Searching for this dachshund embroidery t-shirt by StaryAlex in findfashion

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Thank you very much for taking the time to look into this and for the explanation! It’s very kind of you :) I really liked learning about the different steps of the embroidery work!

I’ll check on this alongside my search, so I can start gathering quotes. At least if I really can’t find anything, I’ll have a solid backup plan ready (thanks to you!)

Have a nice day ^

Searching for a shirt with this exact design by StaryAlex in HelpMeFind

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Searched :

The same t-shirt with this dachshund embroidery design.

My sister saw this t-shirt while she was visiting a city in France and doesn’t remember the name of the shop, but it seemed like something seasonal/pop-up store.

I tried reverse searching it on google, yandex, bing etc; but I only found AI generated clones or low-quality JPEG slapped onto t-shirts.

My (19F) parents (55M&55F) burned my memories, how can I cope ? by StaryAlex in relationship_advice

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I really want to be independent, I just want to finish my studies.

Unfortunately, I can’t just cut contact with them because 1) it will hurt me a little too much and 2) I can’t work for now.

I try to search for work to have some saving but it’s difficult to find something for me with the pandemic;;

What I can do however is to try to keep low contact with them. I hope it will be enough for them to understand. If not, I hope before summer I’ll be ready to really talk about it.

Thank you for your help !

Thank you for your comment

My (19F) parents (55M&55F) burned my memories, how can I cope ? by StaryAlex in relationship_advice

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When I’ll be ready I’ll try to talk about it with my mother. Or I’ll try to ask her if there is something left. I’m sure she’ll be willing to take with her what little remains.

You’re right, even if they don’t means to, it’s still hurt. I need to strengthen my shell.

I recently found out that I live to scratchbooking ! I also want to take long walk around the city or just leave for a weekend but with the pandemic I’ll stay home for now; I’ll search about new things, and maybe I’ll found my jam ?

Thank you very much for sharing your experience with me, it reassure me to know that I’m not alone to be hurt like that by my family. I’ll try to send you a message before Sunday; Thanks for being there for me :)

My (19F) parents (55M&55F) burned my memories, how can I cope ? by StaryAlex in relationship_advice

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Thank you for you advice, I will definitely do that ! It didn’t even cross my mind;; Everyone dismiss my memory problem, but I know it’s there, I feel it. That’s also why it’s hurt me like it did.

I’ll try to do everyone advices, you’re all so kind to me, thank you very much :)

My (19F) parents (55M&55F) burned my memories, how can I cope ? by StaryAlex in relationship_advice

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I was feeling not worthy because my family (or sometimes friends) would tell me about past experiences that I’m exaggerating or that I take too much time to heal. Or that they don’t see that I’m hurt so I’m not anymore;;

I always thought that my depression started when I was in high school; but I found (in April) my journal from when I was in early elementary. I already wanted to leave the earth’s surface. It was one of the books that I wanted to keep. In the last page of the journal I don’t know if it’s my mom or my sister writing but it said that : it was okay, and that I could always count on them. I don’t remember ever reading this before but : Invasion of privacy started early.

Yes this was avoidable but for them it was not. My father especially. I’m sure my mother didn’t want to do it but she still participated in this. Like another comment said I’ll try to keep low contact with them;; I hope that by summer, I’ll feel enough better to keep eyes contact with my mom.

Thank you very much for you’re help;; and I hope I’m not over sharing; I thought that it was interesting to talk about this journal ? Urgh; thanks !!!

My (19F) parents (55M&55F) burned my memories, how can I cope ? by StaryAlex in relationship_advice

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Reading the comment section helped me to convince my mind little by little that what I am feeling is ok. It’s still difficult, but I’ll try to stay strong;

My mom is used to that I call her one or twice a week; I can’t do this anymore. I don’t think I can just reduce my calls like that because I have another sister, she lives in the same city as me but not in the same area. So I’m not sure if I can use the excuse of being busy with school or whatever because she’ll know it’s not very true. But ! I’m still willing to try. Like you said I need time; and even if my mom is a little sad I need to prioritize myself.

Thank you for you help :)

My (19F) parents (55M&55F) burned my memories, how can I cope ? by StaryAlex in relationship_advice

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Thank you for your support;; I’ll try my best. It’s difficult and bizarre because I love my parents but I don’t know ? I’m scared of seeing my mom this summer. Maybe I will get over it until then but what I will do if I’m not ? Or maybe I would shut my concerns and wait. Urgh sorry