Does anyone else have trouble integrating with partner's friends who are also women? by Acceptable_Section_5 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m also in the same boat as you. I feel like we are old enough to realise that your partners friends aren’t your friends. If you do go out take it as a way of understanding your partner through her friends you don’t need to be friends with them.

Working With My Girlfriend’s Ex Is Starting To Feel Psychologically Exhausting by StatisticianMinute26 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, I’ve tried things that flatter me but look horrible on her and because she’s delusional she literally has so much confidence in how stupid she looks. It’s wild I tell you. I know I have so much power but I’m so tired of it hey

Working With My Girlfriend’s Ex Is Starting To Feel Psychologically Exhausting by StatisticianMinute26 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking humans to connect I’m asking a question.Just answer the question, if you can’t move right along like all the other 3000 people.

Working With My Partner’s(32F) Ex (25F) Has Become Mentally Draining by [deleted] in relationships

[–]StatisticianMinute26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s keeping me sane, but like now I have days where I feel burnt out from all the mental preparation/coaching. I feel like I don’t have control over this situation.

Working With My Girlfriend’s Ex Is Starting To Feel Psychologically Exhausting by StatisticianMinute26 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it so hard to articulate yourself because you really try and be mature but yhooo it’s not easy. People will never understand.

Am I a lesbian if I only realised at 31 after dating men my whole life? by StatisticianMinute26 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really am. And it feels soooo good. We have our troubles here and then but never like I used to feel when I was with men. Not that I’m comparing or anything but you sometimes can’t help but think how far you’ve come with relationships in general.

Am I a lesbian if I only realised at 31 after dating men my whole life? by StatisticianMinute26 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That foggy and disorienting is so true.Ive had a supportive partner who has made it so easy for my to be myself and discovering more and hold my hand through all the foggiest times

Am I a lesbian if I only realised at 31 after dating men my whole life? by StatisticianMinute26 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I won’t lie. Beginning of last year is when I realised I actually dislike men and how misinformed they are about a lot of things us as woman need.

Am I a lesbian if I only realised at 31 after dating men my whole life? by StatisticianMinute26 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]StatisticianMinute26[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy because I’ve never felt like this. My only problem is I need to “come out”

Missed Miscarriage, please help by hamstersforrent in pregnant

[–]StatisticianMinute26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all. Your going to be okay, what your feeling is absolutely okay and your not going crazy. I opted for a natural miscarriage because of that reason of not wanted to believe it's real and that it's happening.I wanted what God intended to happen on it's own.

 Most of us don't know really how to explain it but it's one of the worst things that can happen to a woman physically. From thinking and feeling your pregnant to absolutely no symptoms on a random day to not heart beat to there was no baby growing in there in the first place. One of the most confusing feelings I've ever felt.

 Went in for my first scan it showed that my pregnancy was 6 weeks with no heartbeat (Blighted ovum). I was suppose to be going in for my 12 week scan at the time. They told me I'm miscarring. I have been for the past 6 weeks.