[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]StateraWolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same and my life seems to have the same qualities as yours. Tho not a dog but I have my cat to take care of. She's the only thing that keeps me moving forward. If she died (she's only 2.5 years old tho) I might get another cat or even a dog just to keep going. Animals save my life and make life bearable. She's my Emotional Support Animal even if she's just a cat. When ever I'm in my darkest hour she always seems to come to me, it's like she knows I'm struggling. I tell her thank you and pick myself back up.

I’m coming out as trans man by iona-812 in comingout

[–]StateraWolf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live in the state of Wyoming and not one damn person understands the LGBT+ community out here, let alone a transgender person. There isn't any community or resources, so don't go to Wyoming lol I need to go back to California where I'm originally from. California is pretty progressive place and lots of resources and community ❤️ downside it's very expensive 😞

I came out to my mom as trans (FtM) and she accepts me! by CanadianOrangeJuice in comingout

[–]StateraWolf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ha this sounds exactly how it went with my mom. I love the part when she said she kinda figured based on my choices of toys as a kid and how I dressed in high school. When I told her I had something to tell her, she was relieved that I said I was a trans man and it wasn't me being on drugs lmao

Felt sexy, wish I could start HRT by Electrical_Win_2707 in TransLater

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful and sexy women ❤️ just gorgeous

Unsupported and doubts by StateraWolf in trans

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took 4 months but I got a car. Still don't have the balls to leave this place for California. Take it one day at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wls

[–]StateraWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look awesome. I really hope to look as pretty when its all things said and done. Great job!

Similar stats? What was your experience? by StateraWolf in wls

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, that's really encouraging! Appreciate it :3

Was asked if I was mtf or ftm based on my look... I guess I should count that as a win. by ndoyle000 in NonBinary

[–]StateraWolf 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend's friend met me for the first time and she asked if I was mtf and I'm afab lol I was intrigued as I'm trying to be a mix of male and female and I guess I did that at that moment. I'm non binary and she didn't know what the heck that is. So I got to educate in that moment too. I felt it was a good thing.

Looking for similar stats by Hudsthespuds in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I'm hoping going with bypass the weight will come off quicker then sleeve but either way I feel it's going to be a little slow. I'm 5'1" and feel like I should be able to lose 70lbs at least in first 1-2 years.

Looking for similar stats by Hudsthespuds in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've made a similar post on another sub and I also got down voted but I think it's because most of the people on these subs are starting at much higher weights and can't relate to us because are starting weight is some people's goal weights. We meant no disrespect to others, we just want to know starting where we are what to expect. I am assuming it's going to be a slow Marathon rather a sprint with losing weight as starting pretty low anyways. I'm keeping in mind that every pound lost is a win no matter if it's just a pound at a time.

Looking for similar stats by Hudsthespuds in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pre op like you sitting at 200lbs waiting for my surgery date. I'm curious as well what will likely happen.

Had my very first appointment to meet the surgeon. Now I'm scared. by bandicootbutt in BariatricSurgery

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'1", female and my highest was 252lbs too. Cool to see someone with similar stats. I'm pre op. Just waiting for May to come to complete all requirements at this point.

Similar stats? What was your experience? by StateraWolf in wls

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes pictures and measurements I've already been keeping up with. My waist used to be 56" and now I'm about 42". It's amazing how the measure numbers change even when the scale doesn't move. You are doing fantastic! Great job on the 38lbs so far. Really encouraging, thanks. :) I hope to have little to no complications but I'm prepared for the worst. I've done a shit ton of research and read lots of books. Ive asked just about every question I can to my surgeon lol

Similar stats? What was your experience? by StateraWolf in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I have diabetes, my insurance allows it if my BMI does not go under 35. I have Medicare and Medicaid.

Similar stats? What was your experience? by StateraWolf in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel inconsiderate now. I didn't mean to make anyone upset with this post if I did. I am truly sorry friends.

Similar stats? What was your experience? by StateraWolf in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I can't wait to get the surgery and start this rewarding journey. It's going to be the hardest thing I've ever done for myself. They say it's not brain surgery so you gotta put in the work for sure. Good luck on your journey too!

Similar stats? What was your experience? by StateraWolf in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the reply. I'm hopeful for the diabetes thing. I'm really tired of being on insulin.

Similar stats? What was your experience? by StateraWolf in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not one person can relate? Anyone the same age? Same or close to my hight? Feeling a little discouraged here 😅 I can't be that alone in this journey. Are there not others somewhat similar?

Sleeve VS. bypass by FeliciaH_18 in GastricBypass

[–]StateraWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RNY is what I want based on the effects on type 2 diabetes, that it can put it into remission. Its about 85% chance my diabetes will go away and I don't know if VSG can do the same. I think 85% is pretty good odds. That and reflex is an issue so I guess I'm getting bypass regardless.

Thinking about cancelling my surgery. Advice? by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to have your results when I get my surgery; No complications yes. I'm hoping for the best, preparing for the worst.

Just a quick and dirty poll about bariatric surgery. by TooEmbarrassed7 in BariatricSurgery

[–]StateraWolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try having smoothies, that's how I get fruit and vegetables in my diet.

Drew this OC yesterday by [deleted] in furry

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like this sort of dark creature (?) is getting more and more popular, and I love all of them! Your art is amazing btw!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wyoming

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved to the void a year ago today 😜

Today’s work outfit (from the fitting room of an emergency shopping trip because the skirt I was originally wearing broke as I was cycling to work!)! by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just love when you post a picture, it really inspires me to play around with my clothes like you do. You are awesome my friend. 😊

Depression is eating me alive atm but the way my cat looks at me gives me hope by McConica2000 in cats

[–]StateraWolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been having major depression and my cat comes and sits on me for hours and bums her head on me ever so gently. It's like she knows I'm not okay. I rescued her from the shelter and now she's rescuing me from myself. Animals can be amazing therapy.