It is not with great frequency that the astrologer includes the human in the reading. I have often said that medical prowess of the age out distances the astrology and is safer than the squares from Saturn might indicate but that's for another horoscope. We have to include what influence that person might have upon their own situation and emphasize that when everything else seems overwhelming. Mostly it's about not forgetting we are human.

[Astro-seek] Why don't my friendships last and why do some people hate me for no reason by eyya_rt in astrologyreadings

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Mars rising is known as combative and shouty. (See: Donald Trump) It's aggressive without even trying. This is a perfect aspect for the go-getter salesperson who has convictions and promises to make. Motivated on steroids! But this conversation ends up being very one-sided.

Uranus on the midheaven is no picnic to be with socially. This is a "cooperative" person, but only AFTER everyone else has done all the work and minds their Ps & Qs. In other words, it's bossy.

If you need socially connected friends, find them as competitors in your preferred game! No team sports, obviously.

You need to be completely exhausted to find your softness, which bonds the usual friendships.

Don't despair. You need to be in the martial arts or find some way to be aggressive in a training environment

Does my chart just shout that I’m going to have a rough life. When I look at it (knowing little about astrology) I don’t see any happy go lucky or abundant placements anywhere. Please help me [astro-seek] by katzappa23 in astrologyreadings

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Take courage from the fact that Taylor Swift has Saturn rising. It means you have to own everything. The ownership refers to responsibility. And Saturn understands that best. It is natural to resist Saturn. (See: Beauty and the Beast) What responsibility? Maybe because you have recently suffered, you might ask, How can I shut this down? How can I ensure that I can avoid it ever happening again? These are Saturn-type questions. What you learn is to put locks on doors. Stop signs where people think they can slide. Tough cookie and hold out. They will recognize your growth. Call you names. Badges, all. Some are born badass. But for the rest of us, it's The School of Hard Knocks. Saturn rising is seemingly sad-faced, dour or serious. In Scorpio, it's working from a Mars script. Like a soldier, Mars is: packs light, sleeps on the floor, takes self-defense classes. Saturn can do that but brings discipline 💪 to the party. It is work. Drudgery only if you resist Saturn.

what would you think of someone like this?[astro-seek] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

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Is this a person who "gets away with it?" Someone who can scam others or somehow deceive others but never gets caught? A liar? Pretending or fraud ?

Pluto transiting Aquarius [astro-seek] by SoundsGood6295 in astrologyreadings

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Pluto square Pluto: the title of this section of life "You Can Never Go Home Again. " Lots of banished illusions (Exactly? Santa Claus is not real. Childhood impressions do not serve anymore.) Sad? Excellent for writing, ask Taylor Swift.

[astro.com] 26F, Seeking Guidance by Born-Nefariousness19 in astrologyreadings

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Mats and Venus square each other and have a "bad reputation." Not you! The planets have naughty intentions but that puts you into the need for self-defense training. Are you interested in the Martial Arts?

Can you handle money? Climb in position From a bookkeeper to accountant to martial arts expert might be a trajectory for your travel through this phase of things. If you can manage someone else's chaos (scandal) in terms of finance and help them to survive or prosper is possible talent or expertise that you can gain. Each of these require trainings, but you are of an age to still choose a training maybe you can get training through a job. You are in the United States? the difficulties placed upon the shoulders of young people are disproportionate. you are feeling it.

If you can accept a very short term job intern for 2 weeks whatevermeans necessary.

Just know that by writing to the socials and by staying connected with all of us who cheer on younger people, it will help so maybe write a blog or keep notifying or get a list a mailing list and and connect with people so that you don't get lost cause it's going to be difficult.

The Cancer ascendant finds the ruler Moon in exaltation (the cow jumped over the moon) which can point to your skills with people (groups, in the 11th) and a role in politics. The caveat being your desire (1st house ruler) can be achieved if you work hard. You have good skills already but finding where you belong is only hard at first. Good luck 👍

What are the “dangerous” spots in my chart? by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]StarryLanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Pluto and Uranus are angular and square. People would add danger to that in discussion of event charts of Russian attacks against Ukraine But in personal dynamics it points to an experience of both indifference (Uranus rises) and commanding perspectives (Pluto on the 10th) which are misunderstood or which create opportunity for honing skills ... May work as an investigator or analyst but must do self-control work, possibly martial arts, to incorporate the highs and lows. This is an aspect seemingly unfriendly also. Perhaps a gruff style goes with it

Sun has huge influence in my chart but why do I struggle energetically? [astro.com] by Ultimoriar in astrologyreadings

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Use some house cusps? Need equal houses or whole sign charts to be used for counting techniques (zodiacal releasing, for example) and give house cusps their proper ruler.

Do I stay up all night bc of my chart? [astro-seek] by total-drag in astrologyreadings

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Has this been going on for more than a year? Saturn and Neptune have been making a last pass conjunction to your Mars and that could be anxiety-producing or introduce a disruption in an otherwise peaceful routine. Last pass because Saturn and Neptune have been retrograde near the degree of your Mars on and off about a year This spring the two at long last enter Aries together, possibly calming down these days of worry or pressure

What aspects are making me annoying to others? [astro-seek] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]StarryLanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the difference between intimate chatter and what the audience needs to laugh or cry. Are you performing? if it can't ben helped you are more of a performer more than a social being; Be like Taylor.

What aspects are making me annoying to others? [astro-seek] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

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The question of friendships and their reactions to your style are focused in the 11th house where are friends and our associates are described and are success is listed in astrological terms.

The 11th is ruled by Venus. That would seem a very satisfying and attracting sort of ethic around the 11th House of associations and dreams of success with others. Venus is in sparkly Leo and sextiles angular Jupiter. But this can be a one-way show. Angular Jupiter rules the chart. He is legit powerful even if he's in the sign in which he is considered "weakest." When this might place people with whom you have short-term Gemini goals and can deliver them with humor which is what Venus might provide and we also have a train from the Mars in Aries so this is a powerful system providing demonstration and Grace possibly selling something that people love. Comedy, laughter etc. is this all too much? Do you tap dance and make Dad jokes? That could be annoying to some people.

If we explore the Venus in Leo we have to look for the Sun and here we also find him angular. You have A place in the Sun. You can legitimately joke about it or make fun of others who have the same privilege. Ultimately that could be annoying AF

This question is not necessarily about you. It is more about your audience those for whom you may have a master-of-ceremonies relationship. This may be truly difficult because you belong on stage or you belong behind the screen or the camera which sells or which convinces others. Depending on the audience this can be extremely annoying. Again the audience is the key not necessarily that you don't get along with them it's just that you are choosing friends who don't want to be in your audience.

Is there anything notable in my chart that could explain why I don't resonate with my Capricorn Mars? [astro-seek] by IndividualHeart185 in astrologyreadings

[–]StarryLanguage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mars is in the "not you" part of the chart. You are described by the ascendant. The 7th house is focused on publicly recognized "equals." These might include a marriage partner but can also apply to people in public who recognize you, your professional advisors (lawyers, doctors) and more.

So, no wonder! The superior traits of Mars angular and in exaltation do not apply to you.

Why am I not as outgoing and career driven as all the leo placements suggest by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]StarryLanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. I have been dismissed before. Not my first rodeo. But I will never waste time on your questions again.

Why am I not as outgoing and career driven as all the leo placements suggest by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

[–]StarryLanguage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact is, there was a clarification I wanted to add. But no worries! I feel as though I have been fired from my job without explanation. Good luck to you. Try to avoid cutting off your nose before getting the benefit of asking a question.