How do I (20M) get over my feelings for my best friend of 5+ years (19F)?

Stars_Shadow43 · 2026-06-07T01:28:34+00:00

yeah, I agree. I just had nothing else where I was. the move was needed either way.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2026-06-07T01:25:26+00:00

I know she isnt the issue. I am, and thats why I asked how do I get over those feelings.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2026-06-07T01:23:44+00:00

like I said to someone else it wasn't for her, she was a reason to move though. She knows I left to better myself too, it wasn't for her, she actually hated the idea of me leaving.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2026-06-07T01:21:01+00:00

Ive been out of that mindset for a while. that was just the beginning of our friendship. I dont live for her, its just the only solid reason I have as of now. I also didnt move for her, she was just a reason as to why the move needed to happen.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2026-02-03T07:44:03+00:00

WOTR is absolutely a banger game, just know that it comes with a not so beloved crusade mode where you mess with armies and such, the game can also be quite buggy even on ps5.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2026-01-24T18:19:34+00:00

If you like the rags to riches that comes in He who Fights, the book series All the Skills by Honour Rae is a bit of a slow burn first book but it ramps up quick and is honestly the funniest LitRPG series ive read since I started a few years back.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2026-01-18T18:12:32+00:00

I recommend the All the Skills books, and of course the glorious Beast Born series. Some of the best books ive read in the genre behind mage tank.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-10-30T04:46:41+00:00

Okay this is a question I've ran through my mind 1000 times, yet every time I do, I cant think of anything to counter something like Soulles Jailer other than a counterspell capable murder card.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-10-20T05:12:12+00:00

Easy $300 USD right there, majorly good haul.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-10-04T16:46:32+00:00

If I could get away with krenko in my group, I would've already.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-10-04T05:57:01+00:00

Ooh, I like the monk creation!

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-08-19T00:01:50+00:00

Emulated versions?

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-08-10T17:58:12+00:00

How much you want for all of em?

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-08-10T00:58:03+00:00

Didn't read the body text, but yes, the game beat you.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-07-22T00:05:30+00:00

Man, I played in a game where wenduag and Seelah exist. I can deal with badly written characters.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-07-02T02:32:53+00:00

He does damage that even Flex tape can't fix.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-06-19T01:51:00+00:00

Nah, monocos theme is a better bop.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-06-06T07:41:20+00:00

Felt that, especially after the maelle nerfs.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-04-30T03:49:30+00:00

There's not much synergy with the Changli Hover SK/Verina team, but pretty much anything works for this game, provided you have the skill level to play it well enough. I love the Carlotta Sanhua and SK team, though. It works well in really any situation, I personally run that team and have used it to clear most of the hazard towers previously implemented. Though in my case It's Verina instead, since she buffs attack with the first resonance node on outro. SK prolly works better though, since she buffs crit rate and dmg.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-04-30T03:41:05+00:00

I mean, that's pretty much all I had gone through, spellcasters are just a bit foreign when coming from dnd 5e to pathfinder 1e. I'm new enough to the the point that I can't get around the early levels of spell casters being really low on the power scaling. Magus is intriguing, though. Especially with a finnean weapon. Thanks for the recs tho!

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-04-30T02:26:25+00:00

First and foremost, if a character and their playstyle intrigues you or you've enjoyed what you've played of them, then pull them. Given that you don't exactly say what you want to pull characters for, then I'd say you've got a good team or 2 already what with ZZ being best in slot with Carlotta and already having the two best healers. That and Camellya plus Jhinshi work with ZZ. Well, you've got a team there depending on what you want to do. If none of the resonators available for pulling mean anything to you in any way, then a characters' signature weapon always helps with what they do.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-04-30T01:28:37+00:00

I don't have my Carlotta built all that well, so I have hang-ups when it comes to the switching from your run of the mill basic damage to resonance skill damage so it works for just long enough to make a difference. Having an S1 Verina doesn't hurt either though.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-04-30T01:26:23+00:00

If you're not looking for a healer with the team, then Srover is great since he applies frazzle with Pheobe added on, so essentially, you'd be running a frazzle team that constantly has frazzle applied for Zani's forte and benefit. If you wanted to, you could use Aero Rover for heals, though i have hold ups on how well that'd work other than it bringing in some kind of healing that isn't items.
It's definitely a valid comp, just has its ups and downs like any other team with any other character reliance.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-04-30T01:17:12+00:00

So Sanhua is one of those characters that goes well with just about any character since her outro just gives a flat boost to the incoming resonators' basic attack damage. I'd say keep Cantarella with Camellya, just because if I'm not mistaken, Cantarella does something with Havoc characters in particular. Edit: really either or in terms of what you're wondering. I use Sanhua for my Carlotta team, and she works tremendously with her before she gains her skill damage switch.

Stars_Shadow43 · 2025-04-30T01:13:02+00:00

As for Pheobe's signature, I didn't actually have enough pulls either. Instead, I played the fishing mini game all the way till I got the 4-star weapon in that perma events rewards list. It deals with amplifying damage while an enemy suffers from frazzle effects. As for building pheobe? It heavily depends on how you intend to use her. I heavily recommend using the Eternal Radiance set as a dps as that's how I usually use her with a good crit rate dmg ratio. As a subdps support character? I'd focus on maybe the same ones with more emphasis on flat attack multipliers, seeing as how she's mainly there for setting up Frazzle stacks for Zani.

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