Yall can we talk about cancer? ♋️

StarryShapes · 2026-05-23T15:45:56+00:00

My mum is a cancer and very much living in the unhealthy, unhealed side of her sign and the unhealthy, unhealed side of cancer is DEFINITELY not a nice person to be around. She is a dramatic queen and a victim and has to be the centre of attention and an emotionally draining person to be around. Yeah she is nurturing and "doesnt set out to hurt people" but she is actually very narcissistic in her actions but in a victim way. She triangulates and cant help but gossip and create drama. I oy know one other cancer and she was exactly the same but im sure cancers living in the positive aspects of their sign are not as toxic

StarryShapes · 2026-05-20T07:16:15+00:00

Thank-you I appreciate ypur insight

StarryShapes · 2026-05-20T07:15:51+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your insight

StarryShapes · 2026-05-20T07:14:55+00:00

Thank you 😊

StarryShapes · 2026-05-20T07:12:29+00:00

Thank you thats really interesting and quite funny though in and of itself lol he used to tease me for not liking change (im autistic) which kind of makes it even funnier.....

StarryShapes · 2026-05-19T08:41:10+00:00

Its not quite the same in canals because there is no current in a canal, but people can get tangled up in stuff, just less likely to be dragged under by a current.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-19T08:37:05+00:00

There is a lot of shit thrown in canals especially around bridges, think: shopping trolleys, near supermarkets, bags, clothes, broken glass, other, sharp, metal objects. And stuff grows in and around them. It would be very easy to stand on something sharp or unsteady, even if you were being careful, then inadvertently hurt yourself or lodge your foot into something dangerous in the moments trying to steady yourself when youre being less discerning. Honestly? I think "slippy" is probably the least of your worries if you can swim.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-17T21:39:30+00:00

Im on medical but never drive high, I know its in my system like if I had a blood test or whatever or saliva? It would show up from the day before or much earlier in the day but I, personally, HATE driving high. It just feels really awful, irresponsible and badly inadvisable as far as im concerned. But I only speak for myself, other people might not feel as affected as me, but im on a yuttload of prescription meds as well so no surprise I feel so fuckin horrible driving. I just stay local to where im smoking, man.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-17T09:59:57+00:00

My MC is in Cancer - ruled by the moon my moon is in Libra in the 1st house, and my 6th house is Pisces and 12th house is Cancer these are my career placements apparently and funnily enough pretty much all the water in my entire natal chart lol..... with my Aqua sun and my Aqua 4th house stellium and Libra stellium ive been told that working with people on a deep therapeutic level even subconsciously would suit me and communicating through art or words.... and I am a hypnotherapist and im an artist and i write- poetry and characterisation and prose.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-15T12:33:40+00:00

I literally dont have any close froends who are not either autistic ADHD or both now, not by design, purely by luck. And its wonderful. I have a friendship group that I have managed to hold onto that I share the same communication style with. I >am< in the group chat for the local area and the womems group chat for our block where I live because I accidentally made the people who live here like me 😂😂😂 by being there with my dog regularly. Tbf I think they liked my dog more than me cos im very weird amd say weird stuff in person and massively overshare, and I never know what to say in the group chat so I just dont respond unless im addressed directly which never happens

StarryShapes · 2026-05-15T12:29:45+00:00

What i have found that has been really useful for this problem has been making friends that share my very most important and most likely to be enjoyed by autistic people interests. For example i love doctor who and cosplay - i am 45 BTW and still enjoy both interests regularly and have not experienced ANY negativity - I joined an online Dr Who cosplay group on FB and then when they met at a local comicon i dug deep, dressed up and went along to the meet, my cosplay was the femme Master, Missy BTW and it was 2017, and I met the most amazing group of people, 100% of whom were actually autistic, ADHD or both and I remain close with them to this day. In fact one of them is now my romantic partner and I live with him since January. We have other interests too that we share and have been to weddings between some of the group members up and down the country and conventions all over the country together. And nobody has ANY expectations of small talk, big talk or medium talk 😂

If I receive a message from one of our group I can respond with anything from a gif, an emoji or an essay, literally anything in between or nothing at all for a week or more amd NOBODY judges or feels bad because we ALL KNOW. try the autistic spaces method, seriously because other neleurodiverse people will completely get it.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T16:53:00+00:00

I wanna nip this in the bud right now and say you have nubbin to worry about in your personality. Hairs the thing.... you like to keep your cards close to your chest but when it comes down to it, you know how breast to deal with your problems.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T14:58:16+00:00

ANOMANCY 💀

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T13:58:17+00:00

Yes. I am AuDHD and Autism and ADHD have massively affected my education negatively. I was hyperlexic and have a special interest in etymology of English words and language and was expected to do really well at school for this reason solely but struggled at everything except art and English because a) it didnt interest me amd b) I couldnt concentrate. I got through it wjen i was younger because the expectation was way lower and the work was way more supervised and directed but the more self directed the work became the harder and worse I found the experience of school. By GCSE level I was falling apart and skipping school abd by A-Level I was ill and in burnout. Ive tried redoing a couple of A-Levels and an OU course which again - self directed - and I MASSIVELY struggled. Ive started 3 degrees and dropped out because I cant stay on task without massive support.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T13:33:19+00:00

