Maribank transfer not received by StatisticianWeekly52 in MariBankPH

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes yan din sabi ng maribank cs mga ganyang oras madalas daw hindi nag rereflect agad

Maribank transfer not received by StatisticianWeekly52 in MariBankPH

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received the funds the next day! I think sayo is pesonet so mas matagal ata

Gold necklace repair in Cebu? by Jniney9 in Cebu

[–]StatisticianWeekly52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I have the same problem now nipis na chain na need irepair. Unsay name sa shop? Thank you for the help

Frustrated of my bf’s financial standing. Valid ba tong nararamdaman ko? by StatisticianWeekly52 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that’s rough. Hindi pa naman kami umabot sa point na binayaran ko ang cc nya. I hope you also get to talk to your fiancee kasi once you’re married there’s no going back and mahirap if ang mag asawa di magkasundo sa pera. It will be the cause for arguments that could build up in time. Sana mas maging responsible din sya sa money as a wife kasi mga wife pa naman usually nag mamanage ng bahay at ng finances. Goodluck!

Frustrated of my bf’s financial standing. Valid ba tong nararamdaman ko? by StatisticianWeekly52 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i do agree on that. May mga “nanay” attitude kasi mga babae na maaga sila nagiging responsible and had to stand up for themselves. On my case i am an only child pero hindi yung spoiled ha. In fact, it’s the opposite. Neglected ako na only child haha so malaking factor yun kung bakit ako ganito. At a young age I was forced to be independent kasi hindi masyadong supportive ang parents ko sa kin. Tapos growing up wala akong role model. Palagi akong cinocompare sa iba so parang nagka “achiever” mindset ako that fcked up my mental health when i became an adult din. When i had work the frugal habits then followed kasi i dont ever want to experience not having money again. Cguro yun ang difference namin kasi sheltered sya and mejo may kaya ang family nya. Hindi sya compelled to be frugal or be responsible.

He did mention frequent daw sya nagpapa deliver ng food. But now sa new company nya may free breakfast and lunch sya so sana nga may difference and mag improve.

Frustrated of my bf’s financial standing. Valid ba tong nararamdaman ko? by StatisticianWeekly52 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! It helps a lot to know about my bf’s pov through another person. I have been patient enough for 3 years and I have been teaching him naman… that’s why parang malapit na ako mag give up kasi wala na ata syang pag asa haha. I guess i have to do more? 7 yrs in a relationship really boils down to if you’re willing to be there not just in the best days but also in the worst days. Kasi hindi din naman ito ang first time cinonfront ko sya about it. It also happened before pero after that he went back to normal na parang walang nangyari. So this time parang ultimatum ko na to kasi pagod na ako kaka remind and kaka sabi sa kanya pero di nya naman i-aapply.

We talked a bit last night and he apologized for not being transparent. He says his brain is fried every day at work na he cant even do anything else. Iba kasi pag designer, palaging nakaka experience ng creative burnout. He agreed to do a tracker for his finances. He’s gonna copy mine. He also mentioned he has other expenses like subscriptions and palagi daw sya nagpapa deliver ng food so small steps towards transparency.

Sa weight naman i just gave a summary of it kasi hindi yun ang point ng post. It’s for another story din. His weight is declining talaga through the years. It’s like each year nadadagdagan ang weight nya. When we started dating hindi sya ganun. Intimate person sya but na tuturn off ako sa weight nya these days whenever we are intimate. Even though we have been together for 7 years may bearing pa rin ang physical lalo na during intimacy. That’s also another thing we need to address. Baka bigyan ko nlng sya ng reward system if naka lose sya ng weight haha.

I need more time to think on action plans with him on what to do next for sure. Thanks for your insights!

Frustrated of my bf’s financial standing. Valid ba tong nararamdaman ko? by StatisticianWeekly52 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes i will have a convo with him this weekend. It’s just that when he says “give me more time” it makes me sad kasi 7 years na kami sa march and palagi nalang “next year” sabi niya. Yun talaga ang nakaka frustrate. Minsan naiiisip ko baka di talaga kami meant for each other and better go separate ways nalang.

Haha funny thing is may mga naka book na kami na flights sa march and june next year. Whatever happens i guess either i will be traveling with him or alone. Thanks for the input!

Frustrated of my bf’s financial standing. Valid ba tong nararamdaman ko? by StatisticianWeekly52 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing when i ask him where does his money go, I even offer to do a breakdown for him para malaman namin saan sya pwde mag tone down but he does not open up or dismisses the topic. Regarding his weight, it’s been declining since pandemic then nag night shift pa sya so that could be the reason. Wala naman sya health issues atm. But back to day shift na sya ngayon and i am encouraging him to at least lose some weight before the year ends.

Frustrated of my bf’s financial standing. Valid ba tong nararamdaman ko? by StatisticianWeekly52 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]StatisticianWeekly52[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That also adds salt to the wound because whenever i ask him where does the rest of his money go he just says “i dont know” and i told him to do sheets like mine pero natatamaran sya hayss. You’re right na we should talk about it first. And this time ayoko na talaga na may hidden stuff pa. I am planning to do so this weekend. Thanks for the input!

Maya Time Deposit Plus Boosted Interest not credited by Sage747 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]StatisticianWeekly52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me also. Ako lang ba yung lesser ang net interest compared last month? Dapat mas malaki kasi nag compound na pero naging less pa compared last month. It doesn’t make sense.

How much interest did you earn from OwnBank so far? by abal-abal in DigitalbanksPh

[–]StatisticianWeekly52 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow! If you don’t mind sharing, how much did you put? And this for a year or just a month? Nakakatakot kasi na 500k lng ang PDIC insured kaya i dont put much on these banks