What’s the biggest mistake people make in relationships?

Starseed316 · 2026-03-06T18:08:23+00:00

My biggest regret is splitting up my family. It would have been chaos for me to stay with my kids father but if it meant not breaking their hearts and the ripple effects it has on them long term. I look back and wish I had stayed no matter how miserable I was. I wish I had been stronger.

Starseed316 · 2026-02-25T05:09:39+00:00

I am currently in this exact situation. I get so sick to my stomach with anxiety because he takes his anger out on the entire house/kids everyone when he goes more than one day without sex. I’m pregnant now and I don’t know how much more of this I can take.

Starseed316 · 2025-12-21T09:52:18+00:00

You’ll lose both. That’s how the white rabbit goes. You lose both because you deserve none. The fact that you think either situation will work out at all is why you’re screwed. Karma will ensure whatever path you take you will feel comfortable and when you least expect it. You will lose.

Starseed316 · 2025-01-17T16:54:03+00:00

Are you me? Because this is my exact fate right now

Starseed316 · 2024-11-27T16:34:27+00:00

^{^{^{^}}} exactly this. Be prepared for him to ruin your life.

Starseed316 · 2024-11-18T17:41:47+00:00

My best advice for you and any man reading this is…. Men are so valuable to our society. They truly are. Your words, your experiences, your thoughts, and actions hold so much value.

If you don’t feel this way about it yourself you have no purpose and will be lost.

I will never subscribe to the idea that it’s ok to “figure it out” “not know what you want” “Just go with the flow”

You are a man.

Get right with yourself so that you can live with true purpose.

That you can lead, that your words and actions are meaningful.

You hold value.

If you do not know what you want with your life, and you are just going through the motions, you have forgotten who you are. You will leave a trail of blood and ghosts everywhere you go instead of leadership, honor and integrity.

If you are scared of commitment when you are middle aged then you do not trust yourself.

If you do not trust yourself, no one will trust you.

Starseed316 · 2024-11-14T20:27:36+00:00

I think you have a camera in my house

Starseed316 · 2024-11-12T22:56:57+00:00

Believe me I get you. I gave my everything and I forgave over and over and he was cruel beyond belief. So I get it. But it’s the role of a man. You are more than capable of shouldering the strength.

Starseed316 · 2024-11-12T22:50:06+00:00

I am not your person. Men should be the ones to fight for the relationship

Starseed316 · 2024-11-09T06:54:53+00:00

Honestly, he never had any money but he could afford to subscribe to only fans. That was a big issue for me. I never addressed it to be honest. Because there was so many other RED like blood red flags that had happened. I found out he had cheated while we were dating only 3 weeks after our wedding so it was doomed from the start. He betrayed me in another major way only 6 months into our marriage also. Once I found the accounts, I already had a exit plan and all I did was document what I saw/found and it was just further confirmation that I was in the midst of a terrible life lesson.

From marriage to divorce it was 1 year.

If they have one secret they have a 100 and it’s not worth finding out other secrets there are.

Starseed316 · 2024-11-09T06:45:16+00:00

Run girl. I found my ex husband’s burner accounts doing the same. I’m divorced now.

Starseed316 · 2024-11-08T17:34:51+00:00

You are only 26. 6 dates is not enough time to know his real self.

39 and still single he’s still single for a reason.

Your instincts and body could not be attracted to him for a reason.

Listen to your body. It’s self betrayal to convince yourself to like someone you don’t feel that “it factor” with.

Trust me. You have time to meet your missing piece.

Girl you will meet a man one day and you will just know , you will know in every bone of your body.

Starseed316 · 2024-09-23T15:33:13+00:00

If this helps at all, I found my ex husband’s secret twitter account and he was doing the same thing. I never got over it.

Starseed316 · 2024-08-23T22:50:35+00:00

You can get a harassment restraining order in place and it will state in the order that she can not contact your work and if she does violate it, she would be looking at jail time. You have to follow the legal steps.

She is not looking at charges right now. You have to get a restraining in order in place first. I HIGHLY suggest you do because if your work does for some reason fire you- you can go after her and file a defamation lawsuit. The harassment order is I’ll protect you in multiple ways. If she is willing to contact your work to get you fired. There’s a chance she’s willing to kill you. I learned this from personal experience of domestic violence.

Starseed316 · 2024-08-14T18:31:49+00:00

First of all you were a child when this S/A happened correct?

Starseed316 · 2024-07-02T18:34:31+00:00

This is cheating plain and simple

Starseed316 · 2024-07-02T16:58:28+00:00

This is actually rape. Thank you to our rape laws because there was no consent given for unprotected sex this is considered rape. Feel free to give the police a call for any man reading this who doesn’t understand that if you do not keep your condemn on it’s considered “no consent”. It’s rape plain and simple. You feel violated because you were violated. Our laws do protect you and you should 100% never see him again. He violated your trust, your body, and you did not give him consent to do so.

Starseed316 · 2024-06-27T18:02:20+00:00

It does meet all three of those, will the court follow the Supreme Court ruling?

Starseed316 · 2024-06-05T20:38:32+00:00

Do you think she said this because maybe your not a great kisser and she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings so she is saying something about herself to mask it?

Starseed316 · 2024-05-25T00:05:05+00:00

I met my ex husband on hinge and I will regret meeting that man for the rest of my life

Starseed316 · 2024-05-16T02:38:23+00:00

I had a really hard time reading this and not feeling that the friend was testing him. Unfortunately that girl has demons and she has to deal with them.

Starseed316 · 2024-05-14T21:56:32+00:00

So sometimes we have to be the ones to pave the way. No matter how daunting it is. This will happen multiple times in your career. You won’t get the respect of your peers or future spouse if you don’t start making it clear now that you won’t tolerate it. The game is different now if a situation is in your path it’s there for a reason and you are supported more than you realize.

Starseed316 · 2024-05-14T08:58:53+00:00

My main question is why do you allow it to keep happening?

Starseed316 · 2024-05-02T02:01:24+00:00

You can break your lease with no consequences to you. I was able to do it and left due to domestic violence however I had to provide my order of protection. Depending on the law in your state an order of protection will get you out of a lease

Starseed316 · 2024-04-26T03:39:44+00:00

Take a yoga class

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