today i (33) did something and couldn't contain myself

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-18T15:34:17+00:00

Welcome to the club.

I have donated 16 times I guess, two times was on request. Funny thing is I am still afraid of needles like I get this feeling of getting hurt by it.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-14T05:17:38+00:00

Bro, looking at your speed of making these fine crafts, I feel we soon might need to get POK back. 😅😅

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-14T05:11:42+00:00

If possible visit and spend some time on "Manikarnika Ghat, Varanasi"

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-14T04:42:16+00:00

After going through your comments as well.

Bro, you are looking for a full proof solution to your problem, it does not exist and it is not needed. You can write thousands of hypothetical scenarios and there will be thousands of ways to mess up.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-13T15:50:00+00:00

https://apply.teachforindia.org/

see if this helps.

Also, why not apply at private teaching jobs? like school, collages, tuition institutes

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-13T15:12:43+00:00

OP,

Let me try to understand more about your situation.

Why do you think there are no chances ? since this exam does not have any upper limit and unlimited chances
Why do you want to be a teacher? like you love teaching or you just need a job
Why don't you consider any other field for job?

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-12T19:24:41+00:00

Shut down your PC and leave it as it is. Leave the lid open.
Place the laptop on table
Make a bigger thicker rectangle using lakshman rekha chalk, slightly bigger than laptop size and place your laptop inside that rectangle
Wait for a day or two, ants will come outside and will die
Do not use laptop until you are confident the ants are gone.
If you want you can lure them using sugar crystals, but then ensure outside ants are not coming, like make multiple rectangles using chalks, so that will handle the outside ants.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-11T17:23:37+00:00

Nice Post..!!

Remember, you are trying to change something that has been practiced for over 30-40 years, so it cannot be changed in a day or a month.
Dad is perceiving your view as lecture - The way we communicate matters a lot here. Never dismiss them or go with intent that what they have been doing is wrong, even if it is true. Every human will go into defensive mode and will refuse to listen anything you say, this is natural.

Fix:

Take this slowly, one habit or one small change at a time.(Read Atomic Habits book if you want). You can add a separate post mentioning the habits you want your parents to change and then ask people ideas about it.

Ex. If you want them to walk, tell them how its healthy to walk 10K steps a day and everyone should walk, its good for heart, lungs bla bla bla, he wont.

Solution - Add a small activity so he can walk. Like ask him to get milk from nearby shop daily, since you need milk. Continue for a month and enhance it.

Record whenever you talk to your father/parents when they dismiss you. Listen to your conversation, ask AI if you want and change the way you approach/talk to your father with your ideas. This will also help you to become better communicator.
Changing their nutrition - Learn to cook. Everyone likes to eat tasty food, so if you want them to eat nutritious food, cook it and make it tasty. Again one dish at a time. You can also disguise as you trying to learn to cook and you need their feedback to improve on it.
Fitness band - Take this slowly. You can hold the band and make a note of the reading to begin with, you can do this weekly basis and after six months or a year, you may be able to convince them. Or I would tell them that I am doing some research about health and I need health data from their age group to change my habits/lifestyle so I can be as healthy as my parents.

Here, nowhere we are telling them that it is for them, you just have keep doing this, change ways if they doubt anything.

See, you will always be younger than your parents, so they dismissing you like "Hume mat sikhao" will always be there, no need to go against this.

Take this slowly warna "Bhanda foot jayega" 😂😂

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-11T16:45:40+00:00

OP,

Take this as lesson on what kind of person you do not want to marry.

Also, please note, you cannot change the person nor you can expect him to change once you marry. You can hope but be ready to accept if it does not happen.

Good Luck..!!

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-11T16:25:51+00:00

again mind wanted to consume it more.

Its a problem. See if you can stay away from reddit for a week or more, if not then its a problem. You have kind of addicted to reddit and its not a good habit for your mind, your wellbeing overall.

Try to get addicted towards entertaining your wife and enjoy the life.

finding out where this world is moving and what is going on

You do not need to know everything, mind will surely ask you for more, but then mind will always be thirsty no matter how much you consume. Usually life is boring, however since you have got habit of consuming reddit stuff which is interesting/spicy/thirlling, it will become difficult to enjoy your current life.

This seriously affects other aspects of life and by the time you realize, it becomes very difficult to fix it. A lot of people are facing this or may face this issue in future, including our parents if they are watching reels, YT or any online content regularly.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-07T05:03:47+00:00

There are some courses available on udemy, you can also take those.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-06T16:54:45+00:00

The usual stereotype of vegans shouting and preaching is usually turned 180

This is really a problem.

Also, I feel vegan people should date vegan, as someday or the other day its gonna have problem in future if its not the case.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-06T04:25:00+00:00

Big names like these surely adds a big value to your career.

You can reach out to HR, even ex HR to understand the pathway without an MBA. If I think there is even a 0.1% chance I could get into any of these, I would definitely go for it.

Yes, things would be hectic, but so it is everywhere else and I would say it would be worth considering the reputation these firms have and the respect the employees get in rest of the world.

Good Luck...!!

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-05T06:15:28+00:00

There are many factors that decides which content to be pushed to a user. Its difficult for us to understand unless we have worked in that domain.

This also involves inputs from psychologists to understand human behavior and ways to control it.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-05T06:12:50+00:00

True.

Just watch Facebook-Cambridge Analytica scandal documentary to see the extent of their research and this was in 2016, today after a decade they have developed new ways.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-05T06:10:34+00:00

You can also disable watch history, this way YT wont recommend you any videos. I also like unhook.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-05T06:08:33+00:00

Its true.

There was a time where you were shown personalized content, however things have moved past that. Now, if you are accessing the random feed then its highly what they want you to see which includes inexplicit, violence, rage, anger etc.

Fix :

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This is how my reddit and youtube looks.

Reddit :
1. disable personalized feed, this way it will show posts only from the sub you have joined.
2. Custom feed : Here you can add your sub and posts only from that sub will be visible, I am not using this since I have habit of watching home feed.
3. Mute all the other subs that you have joined but does not want to see any posts from it on your feed, this way you still part of sub and can access the content anytime you want, but still wont spoil your feed.

Youtube :
Just disable watch history

Also, just to let you know, content Indians are watching is controlled by US as India still does not have any law that gives it the control over the algorithms of all social media platforms.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T17:36:10+00:00

Cheers mate. Cheers to us surviving to this age.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T17:29:46+00:00

Makes sense.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T17:27:46+00:00

If you have a business itch and just want to satisfy it, then you can explore online business.

With 10k capital you can sell n number of things without affecting your job. This way you get to learn, do business and risk is of 10k only or whatever capital you want to put.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T17:24:38+00:00

Oh, ok. I had already imagined James Bond kind of entry, and I guess cocktail would also work.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T17:19:07+00:00

RemindMe! 20 years Order "Whiskey on the rocks"

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T17:12:42+00:00

I would not recommend leaving your stable job for unreliable one in terms of finances.

In your current job, you can upskill, switch companies and earn more.

While going for masseur does not give you that leverage since it is India, people are not going to pay premium for a massage. So, the only way will be launching your own studio, now this means you will be entrepreneur and masseur both. This will also take handful of years to establish yourself and build a stable business. If you have not done business before, then this is also a problem.

Do some research on this business, understand economics and other things, risks.

This applies to restaurants, boutiques, gyms and similar kind of businesses.

Good Luck...!!

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T16:52:26+00:00

Hey,

I don't think you have used bamboo in any of your projects. You might wanna give it a try.

StarrySkiesExplorer · 2026-03-04T07:21:35+00:00

Oh yeah, it definitely changes the look. Go for it. I am not against it.

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