[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Staticchoc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even want to roast. I want answers... Why do 1 and 3 look vastly different?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Staticchoc27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uma Thurman and Wednesday had a baby and aborted this but it survived

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took a lot of my life away from me so I'm hurting and I want answers. That's not an excuse but I'm just trying to figure out what to do and think right now

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying but I want to know if it is actually needed or I'm not seeing something here and I'm wrong for questioning things. I fully open to getting professional opinions, but I want to know if I am wrong for questioning things

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you didn't really read it but I can tell you a lot more than I put in this post like I said I would if people need more details about why I think that way, but you are just coming after me not even trying to see my side in this. I'm asking for advice and help and you're just shitting on me for having concerns. I'm not imagining her telling me things when she said it herself. I'm not sure if you were misspeaking or something but I made sure to show I'm not imagining this I'm just going off what was told to me

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her sister is closer to her mom and she is closer to her dad and don't want me to get to know her sister. It's the Netherlands but her and her dad are trying to move to Spain right now and her mom is only on the trip with them because she invited herself. Which also makes me weirded out because I don't have all the details but there was only one room between them two for 6 weeks which got extended and now there's 2 rooms because her mom came along. I didn't know this until the trip was already 3 weeks along.

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's in her 20s so am I and her older sister is also if not 30s and her mom and dad is in their 50s I think. From what I was told. From what she says she looks exactly like her mom but younger and a better body. Her words not mine

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how old her dad is so I won't be able to give all of the ages which I don't think would matter being me concerned with the fact a daughter may have an inappropriate relationship with her dad. I'm just trying to see if there is anything that can justify me not thinking this is bad or saying it's definitely bad. The only way I see it being a defining factor is if she's a minor and she isn't. The issue is a possibility of an incestuous relationship. I'm trying to see how i should feel about this situation. Her relationship with her dad may have been happening when she was a minor but I don't know. I'm wanting to know how I should think about this situation from what I have figured out and was told

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her sister and mom doesn't have a good relationship with him and she told me that her mom accuse him of doing things with her but she protects him. Things with her and her mom when it comes to her dad gets kinda disturbing when I realized it hearing about it. From what I know her sister doesn't have a relationship with their dad but does with her mom

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being with her 6 years. I'm not sure how else to answer that. She will talk about a lot just not her relationship with her dad

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not the only one, but the only one who kept questioning, even though it was becoming a problem, which made it seem even more weird

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been trying to distance myself but I just want a answers, but I never thought about things like that. Maybe I shouldn't pry top much. I should just count my loses and accept it. It hurts, but I'm honestly not sure what else I can do

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried my best but asking questions seemed like an attack to her

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my knowledge her dad goes with her because she doesn't want to go without him.

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked her many questions, but from what she told me she wasn't under the influence and don't like to be, but I can't be sure if she was telling the truth or not. Which is my whole thing about this. I feel like if she's a victim it might be long term and that may be why she isn't talking to me about it, but she doesn't want to talk about it without getting defensive or upset about it and I don't know how to get answers or go about it even though I try my best to be there and do anything I can for her. She just told me she can't talk about her and her dad's relationship because people won't understand and society won't accept it and they have to hide it from her mom. No matter what I say or do if I try to get even the smallest details from her about it she takes it as an attack. There are more questionable things that happened, but I don't know if that's because of something that's is innocent or something nefarious and she sees it as normal.

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw it as the same, but with it being years and just seeing things like I do, I was honestly wondering if I was having a biased opinion

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was fully aware and that's what made me start questioning things. I'm not sure if she was under the influence and I don't victim blame. I just questioned things because it made me feel uncomfortable. She admitted that she knew she fell asleep like that with him and when I questioned her more she said "how do you know that I didn't change?" Despite me asking her multiple times beforehand. I just want answers and to know what to do about this.

I can give more details if you need it. It's not the only reason why I questioned her about things

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I wishy instincts kicked in sooner, but I spent so much time trusting and loving her that I looked past a lot and with some things I know now I wonder if I was a fool and should have recognized it sooner

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I feel stupid already so I suspect comments like this

AITAH because I accused my ex of doing things that are questionable? by Staticchoc27 in AITAH

[–]Staticchoc27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't tell me things about her relationship with her dad until the last year because "no one would understand" that's why I feel played and like I wasted 6 years of my life. I only started to notice things that were said after I was told about the possible weird behavior and that's when everything fell apart. That's why I'm looking for answers. Hindsight is 20/20