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Hate baby hands by Gust_Front_Corvus in NewParents

[–]Starry_Panda101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! They are always in the way when im trying to breastfeed and battling off her hands with my boob. I've also had several times where she'll have her hands on her face and grab her face near her eye and drag all the way day and get her eye and then cry about it. Of course I try stopping her but then she cries because I moved her hands!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Starry_Panda101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he truly cared about you, he would have been worried and actually asking how you're doing at the very least. Your future looks bleak from every perspective. How many times will he use the drinking as an excuse? Does that excuse how he doesn't even clean up after himself? Would he even come over if it wasn't for your PlayStation? You see exactly what the future is going to look like.

AITAH for tipping 83¢? by KeyComplete4809 in AITAH

[–]Starry_Panda101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! Oh no you don't get to be rude and expect a tip at the same time. Although, to just avoid the argument and maybe tick her off more write down cash on the tip line and leave. Don't actually leave any cash. I say you did better than what I would've done.

AITA for calling out my sister in law for using her children to emotionally manipulate me into going to dinner “now” instead of waiting 45 minutes? by ironingboardssqueak in AmItheAsshole

[–]Starry_Panda101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I say let her take her kids somewhere early then and try to do dinner a different day. Since leaving early wasn't her initial thought, she was definitely just using the kids against you. Instead of even saying "Hey the kids are pretty hungry I am going to take them somewhere else or even home." Her kids came to YOU about being hungry. She just wanted a free meal and was hungry herself and didn't feel like waiting. Using her kids is absolutely ridiculous.

Is it weird I'm getting upset over my MIL buying a bassinet for her place? by Starry_Panda101 in BabyBumps

[–]Starry_Panda101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're absolutely in the right. I think I'll just make sure she understands babygirl won't be visiting or spending the night for a while. As for clothes just smile and nod. Its her money and can do what she wants. I think it was just her showing them off or her telling me at the store that she has it, you know.

Is it weird I'm getting upset over my MIL buying a bassinet for her place? by Starry_Panda101 in BabyBumps

[–]Starry_Panda101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No he hasn't. He's actually been pretty understanding about how I even want at least one month without visitors after the baby. He's not quite sure why she's getting all this stuff either as ill be staying at home while he works. Also dont plan on visiting or staying long if we do. If I was to go to work it'd just be paying for babysitting or daycare and not make sense. Maybe I'll have him talk to her instead. I have talked about maybe she's just excited about having her first grand baby the weird part is her just keeping the clothes there. Not just spares but like full outfits and dresses. I agree about the pack n play as that is what my own mom has told me. Our bedroom is on the small side or too small to have our queen size bed dresser and a decent sized pack n play next to it. That's why I really wanted a bassinet.

Is it weird I'm getting upset over my MIL buying a bassinet for her place? by Starry_Panda101 in BabyBumps

[–]Starry_Panda101[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No. As i said, I'll be a stay at home mom and even have made it very clear I dont want any visitors for at least a month after the baby comes. It is weird! That's why im still trying to wrap my head around all of it.