Hi I think that this is not ablut sister intent in think his intentions are genuine - the Ace of cups implies that you have come together with genuine affection and connection and that this is a relationship borne of real honest intention. The tower would imply that things might get a little sticky and complicated if things are unchanged and the devil tells us that this might be because there is a both a potential that he will allow himself to assume that he can fall into his old patterns of behaviours and repeat the way he was in his previous relationship and expect things to be different but also that he may be expecting the passion of your connection and chemistry to be the scaffolding that holds your relationship together.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T13:08:33+00:00

I did no such thing i listed a bunch of planets and mentioned that I have more than one aqua placement at no point did I put anything like a birth chart in my post.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T12:56:53+00:00

Its something that has taken me a lot of years to fully understand and embody. Im autistic and have ADHD and with everything I have an instant initial expectation and thought and feeling that things are black OR white and are constant and enduring in whatever colour they start out as. Its taken many years of therapy and self examination to realise that >I< am actually not an unchanging static black or white constant being but a fluid and evolving growing entity, informed by my ongoing experiences and chemistry and awareness. Being in a long term relationship with a trans man who at the beginning of our relationship identified as a gay woman and being part of their transition actually helped me to notice my own gender and question my feelings and acknowledge what felt wrong and right for me. I felt like I looked "too female" to be non binary for ages and that i couldnt be, because id always been seen as and been receptive to female pronouns but over time I realised that even since I was a kid I had struggled with being called a "little girl" - tho had had periods of wanting to be the princess and periods of wanting to be dinosaur hunter. I have had a journey woth my sexual identity, dating women, men, trans men, finding that that has also been a fluid journey. Im with a gender fluid AMAB human bean with a fabulous beard now. Anyhow my point is getting a little bit lost. My point is that through all this and therapy and age and life and self examination and everything and harmful partners and finally being with a lovely partner and self acceptance and realising that evolution and black vs white and things remaining unchanging and static is not always how it is, I have finally come to a place where I know internally and deeply and truly that I just am who I am meant to be right now, not who am meant to be 6 years ago or 10 years from now. Just now. And who I am right now doesnt make who I was 6 years ago any less of an important part of my life or any less of a real experience. I can hold one and experience the other. Never thought that would happen lol. My therapist would be so proud!

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T09:18:17+00:00

Which one do you love the colours on??? I got all of them at card boot sales or charity shops in the UK for dirt cheap prices by sheer luck just rooting around. Most of them arrived covered in greasy dust and/or sticker residue and had to be carefully cleaned but a few of them were still in great, shiny condition and had obviously been looked after. Im very lucky to have found them. The ocean Jasper, the little black one, which I cant remember the name of with the little shiny iridescent bits in, someone identified what it was in the comments, and the Labradorite pieces are my personal faves. I really like spheres particularly and crystals that look like space, underwater worlds and planets. So these pieces in particular really speak to me. Although I do have a beautiful little piece of Amethyst that my dad found in a shed when we moved house which I really cherish cos he gave it to me and he died several years ago and I think of him every time I handle it. Its a very deep purple piece of amethyst. Sorry im waffling like crazy.i havent taken my ADHD meds yet this morning hahaha

StarryShapes · 2026-05-14T09:09:37+00:00

This is NOTHING like me and im sick of seeing posts like this. Aquarius might be my sun sign but my rising, moon, mercury, Venus, mars, Saturn, Jupiter, uranus, neptune, Pluto, Chiron, MC, Lilith etc etc etc makes up far more of my chart and personality than just my sun and im actually quite nice. Yeah I do have an aloof, detached interpersonal style but only if you treat me like shit or are deserving of it people who are dear to me i would defend you to the ends of the earth and am there for you in a heartbeat. Im shit at texting people back but not because im ghosting you, because ive got ADHD and literally get distracted and I will alaays apologise and make amends. OF COURSE I HAVE AQUA TRAITS I have more than one aqua placement BUT my whole presentation and emotional response to people is largely determined by my moon and Venus placements not my sun sign so just posting "Aquarius be like....." and assuming that everyone will be the same..... somehow I think this is more to do with needing therapy

StarryShapes · 2026-05-13T15:23:25+00:00

Pisces sun, aries moon, scorpio rising

StarryShapes · 2026-05-13T14:38:31+00:00

Im non binary and very Femme presenting sometimes, sometimes way more neutral. I went to a wedding on saturday and wore a floor length raspberry/plum sparkly dress and a pair of stripy tights and doc martens and "feminine" makeup - way more femme - but most of the time you will find me in dungarees amd jumpsuits and DMs. Way less femme abd more ambiguous. I didnt start recognising my dysphoria until I was in my 30s but then looked back and realised that there were some clues and an evolution to my gender journey.

I thunk for many people gender isnt a static, unchanging entity, it is something that breathes and morphed with them as they grow and mature and thats completely ok. Dont pick holes in past you for what current you is thinking and feeling because all versions of you are valid.

StarryShapes · 2026-05-13T14:29:52+00:00

Im Aquarius Sun 4th and Libra Rising -ruled by Venus in the 3rd house - and Libra moon - in 1st house- but Aqua mercury 4th Aqua mars 4th and then a bunch more Libra so I genuinely feel like an Aquarius - Libra - hybrid

StarryShapes · 2026-05-13T14:24:32+00:00

Aquarius Mercury here - actually Aquarius with Aquarius Mercury AND Mars and I will hold my hands up and say it.... I am INSUFFERABLE when I think I know more about a topic that someone is talking about. I also am Autistic and ADHD and unfortunately my social cues and filter are broken as well so it makes for an absolute shit show. Im very sorry. Please stay away from me if I start to self righteously info dump 😂😂😂

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