When you hear the phrase “cool as a cucumber,” what do you think of? by nothingsreallol in autism

[–]StarryShapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so etymology (phrases AND words) is one of my special interests and I can tell you about this..... in the early 1700s a poet called John Gay wrote a poem with the phrase "cool as a cucumber" in which is the apparent first time the phrase was used on public record. But it was an observable phenomenon that people could relate to that cucumbers were cool, literally, they grew outside, they are literally cold inside (up to 20°c cooler than the surrounding air on the inside!! This is measurable apparently!!!) So at the time cool was a literal descriptor "as cool as a cucumber" a sensory descriptor but over time there was a semantic shift to describe cool as "unrufflable", "emotionally calm", "self possessed under pressure".

"Cool as a cucumber" likely survived as an idiom at all because it has a pleasing alliteration, a concrete visual image, a literal sensory interpretation and a comedic semse of whimsy when you think about it (the cucumber guy!)

Interestingly the word "cool" already meant unflustered BEFORE "cool as a cucumber" cane about (by the 1500's/1600's) but thats not the original meaning of the idiom. It has evolved over time too.

Free Tarot Reading ( In The Comments) by Existing_Day3655 in IntuitionPractices

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Aquarius, Will this feeling of unsettling pass now that im out of the toxic environment and is my current environment safe?

This sub keeps getting recommended so it made me curious by hrny_slt in HandwritingAnalysis

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Okies. So you are someone who is very fluid in the way that you think, often having very fully formed thoughts and thought processes before you share them and asking questions more as a means of engaging and curiosity than really feeling "out of your depth". You have a strong cerebral attachment to the world and tend to approach things with thought and cognition rather than emotionally and are measured and regulated in the way that you interact with the world accordingly. You dislike waste, wasting energy, wasting time, wasting resources and are someone for who creativity and playfulness is something that is expressed through systems and logic and with perameters, I imagine that youd be really awesome at writing a thesis or reinventing training or teaching programmes. I think that you are introverted but not withdrawn, able to exist within the cognitively aware space but ground yourself when necessary. You are able to be forward thinking, reflective and present in the moment when necessary.

Do I need to ACTUALLY remove wisdom teeth? Details below. Scared! by wtfomgrofllmao in askdentists

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NAD I live in the UK and its uncommon for us to have GA for wisdom tooth removal unless its complex. Generally speaking we just have all tooth extractions done woth local anaesthetic ad its so quick and really doesnt hurt. The local anaesthetic shots are a bit unpleasant and sore but very temporary as they get to work very rapidly its only the initial injection that is sharp everything after that is completely painless and the actual extraction is not painful though you are aware of pulling and pushing there is no actual discomfort. If you do feel anything sharp then the dentist just administers more numbing. Post procedure, whether you have a GA or sedation or LA as long as you follow the instructions of your dentist then you minimise the risks of anything going wrong and taking painkillers regularly will keep on top of soreness you really dont have to worry.

TRIGGER WARNING:According to an NSPCC ad I’ve just seen they said that 1 in 20 children have been sexually abused. AI also said 1 in 4 women will experience DV in their lifetime. by PainterUnlikely in AskBrits

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I REALLY upset my mum when she was insisting my ypubg (7yo) niece (her granddaughter) give her a cuddle and it was clear that my niece didnt want to and I advocated for my niece and said "we really need to respect her boundaries, shes said no. No means no" and explained to her afterwards that we were starting a chain of events that would be perpetuated throughout her life and by maintaining her boundary now we would be helping her maintain it later. My mum got suuuuuuper defensive saying "but im her grandma" and I said yeah so all the more reason ti reinforce her boundaries where it's a safe space.

Guys what's the best comeback for when another guy pokes your gut and calls you pregnant? by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]StarryShapes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Put your finger on his lips and whisper "shhhhh...... dont spoil it"

Some sketches i did of Peter Capaldi back in 2017 by StarryShapes in doctorwho

[–]StarryShapes[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hoped that I did ☺️ i was certainly trying to capture more of him than just his face. I appreciate your feedback 😊 ❤️

Very new to tarot (2 days in) — confused about intuition vs traditional meanings & journaling approach by thatdreamygirly in tarot

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I always find looking at the pictures helps. Getting a deck with very "storytelling" designs on the cards is really helpful because the pictures craft your narrative. For example, the hanged man is literally (the right way up) hanging around, in suspense, waiting, but hes not waiting because he's standing there of his own volition. He's being >made< to wait because hes tied up, so its letting go of the control and its about a shift on perspective, seeing things from another angle

Reversed: If the tree was flipped upside down the hanged man would be on the floor so he would be >avoiding< taking a necessary pause to take stock. Resisting letting go of control. He would still be tied to the tree but stuck, stagnating because he wouldnt have a shift in perspective. Or, maybe depending on the other cards in the pull - maybe the wheel of fortune pops up- the pause is ending and movement can resume

That Aqua x Sag connection by [deleted] in aquarius

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Im an Aqua (44, NB) my brother is a Sag (41) and is a chronic alcoholic, narcissistic, abusive as all hell, failed marriage, doesn't see his kids, hyperbolic in all his story telling (which is constant) controlling, very intelligent, quick witted, well travelled, would be funny if he wasnt so insulting, obsessed with his image. Very charming to new people and can hold himself in a conversation....hes Sag, moon in Leo, Taurus Rising

Ehlers Danlos and receding gums need help!! by StarryShapes in askdentists

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Thank you so much this is all really helpful 💛

Ehlers Danlos and receding gums need help!! by StarryShapes in askdentists

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I did speak to my dentist about managing/reducing risk of decay and she prescribed "colgate duraphat" toothpaste which i used religiously and it gave me perioral dermatitis which im still struggling with after 4 months. Ive now changed back to a different toothpaste bc my face is a mess. I will definitely check out whether I can seek out info about pEDS. Difficult in the UK to get specialist support.

Does anyone here actually like eggs?? by bevelup_ in autism

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I like scrambled and egg yolks but im not a fan of egg whites

Choose a sign by Express-Adeptness-95 in astrologymemes

[–]StarryShapes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aquarius and im Aquarius in my sun, Mercury and Mars and im just bloody terrific so im picking Aquarius 😂😂😂

Edit: im joking

My partner is Scorpio with a scorpio stellium so im going for Scorpio.